In my opinion, nice guys finish last. I'm a decent looking, well mannered chap, yet I'm perpetually single. Most girls I know go for badasses who will only hurt them. Any thoughts Totse?

quote:Originally posted by tehinterwebisteh1337:

Any thoughts Totse?

Yeah, man up!

Dude it's not about being a 'nice guy', it's about being yourself. And no, they don't finish last.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Dude it's not about being a 'nice guy', it's about being yourself. And no, they don't finish last.



I try that and like I say, I perpetually fail.

Well then you're either aiming for the wrong girls, or they're just not your thing right now.

And considering your whining here, it's no wonder.

Nice guys don't hold bitter grudges.

Nice guys don't whine on the internet.

Women tend to see through this 'nice' facade, instead preferring the company of men who, although flawed, are more honest because in the end, they're more trustworthy.

I think the rule goes something like this;

If you have to say you're a nice guy. You're not a nice guy.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Well then you're either aiming for the wrong girls, or they're just not your thing right now.

And considering your whining here, it's no wonder.

Why such hostility man. I just wanted some opinions...

That's my opinion man, it's not hostility.

quote:Originally posted by tehinterwebisteh1337:

In my opinion, nice guys finish last. I'm a decent looking, well mannered chap, yet I'm perpetually single. Most girls I know go for badasses who will only hurt them. Any thoughts Totse?

Seriously man, just chill out. If you just relax and try not to read so much into things you'll do a lot better.

quote:Originally posted by tehinterwebisteh1337:

Why such hostility man. I just wanted some opinions...



cos we get thread after thread of little boys whining on about how girls only like bad-arse men.

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 12-15-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by stab:

That's my opinion man, it's not hostility.

Yeah, but I wouldn't say I was whining...

Yeah man, you are.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Yeah man, you are.

w/e

Complaining in the very least. Okay, so you can't get a girl. It's not because you're a 'type' of guy, there's no such thing really. It's because you're either doing something wrong, or you don't have the confidence. It's that simple.

So don't blame them for going for a 'type' that you don't think you are. That's shifting responsibility of your love-life from you to them.

Akin to blaming the victim for the murder.

Fair enough, sorry for wasting bandwidth by posting this thread. I should probably just suck it up..

Sorry people, my bad. I meant to close this after my last comment.I plead lack of coffee for the lapse.