What should I do?

I'm lonely as hell, and I keep getting shot down!!

I'm sick and fucking tired of all these meaningless sex-based relationships!!

There is this girl I like, that I can prolly have, but she claims she is busy all Christmas brake.

What should I do?

Don't say murder/suicide, or huff/hugg raid.

Thats.

How lonely is Mr./Mrs. Fuck?

Well let me go more into depth here, don't say be myself, because I'm at a stage in my life where I don't know who I am anymore.

I enjoy stealing shit, but that is only because I don't have anyone to tell me NOT to.

I kinda want a girl that can tell me not to do the stupid shit I do, one who's only justification for telling me not to is that she loves me.

Quit basing relationships around sex then, thats bullshit about not knowing who you are yourself. Just act how you naturally feel, dont try to change anything about yourself.

Try waiting for this girl over Christmas break, hope she can find some time to talk to you. Get to know each other more and more and you might have a decent relationship.

I'm not basing them around sex.

Finding a girl that isn't just using me as a hook up, or a body guard, or a money tree (which is funny cuz I have no money), or just to get back at someone isn't as easy as I thought.

And I DON'T know who I am. With some people drinking and partying seems natural, with others sitting and reading a book or having a decent meal seems fun.

Don't worry, you'll find someone, you just have to look deeper. In my expereince, the people who want meaningfull relationships are usually harder to find, simply becuase they make themselves less obvious. She's out there, keep searching.

quote:Originally posted by Mr. Stabby:

Don't worry, you'll find someone, you just have to look deeper. In my expereince, the people who want meaningfull relationships are usually harder to find, simply becuase they make themselves less obvious. She's out there, keep searching.

Thanks for the in depth response!

I spose my age group kinda limits the findability of a meaningful relationship too

(I'm 16 btw)

I'm lonely too. join the circle of hurt.....brothers in sorrow.

lament:

duuuuuuuum duuuuuuuuuuuuuuum, duuuuuuuuuuhm

diddely didddely

(bell)

Have you ever noticed that you can be surounded by people and be lonely as shit??

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:



I'm sick and fucking tired of all these meaningless sex-based relationships!!





Man, I'd be happy with one of those. :lol:

Dude, just do what I do: Go listen to heavy metal and toke up. Play a little guitar, hang out with your freinds... Things'll figure themselves out in a few years.

quote:Originally posted by AEnemia:



Man, I'd be happy with one of those. :lol:

Dude, just do what I do: Go listen to heavy metal and toke up. Play a little guitar, hang out with your freinds... Things'll figure themselves out in a few years.

Yeah I spose your right.. .. .

I just think that once high school is over, I will be very much less likely to meet anyone unless I go to college

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

but she claims she is busy all Christmas brake.

Ohh thats not good.

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

Yeah I spose your right.. .. .

I just think that once high school is over, I will be very much less likely to meet anyone unless I go to college

Yeah, listen to a shitload of metal, it helps. Fuck, this thread is depressing. I wish i knew what else to tell you, but i really don't. sometimes you just have to go it alone, for whatever reason, and take satisfaction in the fact that it won't always be that way.

Get good music, no emo. I suggest Bowling For Soup and Offspring.

Kick back and enjoy being alone.

Put sex to the back of your mind, and find a car to restore or something.

Kick back and enjoy being alone.

quote:Originally posted by Rocko:

Get good music

quote:I suggest Bowling For Soup and Offspring.

I lolled.

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quote:Originally posted by Rocko:

Get good music, no emo. I suggest Bowling For Soup and Offspring.

Kick back and enjoy being alone.

Put sex to the back of your mind, and find a car to restore or something.

Kick back and enjoy being alone.

Ahh offspring.

I use to listen to them for hours

Im feeling lonely too...

sigh..

Im getting to know this girl, and god.. I dont know if its love, but I miss every moment im not with her.

I havent spoken with her for 3 days and im going crazy..

Christmas is coming and I wont see her for a week or more and it just kills me..

I feel for ya bro..

*hug*

quote:Originally posted by zuperxtreme:

Im feeling lonely too...

sigh..

Im getting to know this girl, and god.. I dont know if its love, but I miss every moment im not with her.

I havent spoken with her for 3 days and im going crazy..

Christmas is coming and I wont see her for a week or more and it just kills me..

I feel for ya bro..

*hug*

This is my EXACT problem!!!

Finally someone who understands!!!

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

This is my EXACT problem!!!

Finally someone who understands!!!

Three days is nothing. Try a year. She was always busy for some reason or another...

Convince yourself she doesnt love you back because she doesnt. At least not now.

I dont want to flame or anything, but I honestly dont think she has any interest in you, and its futile to continue.

To the OP.. what age are you?

If you're a teenager, teenage years will suck.. but usually it does get better. At 19, I'm finding it so easy to enjoy myself, but I was an asshole in my teenage years and I regret that.

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

Three days is nothing. Try a year. She was always busy for some reason or another...

Convince yourself she doesnt love you back because she doesnt. At least not now.

I dont want to flame or anything, but I honestly dont think she has any interest in you, and its futile to continue.

THREE DAYS. More like 2 weeks of winter brake that she is "busy".

