My girl just spent the last three days ignoring me when I'd call or try to catch her online, and I haven't seen her IRL because we're a little separated at the moment.

I finally got her to speak to me and she said:

She loves me, but she also loves her ex, but he just joined the Marines and he's gonna ship out in either May or Sept, and she can't hurt him by being with me, but she doesn't want to hurt me by being with HIM, so she doesn't know WHAT to do. She also says she was ignoring me because she didn't want to hurt me, she said she'd have rather just stopped talking to me and left me wanderig than hurting, but I guess I kept pushing her and eventually she IM'd me and told me what was up.

She also said, and I'm quoting/paraphrasing: "I love you, but I don't WANT to love you because of HIM, and I love HIM, but I don't wanna love him because of YOU."

So, what do I do, S&A? I LOVE this girl, and I don't wanna lose her.

Your in a bad situation man.....just dont let her keep playing with your mind all you need too be working tward is a finality no middleground. She simply must choose.

Edit-If she cant make up her mind dump her she doesnt deserve the love..

[This message has been edited by Ars0n (edited 12-15-2006).]

she likes this other guy more than you, which is why she is with him.. it's as simple as that. move the fuck on. my god.

and don't refer to her as "my girl" man.. she isn't your girl. she is ignoring you to be with another guy. does it really get anymore BLATANT than that??

[This message has been edited by DENKDAN (edited 12-15-2006).]

if you can be bothered being fucked about for the next couple of months then just stick with it.

I have been in a similar situation. But the girl love me and was with another guy, she fucked me about for 2 months, it was pretty dam emotional. I dont think it was ddone on purpose though.

I'd tell a girl to go fuck herself if she pulled that shit on me. But as the guy above said, if you feel like being a little pussy-fuck-emotional-fuckup for the next while, then by all means be my guest. Or hers, for that matter.

You know this story replays itself time after time its a proven fact that a good portion of women will do this sort of shit for there own self esteem in the end. I truly dont believe she is as broken up as she seems. Hell if she hasnt made a decision yet she cant be....obviously its not something thats running through her head every 5 minutes in which case imho she would have came to a conclusion. Get a new girl seriously you may love her but no offence but MY girl read your post and all that she could say was "What a bitch" heh

Yeah, you guys are right. Fuck that bitch!

At least weed shall never forsake me.