Well tonight my ex girlfriend of about 6 months and I had a long discussion of how we still love each other. Her crying basically the whole time. SHe has a boyfriend now though and we talked about him too. She always says how noone will ever replace me though. We ended up having sex though and half way through she broke down and started crying. She felt absolutely terrible. I can understand that. I know that she wanted to do it and I know damn well that I wanted to do it too.

I should have more self control than that though. SO should she but it is no excuse. I basically just tore apart 3 peoples insides including my own.

This is probably the shittiest explanation ever but I really am at a loss for words. There really aarent any words to completely describe the situation anyways.

I still love her no doubt about it. But I need to respect her new boyfriend. I have no fucking clue right now.

Anyone feeling generous try and piece together what shreds of sense there are in this rambling and throw me some advice.

Also feel free to tell me what a shit box I am. I fucking feel terrible.

SOrry.

I don't see why you don't get back with her if you both like eachother so much.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



I don't see why you don't get back with her if you both like eachother so much.

It is so much more than that right now. She really does like this guy. It is nearly impossoble to believe but I know she does.

He was in the army when she met him and they wrote each other letters while he was in Iraq. He is fucking fanatical about her. For good reason too, she is a great girl.

She feels like he needs him and he needs her.

She isn't going to leave him for me.

Another terrible thing is that I actually have respect for this guy. He has never done anything to deserve this.

Threesome time!

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Your girlfriend needs to tell him what happened now.

Or you know, you can just catch her on the rebound...what's to stop her doing the same to you?

quote:Originally posted by ChickenOfDoom:

Threesome time!

I have a feeling if I step anywhere within 100 yards of this guy I am going to receive the beating of a life time. My dick isn't stretching far enough to be safe.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

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Your girlfriend needs to tell him what happened now.

Or you know, you can just catch her on the rebound...what's to stop her doing the same to you?

I am pretty sure he has already been told.

You make a good point though. Surprise surprise we have always had trust issues. I can't deny I love her though. I don't give a fuck who she is having sex with as long as at the end of the day she comes back to me. At least that is my thoughts now. Chances are I would go off the wall if that actually happened.

*shrugs* well I am going to stop giving advice here because your mind works in a completely different way than mine does, so it would be useless.

but good luck.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

*shrugs* well I am going to stop giving advice here because your mind works in a completely different way than mine does, so it would be useless.

but good luck.

I am ina pretty shitty state. Logic is out the window for me right now. Sorry if what I say is ridiculous.

This isn't really me right now more just a person who wants a definite answer to an impossible question.

EDIT: And thanks a bundle for at least trying to help. It does mean something to me.

[This message has been edited by Violent Monotreme (edited 12-15-2006).]

Doing something shitty does not always mean you're a shitty person. Just don't let the opportunity arise where you will be tempted to repeat it. The more repetition, the more it will drag you both down.

You seem like a good dude. You honestly regret what you've done, not because he'll beat the living snot out of you, but because you respect the guy.

Tell her to tell her boyfriend. That'd be the best thing, if she doesn't, you should consider telling him, he deserves it.

quote:Originally posted by Violent Monotreme:

Well tonight my ex girlfriend of about 6 months and I had a long discussion of how we still love each other. Her crying basically the whole time. SHe has a boyfriend now though and we talked about him too. She always says how noone will ever replace me though. We ended up having sex though and half way through she broke down and started crying. She felt absolutely terrible. I can understand that. I know that she wanted to do it and I know damn well that I wanted to do it too.

I should have more self control than that though. SO should she but it is no excuse. I basically just tore apart 3 peoples insides including my own.

This is probably the shittiest explanation ever but I really am at a loss for words. There really aarent any words to completely describe the situation anyways.

I still love her no doubt about it. But I need to respect her new boyfriend. I have no fucking clue right now.

Anyone feeling generous try and piece together what shreds of sense there are in this rambling and throw me some advice.

Also feel free to tell me what a shit box I am. I fucking feel terrible.

SOrry.

When she started crying during sex, did you continue? cause there's nothing like fucking a chick that's crying.

People dont think it matters and in the end both parties did commit the deed however if your asking yourself who acted the worst between you and her the answer is in who leaned foward for that first kiss. IMHO though its just another case of a girl not being able too choose...