Ok, i asked her about the whole sleeping over a guys house, and she said that it was a prty and it was in london so it would have been easier... Now fair enough.

She ended the text we only mates k? was that directed at me?

I really feel something for her, and my hearts been smashed so many times its turned to stone...

Yes, it was directed at both him and me...

i am slightly confused.

But it sounds like she knows that there is more between you too, but maybe she is scared she will loose you as a friend?

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:



She ended the text we only mates k? was that directed at me?



That could be taken two ways, either she sees you as only mates....or others as only mates.

I should probably check your other threads, maybe for more context? Maybe you should try to keep related subjects under the same topic?

I've had this both ways. One time a girl just wanted to be mates. Another girl was just not sure what she wanted, so stuck with "just mates" so we wouldn't drift apart.

You might have a chance but maybe not at this point in her life.

When you are in a situation/place you both feel comfortable with, tell her. If you just spring it on her, either way she'll get scared off.