So I told her boyfriend... We were at a bar, where the 3 of us tend to go often (especially me).

Since this has been happening often, and the guy seems somewhat nice, I approached him and told him that his girlfriend is a bit scandalous.

He ended up dumping her that night, and he took me to this nearby strip club. We got along quite well actually.

Then I got so drunk that I blacked out and I don't remember anything after that.

Anyway, my point is, I brought this up last night at the bar with a few friends, and only 1 out of the 3 of them commended me for what I did.

The other 2 said they would have fucked her in the washroom in a second and never thought twice about it...

What is wrong with people these days?? What would you have done?

You did the right thing.

I would have done the same thing in your situation, infact I have before.

Rock the Casbah zooks

quote:Originally posted by captain_kirk:

You did the right thing.

You're a good guy, well done.

If you know the guy, don't fuck him over. If it's a stranger...well then, I suppose it becomes a moral issue at that point rather than a respect issue. Is cheating wrong in your eyes?

Oh shit.. I just realized that this thread does not properly represent my character in it's entirety...

In fact, what I did was mildly inconsistent with my normal views.

I mean, I would never cheat, but depending on the circumstances, I might have sex with a girl who has a boyfriend.

Actually, to be honest, I have in the past...

But in those cases, for one thing, I was much younger and more careless with my actions. Also, I didn't know the boyfriend.

But in this case, for one thing, I'm older and know better now; and secondly, I actually had met the boyfriend, and he seemed like an alright guy.

back when,i would have.but having been cheated on,knowing how bad it feels,and how often it runs on my mind...i would never sleep with a girl whos got a boyfriend.

if i had any respect for the girl, i would tell her that her boyfriend was being sketchy. but i would try to frame it in a way where he still had a chance for redemption. breaking people up is never nice.

If she wants the cock, then she wants the cock. Her boyfriend doesn't want the cock, so he is not involved in this decision.

I just don't ever ask if they have a boyfriend.. all I ask is if they are single. If they say yes, I don't go past that. If not, we don't go any farther then friends.

Have I done girls with boyfriends.. I'm about 99% sure I have. But it was THEIR choice of whether or not I knew that.

The only time I WONT mess around with a girl who I know has a boyfriends is if I know the dude. Other then that, I'm out in the world for myself, and the people I know. and I have really big guns in my house.. so I feel pretty safe vs some yuppie trying to start shit about his girlfriend.

Its one thing if a girl cheats with another guy cause she falls for him.

Its another if she's out LOOKING for it, hitting on guys in a bar and TRYING to get picked up.

gadzooks, i love you... you can fuck a homeless schizophrenic addicted to crack and still care about morality...

They're probably just saying they would of banged her, but in reality they would of told him too.

Gadzooks, stop drinking until you black out. It's entirely unnecessary, and unhealthy as well.

However, you did the right thing. You didn't break them up; rather, the guy knew he had to let her go. He probably was just waiting for confirmation of his suspicions and needed a catalyst. Anyway, in my opinion you did the right thing. Sure, it probably wouldn't hurt you if she had cheated with you, but it'd hurt her boyfriend, I imagine. "Be kind to others" are good words to live by.