If hair pulling, slapping, choking, etc. during sex turns you on, but you consider yourself to still love that person, is that wrong? Am I just being a doofus? I feel guilty, but both of us enjoy doing this. What do you think?

It's called tough love and Dr.Phil says it's O-K.

If you both enjoy it, then don't feel guilty.

Also, don't feel guilty if someone does something soley for your pleasure. (although, this is personally one of my weak points.)

Isn't there love in those things as well? Why would there not be. (You might want to mix in some vanilla from time to time though?)

I thought the guilty feeling was why people did that kind of shit with their loves. Then I noticed that the world is a giant orgy, and there's no reason to be ashamed of rough play.

I love you guys. Moar.

i once had a cat named dooface

you both enjoy it. So there are no victims. If there are no victims, what is there to feel guilty about (not that i get much of guilt anyways)

If she doesn't mind, I don't see why you should.

If you're in a healty relationship, you two should be fairly open to each other, and you obviously would share your carnal desires and see if you're partner agrees. Just make sure it doesn't become like this though...

You:Ok...the stand mixer?

Girl:Wtf?

You:Ok...the dog?

Girl:Wtf, I don't want to have sex with a dog

You:Ok...oreo cookies.

Girl:...what?

Yeah man, I would fucking beat a chick I loved.

In bed with her consent... you judgmental shits...

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Yeah man, I would fucking beat a chick I loved.

In bed with her consent... you judgmental shits...

*beats stab just for the fun of it*

*crying bloodied in the corner*

My life was not worth this! I am bottled ina rage cage! Sad HORNY!

I think so. I always tell my man to pull my hair, spank me hard, hold me down, bite me. But he won't. He says he doesn't like that. It's okay though, I still love him.

It's fine.. but watch what you do, one time i was fucked while I had my period and then for fun the blood was wiped on my stomach

Sounds weirdly mean eh... that i did not ask for

Ran with it too far

quote:Originally posted by Toddler Fondler:

If hair pulling, slapping, choking, etc. during sex turns you on, but you consider yourself to still love that person, is that wrong? Am I just being a doofus? I feel guilty, but both of us enjoy doing this. What do you think?

I think we might have a difference of opinion on what 'rough' means...

If she REALLY wanted me to... maybe.

quote:Originally posted by Ojise:

It's fine.. but watch what you do, one time i was fucked while I had my period and then for fun the blood was wiped on my stomach

Sounds weirdly mean eh... that i did not ask for

Ran with it too far

FUCKING PWNED! Wow what a sick bastard.

And it's fine man. I love my girl, and we do that shit all the time. Don't we babe?

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

If she REALLY wanted me to... maybe.

Seriously...I could not grant such a request.

I could only be rough if I was mad as hell.

But that's unnessary roughness and I'd rather not suffer the penalties.

I ilke to be punched, spit on, have blood wiped/spat in my face, etc during sex. It's fun.

LOL Yes we do it all the time, because he loves me and I like it like that ;-)

quote:Originally posted by stupid noob:

FUCKING PWNED! Wow what a sick bastard.

And it's fine man. I love my girl, and we do that shit all the time. Don't we babe?

Hey I'm not a sick bastard, and she totally threatened to do the same thing to me once.

Rough sex is fun, but it should be stoped before it gets too intense, or too real.

I'm sorry baby if i hurt your feelings, I love you.