What do I do, I have a very good relationship with the girl and we ride the bus home together everyday so we hang out a lot. She also just became one of my best friends girlfriend so i don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin my friendship with my friend but also don't want to lose this girl so what do I do?

Also I don't want to ruin my relationship with the girl by just saying "I like you". Personally i think we have kinda been hinting something to each other although I've passed this off as me just seeing nothing as something.

So what do I do?

quote:Originally posted by PrizeFighter-Inferno:

So what do I do?

You only like her because your best friend has her. Remember that, and go find yourself a girl that isn't taken.

Don't ruin your friendship, kid.

Ignore her often, be a bit mean to her...chances are the two won't last...date her afterwards?

Bros before hos is the motto of a lonely fag.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

You only like her because your best friend has her. Remember that, and go find yourself a girl that isn't taken.

Don't ruin your friendship, kid.

I liked her before I even knew my friend liked her. Yeah I don't want to ruin the friendship but could I wait for it to end then tell my friend I like her to see what he says

quote:Originally posted by PrizeFighter-Inferno:

I liked her before I even knew my friend liked her. Yeah I don't want to ruin the friendship but could I wait for it to end then tell my friend I like her to see what he says

Just stay away from that for the longest of times, bud. You're going to need your friends later in life more than you'll need ex-girlfriends. A lot more.

walk away and never think about the situation again...if you're smart

bros before hoes....

i agree with danger,wait till your friends done with gettin fucked around by her and then its your turn.

Same thing happened to me, i told her about it, ruined our friendship and me and my best friends, also.

WALK AWAY

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Bros before hos is the motto of a lonely fag.

Bros before hoes is just another way of saying respect your friends. How would you feel if your boy went after your girlfriend? Women may come and go, but that doesn't mean you have to be an ass and make it harder for everyone.

OP, there's women everywhere, go find another one.

Woah, shit! I'm in the exact same situation as you are!

except he's not my best friend, but he is the closest thing to one I have.

quote:Originally posted by Danger:

bros before hoes....

Just have sex with her. Honestly. Be a goddamned man and take what you want. There are billions of people on earth. You'll make new friends and meet new girls...so fuck the shit outta her while you can.

God dammit dude, firstly man up and learn to ignore your stupid little emotions. Secondly, too late, he got in first, good play to him, bad luck for you.

Thirdly, man the fuck up.

Don't be a worthless sack of shit and leave the girl alone.

I'm in the same situation except I don't give a fuck if he hates me because I'm only semi friends with him.

But I also don't fuck around with people relationships, so I'm just gonna get to know her better and then when they break up, I'll go for her.

Shit man, just be happy you're close friends with this girl. Don't go fucking everything up over some crush, you'll regret that for sure.

Fixate your eyes on another girl.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Bros before hos is the motto of a lonely fag.

Nah. You're wrong.

I get my fair share of chicks. I'm far from lonely, but even the love of my life (Amanda) came bellow my best friend.

He's stuck by me since grade 4, and I've known her since year 11. If you have ANY sense of loyalty, you'd see that the friend deserved to be considered.

Same goes to this guys situation. If he' known the guy for 1 year, and the girl for 3 years...there's some degree of allowance. But if he and his buddy go way back, then the OP is a scumfuck, and will be exactly what you said "a lonely fag". $10 says if OP gets the girl it wont last and he just loses them both.

P.S. Why do you think she's going out with your buddy and not you? Because he's a better person than you, remember that.

quote:Originally posted by Soda_Can_Sniper:

Bros before hoes is just another way of saying respect your friends. How would you feel if your boy went after your girlfriend? Women may come and go, but that doesn't mean you have to be an ass and make it harder for everyone.

OP, there's women everywhere, go find another one.

I'd be fine with it...she knows how to kick a guy in the nuts. And if she's going to cheat with a friend of mine, she's DEFINITELY going to cheat with a stranger.

No reason to be fearful; I trust her...enough.

So far from what I've heard from people I'm just going to leave it alone and if they end up breaking up i might casually mention i might like her to my friend if he says something bad i'll let it die if he seems fine with it i might move in.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Just stay away from that for the longest of times, bud. You're going to need your friends later in life more than you'll need ex-girlfriends. A lot more.

Some of the best advice I have ever read.

buddies over bitches

Don't do the mistake of losing a friend over a girl. It's all about trust, and you need your friends to be able to trust you. Beside, there's a lot of nice girls out there. Be patient, but I tell you.. it's NOT worth losing a friend. I'm talking by my own experience over the same problem. I did the mistake to chose the girl, and I lost a buddy then later ditch the girl so .. was it worth it? No.. Now the choice is yours =)

Edit : forgot to add this : If I were your friend and I broke up with that girl, personnaly I would not really like it much because when I stop a relationship I usually don't wanna see the person anymore, even if I stop it in a calm way if you know what I mean. And if you were to ask me if you could date my ex after that I would say as a good friend that it's fine do as you want, but I would not really be truly happy about the situation. It's like if you were picking up his garbage...

[This message has been edited by Unibroue (edited 12-19-2006).]