So we got one today and used it for the first time, she was nervous and scared of the size at first(we picked one of the smaller ones there) and used lube. She LOVES IT which kind of worries me abit. Is there a difference between the two for her? What kind of techniques can I use to make it better for her?

I don't think you have anything to worry about.

A dildo is just a dildo.

Not the same!

it's more focused on her pleasure, i guess. the rythm, the points you're hitting, are all for the goal of her orgasm. i've never used a dildo, i'm just assuming. wait, is this a dildo, or a vibrator? guys seem to get those confused due to porn misinformation. a vibrator buzzes, a dildo doesn't. usually girls don't use dildos to masturbate.

Don't worry, I used a vibrator on my ex all the time, she still wanted sex more than it. It's not quite the same.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

usually girls don't use dildos to masturbate.

why not? what else do they use it for? as a kinky extra in flower arrangements?

quote:Originally posted by Argus:

why not? what else do they use it for? as a kinky extra in flower arrangements?

I know a girl that uses one as a conversation piece. She just leaves it sitting out on the table so that people will talk about it.

I've never seen such a thing as it in my life and hope not to see another that compares.

Allow me to be the first asshole to post. She will eventually leave you and keep using the dildo. Your penis is small and flacid. You will never have another girlfriend. Do the right thing and become a eunuch.

myself and my girlfriend(we are not properly going out, but we have sex when we can) were considering some sort of toy. She has her eye on these little disposable vibrators like ring things. dont think she wants to buy one untill she moves out though.

Any preferences? whorth it? opinions?

quote:Originally posted by Das Troll:

Allow me to be the first asshole to post. She will eventually leave you and keep using the dildo. Your penis is small and flacid. You will never have another girlfriend. Do the right thing and become a eunuch.



it's DER troll, not DAS troll.

quote:Originally posted by Argus:

it's DER troll, not DAS troll.

He's been castrated.

that explains the neuter.

holy crap! I learned something.

My girlfriend says there is a massive difference between your average dildo and a real cock [pun intended]. I'm MASSIVE by the way; it helps.

Edit: to be helpful: There is a difference and she'll definitely be able to tell. For one, a cock is warmer and more... flexible [not sure that's the right word].

In terms of technique: don't be too rough - it's not an extension of your arm goddamn it! Be gentle and move it around in side, whilst trying not to rotate it too much. Don't know about your girl, but mine doesn't like that shit.

[This message has been edited by crimsonsmoke (edited 12-15-2006).]