I don't normally post in here but I really need third party advice. I think of myself as a straight male. I find women to be the sexiest things alive, but I'm wondering if something's wrong with me. There is a girl I like(yes I'm 16 and in highschool and have crushes.. what ever) and I think I ahve a chance with her and what not. Now I want to ask her out but I don't know if a relationship is what I want. I don't think I want to just fuck her, but ususaly when I want relationship I get all like.. hmm.. "different" feeling, butterflies or whatever. I don't feel this with her but I think she's wonderful. She and I are very similar and she's really cute. The only thing is the fact that I don't feel this normal feeling I get around girls I like. Ususaly I want to show off the fact that I'm with a girl but with her I'd rather just be alone with her. I dunno.. it's weird and I need advice. Thanks in advance.

EDIT: I forgot to put in the fact that because I don't feel this weird feeling, it makes me wonder if I'm gay. That was the whole "straight male" shit up there. Aha wooops.

[This message has been edited by Miluardo (edited 12-17-2006).]

Well, I think that unless you usually ask girls out by saying "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" (Which I imagine most males do not), then there shouldn't really be a problem. Just because you go out with someone a few times, that doesn't automatically make her your girlfriend nor you her boyfriend. Relax, you're in high school, no one expects you to get married anytime soon. Just casually ask her out..No need to go on a long speech about how you don't want anything serious. That would be a very bad choice on your part.

Alright thanks a lot. I've gone out with her before on sort a fake-date. She brought a friend with her is what I mean, it was still fun but it wasn't really what I'd call a date.