I had dinner with my ex a couple of days ago and I noticed that she had a little bit of a bulge, about the right size and place for her to be 4-5 months pregnant (the right timing for me to have gotten her pregnant). Her face actually looks a little bit thinner so she's not just getting pudgey. She was on the pill the whole time we were dating but there was a patch where she forgot to take it for a couple of days (I don't know if a few days missed would be enough to render it useless).

She hasn't said anything but she is moving back to the USA in a couple of months (she's doing her masters here) so she might have decided to keep it on the quiet... or she might just not be pregnant.

Is there any advice for a guy who has no idea what to think or do?

Errrrrr ask her?

Either that or make it look as if you are going to punch her in the stomach and see if she acts all protective and shit.

Just ask her. If you don't, you might never have the opportunity in the future, and there might be a mini-you running around in America.

I'm at 4 months and I look like 6 months.. Grrr.. Not that this has anything to do with your question.

Yeah just ask her. And as for your question bout the effectiveness of the pill over a prolonged time let me tell you this:

My sister forgot to take the pill for one day and got pregnant. Wasnt a bad thing, her and her boyfriend were planning to have a baby (been together 7 years now).

quote:Originally posted by Enigma2002:

Either that or make it look as if you are going to punch her in the stomach and see if she acts all protective and shit.

Best advice, ever. I do this with all my problems...

quote:Originally posted by Enigma2002:

Either that or make it look as if you are going to punch her in the stomach and see if she acts all protective and shit.

"Yeah I'm not pregnant, feel free to punch me in the stomach"

Huh?

quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

"Yeah I'm not pregnant, feel free to punch me in the stomach"

Huh?

if only...

Yeah but then there's the case of if you ask her and she's NOT pregnant... Lol well she'll just think you think she's fat. And she'll leave you.

quote:Originally posted by Enigma2002:

Errrrrr ask her?

Either that or make it look as if you are going to punch her in the stomach and see if she acts all protective and shit.

Yea, because most women don't try and protect their stomach or whatever when you go to punch them. Only when pregnant.