Am I the only old fashioned guy who doesn't like to treat girls like shit? All I want is a girlfriend that will actually love me, maybe looking for more than a fling, ya know?

And when you're physically unattractive it's hard to find any girl to even consider dating you.

I don't know what I'm looking for here, just a depressing night...

Women come and women go. Stick to what you know.

My husband always talks about how ugly he is, but he really is totally hawt. He looks like Angel from Buffy the Vampire Slayer (Before Angel got all fat).

Hah, I'll have to watch that sometime.

This isn't a pity thing where I say I'm ugly and people compliment me, I am seriously not that attractive...

I am above average, I don't look that bad, but I am a little chuby.

A lot of girls find me cute, though

EDIT: But I am also and old fashioned guy. It is hard to find what you are looking for. Kind of like a crossword puzzle, If you try as hard as you can to look for it, you might miss it, relax and don't worry about it, she will be the perfect cherry blossom in the roses.



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quote:Originally posted by ReigN:

Am I the only old fashioned guy who doesn't like to treat girls like shit? All I want is a girlfriend that will actually love me, maybe looking for more than a fling, ya know?

And when you're physically unattractive it's hard to find any girl to even consider dating you.

I don't know what I'm looking for here, just a depressing night...

I know how you feel, you sound just like me

i think i am attractive, it is really hard to tell... like alot of my female friends say i am good looking but i cant pick up women easily. www.myspace.com/badger_a2006 (http://www.myspace.com/badger_a2006) opinions? i dont use myspace now so it is a bitty old. my hair is just a bit longer now/

Its odd, being hot and being able to pick up girls in a club are completly separate. well i just the impression it is.

Sigh, yeah I'm that kinda guy.

I thought I'd found a cool girl, who'd accept me for what I am. I'm actually somewhat good looking, so I thought maybe I had a decent shot at getting away with showing my personality as it is.

But in the end, I ain't good enough. And I've now realized that I'm far too weak emotionally to be in a relationship. The happies are happy and all, but the sads are heart breaking...

I just want happiness

why cant we be happy with just ourselfs?

afterall it is who we are stuck with forever...

Because I want someone to share stuff with. Someone to be with me through the good and the bad... I thought I'd found her, but damnit getting into romantic relations at the age of 20, with a religious past... It's creating a lot of issues for me...

I really need to talk to someone

You can always talk to the barrel of a hand cannon if you get THAT lonely.

My suggestion? Just flow with the relationships you come across. Yeah, your heart will break, and all other sorts of nasty shit...but you'll enjoy it more than you'll endure it.

i know how you feel, i have been there myself. THe question was more sort of self reflection not attacking you or anything.

(hahhaahah i can hear my dad snore and he is the other side of the house!!)

i have to say all the relationships that i have had they have just appeared out of thin air...

quote:Originally posted by ReigN:

And when you're physically unattractive it's hard to find any girl to even consider dating you.

Not when you charm them out of their pants and into your heart.

If you don't have the looks, learn how to tell jokes. If you can't tell a good joke to save your own life, learn how to be strong and silent. If you're a loud mouth weakling, think about joining the army for the uniform.

quote:Originally posted by B-Phaze:

Because I want someone to share stuff with. Someone to be with me through the good and the bad... I thought I'd found her, but damnit getting into romantic relations at the age of 20, with a religious past... It's creating a lot of issues for me...

I really need to talk to someone

Amen man... I want a girl I can wake up with ya know? A girl who'll love me for who I am.

It sucks when you think you've found her, and you're horribly wrong.

wow that was deep.20?and looking for love? i say get some experience with relationships.have your share of women..and at 25-30 look for some1 to settle down with.

quote:Originally posted by aj2307:

wow that was deep.20?and looking for love? i say get some experience with relationships.have your share of women..and at 25-30 look for some1 to settle down with.

...And by the time he's 40, he'll wonder where all the time has gone, and why no women are left that are worth settling down with.

Sadly, though, so many people still feel that it's the right thing to fuck around all of your best years when you really should be worrying about nothing more than finding someone for those not-so-god years.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

If you don't have the looks, learn how to tell jokes. If you can't tell a good joke to save your own life, learn how to be strong and silent. If you're a loud mouth weakling, think about joining the army for the uniform.

Hm.. Worked for two weeks, never worked, and then worked for skanks.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

My husband always talks about how ugly he is, but he really is totally hawt. He looks like Angel from Buffy the Vampire Slayer (Before Angel got all fat).

JEALOUS! Angel was so foxy...

quote:Originally posted by B-Phaze:

Because I want someone to share stuff with. Someone to be with me through the good and the bad... I thought I'd found her, but damnit getting into romantic relations at the age of 20, with a religious past... It's creating a lot of issues for me...

I really need to talk to someone

Damn. You sound a lot like me.

sentinelowl@yahoo.com

quote:Originally posted by ReigN:

Am I the only old fashioned guy who doesn't like to treat girls like shit? All I want is a girlfriend that will actually love me, maybe looking for more than a fling, ya know?

And when you're physically unattractive it's hard to find any girl to even consider dating you.

I don't know what I'm looking for here, just a depressing night...

I'll date you.

I'm not a woman, but I can dress up like one.

We'll go out ans have fun.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:



My suggestion? Just flow with the relationships you come across. Yeah, your heart will break, and all other sorts of nasty shit...but you'll enjoy it more than you'll endure it.

I agree, totally. Remember, no matter what heartache, stress, joy, or sorrow you experience in life, the important thing is that you move through it and become a stronger person for it.

quote:Originally posted by Sentinel:

Damn. You sound a lot like me.

sentinelowl@yahoo.com

C'mon, who uses yahoo nowadays!

MSN is where it's at... bphaze@hotmail.com

Yeah.. let me just say this, YOU try being the 18 year old who's fucking balding already.

I do have a pretty hot girlfriend, and I have been with her for a year.. but shes the 2nd real relationship I had that wasn't totally fucked up by booze or something.. even though it almos was.