If a girl asks you to hit her during sex, for example in a rape fantasy, or choke her or something, how hard is appropriate. Like if she is begging for it and really wants you to hit her. Its just a good thing to think about becuase I'm a pretty strong guy and I do mma and box so me hitting really light may be really hard. Just ideas/comments/general.... advice? techniques?

Start out light and work your way up, I guess. After a certain point she'll say something, and you can tone it down a little.

I dunno, violence kind of turns me off, although rape fantasies are surprisingly alluring.

Do go slow, and communicate, know exactly what she means with her fantasies. Start with slapping/spanking.

the right thing to do is to refuse.

Yeah your best bet is to start slowly and gently and then keep increasing pressure and/or force. It's a good idea to have a safety word that way if it's too much for her she can tell you to stop. That's especially good if you're getting into rape roleplay because she will more than likely already be saying no or trying to push you off. Pick a word you know would never really come up in sex.

Also dicuss force and feelings afterward in order to guage her feelings and dislikes on the things you have already tried. I always tell my bf afterward if it wasn't rough enough or if he smacked me just a little too hard :-) Usually not the case though.

Hmm... who was it that I was talking to who loves to be punched in the head during sex? I forget. Damn.

Well, I suppose it depends on the person. For me, I'm a light-on-pain guy. I'd rather dish it out than take it.

Kick her into a psychiatrists office, that should do.

Mmm... i'm not into that kind of shit. Espeacially the "Hang me and if my neck brakes fuck me faster!" kind of shit.

Definitely start out softly. I begged my ex to punch me in the arm (not in a sexual manner, lol) and when he finally gave in it jarred my whole body and gave me a headache and a bruise. He felt so bad because he honestly didn't think he was hitting me hard at all. Girls (in general) are alot more delicate than guys.

My girl loves when i spank her as hard as i can. She also used to ask me to choke her during sex but i told her that i felt kinda uncomfortable doing that.. but every once in a while ill surprise her and give her a squeeze. (She responds in the vaginal region rather strikingly haha)

I bite the shit out of my girl's inner thighs during sex. It often leaves big ugly bruises/hickeys. She still loves it.

I recommend you don't go easy on her. Soooo many girls I know who are into that kinda thing complain that guys go too easy on them, when what they REALLY want is some god damned PAIN!

Hahahaha

Like everyone else has said, take it slow and then you can figure out how hard is to hard.

OR

You could agree on a "safety word" make it something that wouldnt be used during sex in most situations. when she or yourself say that word, what ever your doing stop.

get her request down in writing before hand

make her sign a contract.

if she goes in the room to have sex and comes out with bruises, you could end up in jail.

quote:Originally posted by Real.PUA:

get her request down in writing before hand

True. Or, atleast make that shit know to your friends that she likes it like that. Also, are you both over 18?

Just becareful bro.

Haha yeah we are both over 18 and she wouldn't go to the police or anything like that lol. She's not at all like that and plus shes like one of my best friends, we just have some benefits. I would try biting like normal but I always leave marks and her boyfriend really doesn;t like it haha.

Didnt read replies.

Just keep it open-handed, and you can hit as hard as you want. As for choking, make sure the pressure is spread out to prevent bruising.

Tell her to tell you when she has had enough or your to rough, it won't take you long to establish limits and perimeters

Knock her the fuck out!

she told me she wanted 9 inches and to make it hurt so i fucked her 3 times and hit her in the face

beat me..bite me...slap me please!

Kinky sex is what I need..

quote:Originally posted by midvalley:

she told me she wanted 9 inches and to make it hurt so i fucked her 3 times and hit her in the face

I lol'd.

what kind of sick slut wants to be hit during sex? wtf is wrong with people.

^cluntoris^

Dude, if you do MMA and box, don't use your knuckles to hit at first, seriously

My biggest fantasy during sex is to be on top, then have my girl punch me in the face a few times, enough to draw blood, then lick and suck the blood off my face, then spit it back on my face and in my mouth.

quote:Originally posted by 73cv:

I lol'd.

thank you

quote:Originally posted by Real.PUA:

get her request down in writing before hand

Winnar!

quote:Originally posted by outsmartyouwithignorance:

beat me..bite me...slap me please!

Kinky sex is what I need..

Hehe, awesome...

quote:Originally posted by MissTrust:

YPick a word you know would never really come up in sex.

though.

OH GOD IM COMING!

haha pwn

quote:Originally posted by cluntoris:

what kind of sick slut wants to be hit during sex? wtf is wrong with people.

^cluntoris^

-Raises hand-

A safety word is a MUST. She will try and push you away, and say no, but that makes it that much hotter. You may feel like you should stop at first when she does that, but don't. Just go harder. If she screams out bannana or some shit, then stop.

And talking about it afterwards helps alot. Too hard? too soft? make sure you know. Always try and throw in some new shit too. I have a hard time coming up with shit sometimes, but I try and think of shit. And dirty talk is great too. I usually don't, because I feel like an ass, unless I'm really into it, or on speed. Call her a whore. If she likes to be hit, she will like that. Pull her hair. Hold her down. Go deep. Fuck like you hate her.

Of course, you can't do that all the time either. Make sure you throw in some real love making too.

I usually end up stopping after a bit, because that shit wears you out. lol

Make her do stuff to. If you are on top, do like that for a bit, then grab her by the hair, and make her bend over. Be forceful. She might not know what you want if you just rip her head up, so yell a command as you do it.

I really need to get some restraints.

Oh, and btw, the poster above, Miss Trust, is my fiance, and that was her first post!

Now me, and her are totseans, and I plan on making an account for my kid too. Gotta pick a name though. For the kid and the account. Any ideas? actually, I'll start a new thread.

A family that posts together stays together!

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