IDK, I'll talk to her tomorrow hopefully. I usually don't see her around school, and if I do I'm to busy being a dick to talk to her.

Maybe I should email her or something just to say wut up.. .. ..

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quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

THREE DAYS. More like 2 weeks.

So you have spent about %4 the time I did. The point yet remains.

I was defensive above all else just as you. I thought that it was all going to turn out right in the end. Chances are, I fucked myself over along the way, but nothing became of it. I still hate myself for it, but its over and that all there is to it.

I seriously doubt she reciprocates affection, so just stop. No offense to any XX's reading, but you do tend to be quite stupid when it comes to letting admirers know you arent interested.

Well I'm not entirely sure how I feel about her.. .. ..

I don't doubt you have had a lot of pain in the past, but I try not to get into a "Who has it worse" topic.

It's the simple fact that for the past year or two every chick I have been with had an alternate motive for going with me.

Lets not. I simply post to relay that I know what you are going through.

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

Lets not. I simply post to relay that I know what you are going through.

Ahhh. Gotcha

you are hanging out with the wrong people. have a good look at everyone who you see, from another perspective, and really think about all the people that you see every day but don't notice. people outside your group. i am confident there is someone right under your nose.

quote:Originally posted by Pseud0nym:

you are hanging out with the wrong people. have a good look at everyone who you see, from another perspective, and really think about all the people that you see every day but don't notice. people outside your group. i am confident there is someone right under your nose.

are you saying I hand with the wrong people cuz they do drugs, or because some of them DON'T do drugs?

I am lonely too, my dear.

=[

I am not lonely, and because of this, I share some of my happiness with you here

Being alone is just an opportunity to create without distraction.

ever thought about self denial, because were all users and abusers, some just hide it better, but go do what you want, you cant go forcing something if its just not right.

Michael

I feel for ya man. I'm in the same situation, especially with the Christmas break thing and all. I feel so fucking desperate, and I know deep down that I'm going to get hurt, or someone is, if I stay desperate like this and go for the first girl I see.

It's shitty man.

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

What should I do?

I'm lonely as hell, and I keep getting shot down!!

I'm sick and fucking tired of all these meaningless sex-based relationships!!

There is this girl I like, that I can prolly have, but she claims she is busy all Christmas brake.

What should I do?

Don't say murder/suicide, or huff/hugg raid.

Thats.

deal with it, bitch!

sigh i am lonely as well.

but yeah Argon, that's not as bad as mine. for 4 years i managed to totally deny reality; i knew this girl didn't care about me, she knew i cared about her and was indifferent, but i couldn't stand the idea of just moving on. it was really pathetic, but hey ya know what i got that clingy thing out of the way.

I used to have problems because i was very acedemically oriented and awkward when it came to women i considered possible girlfriends.

Now I just can't get over the whole awkward, "Hey I knew you like three years ago and I'd like to hang out again" thing. With a school of 3000+ and with me only taking 3 classes it's kinda hard to run into them, and we no longer have any common friends.

It's frustrating because I know i'd be a good lover/boyfriend, and I know how to have a good time, but i can also be uncontrollably manic depressive and I hate having my friends and family deal with that shit.

I'm gonna make an effort to meet some new people though, and college is just around the corner. Cant wait to get out of this straightlaced shitsucking town.

^^^ Wow man. That's deep.

It kinda describes how I'm feeling right now.

Body pillow.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Body pillow.

read the first fucking post.

I need someone to care about me, that I can care about, that doesn't just want a sexual relationship.

Don't make me break out a fat joke

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

Don't make me break out a fat joke

Hahah, like I give a shit WHAT you break out...

Seriously now, a fucking body pillow will help you until you find a girl stupid enough to put up with your how much of an asshole you are.

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

Have you ever noticed that you can be surounded by people and be lonely as shit??

Yes.

Well, to make u feel worse, U spelt break wrong.

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:



but she claims she is busy all Christmas -->brake<--.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Hahah, like I give a shit WHAT you break out...

Seriously now, a fucking body pillow will help you until you find a girl stupid enough to put up with your how much of an asshole you are.

How the hell will this work.

I'm enlightened. Just tell me.



BTW I have seen a picture of your "body pillow" and that ain't a body pillow thats a fucking couch.

Not that it doesn't match the bulbus girth of your body

LOL, nah ur apparently cool Gus

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

How the hell will this work.

I'm enlightened. Just tell me.

Hey now, I can't truthfully say how it works. I just know they do...

*Hugs his giant parade-balloon body pillow*

There really is nothing better... Well, except a pillow that hugs back.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Hey now, I can't truthfully say how it works. I just know they do...

*Hugs his giant parade-balloon body pillow*

There really is nothing better... Well, except a pillow that hugs back.

Hmmmm.. .. ..

I kinda get what your saying, but this doesn't fufill the other aspects of a relationship I'm missing out on.

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

Hmmmm.. .. ..

I kinda get what your saying, but this doesn't fufill the other aspects of a relationship I'm missing out on.

But it helps while you're waiting. It really does. And really, you need to find strength within, first.

Women love a man with a very strong..., within her...

You're too sensitive, I suggest growing balls.