I was wondering. If a guy comes up and starts talking to you. What is the first thing that comes in your mind? I know the human brain is probably the same in male and female. I like thinking in my own personal experience to try to figure out how I should approach a girl. Withought letting her think I'm a class clown type of man. I'm usually don't talk to girls since I think to hard about it. I been reading tips and shit lately. And It kind of boosted my self esteem into talking and socializing to girls other than saying "Can I borrow a sheet of paper Please?" all the time.

I know that you should compliment her and shit. To show her you are confident in yourself to talk to her. I believe unconfident men has the most trouble getting a girl. I know plenty of geeks and the ugliest mother fuckers with the hottest girls in the school. I guess it doesn't matter about looks. Just the first impression. And that is way to difficult for me to do. When I laugh or giggle I hate showing my teeth so I turn around sorta of in a way. This just tells me in my head she may not be interested in me since I may tell her in her mind that she is not interesting. LOL get me. Do you think it would be better if I go ahead smile in front of her while looking at her face? I don't have bad teeth its just isn't normal for me to smile.

Another thing I asked this girl today "Tiffany let me look at your eyes". She showed me them. I told her they don't match her shirt so I told her to take it off. I think it was little to fast. Now she might think I'm a horny bastard just looking for sex.

Any suggestions?

You: "I am going to destroy you. Wanna know how?"

Her: "...How?"

You: "With my COCK!"

I might just get bitched slapped in probably kicked on the ground. Besides I forgot to mention this is an alternative school for bad kids.

'"Tiffany let me look at your eyes". She showed me them. I told her they don't match her shirt so I told her to take it off.'

uhhh.... yeah if i was a chick, that would probably freak me out. Shes just a classmate right? Dont think shed disrobe herself just because you wanted to stare at her tits.

Unless it was fucking obvious you were making an inapropriate joke? inapropriate jokes rule.

*is a chick* - your intentions do NOT seem pure - if she's freaky like that it could be a positive thing... If she's normal-ish, then stop being weird. Smile. Be nice. Be casual. Move in slowly.

Girls want the cock just as much as you do.

quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:

Girls want the cock just as much as you do.

True, but if a guy just wants to offer his cock, most chicks wont be interested in anything BUT his cock. If that's what the guy is after then sure thing.. But if you're after something more, sex isn't the best way to break the ice.

I'd probably laugh and punch you in the arm if you said that to me.

quote:Originally posted by Bananas:

True, but if a guy just wants to offer his cock, most chicks wont be interested in anything BUT his cock. If that's what the guy is after then sure thing.. But if you're after something more, sex isn't the best way to break the ice.

I was implying he was gay.

Oh.. lulz?

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

I'd probably laugh and punch you in the arm if you said that to me.

If he was a kid in one of your classes you haven't spoken to before... I don't think so.

quote:Originally posted by Bananas:

Oh.. lulz?

He got me too.

So you want girls not to think you want to have sex with them, although you do?

Nice.

Your right man.

Well think of it this way. I'm a guy and I love it when girls approach me. It shows that they have the guts and confidence to talk to someone completely new and random. Now just apply that to girls. Imagine that they love it when guys approach them. People are instinctually on the hunt for a mate. Treat her like a human being and don't let her or her ego stomp all over you.

It's really not that hard. Take women off of that pedistole you've got them placed on, first off.

I talk to guys all of the time during class, talk to them about what's going on. Something in school, somebody in school, a sport...it doesn't matter. Make jokes with them and express your opinions on things. When they're trying to get attention, pay it to them by laughing and asking what they're doing(if you pay attention you'll notice it).

Just treat us like we're one of your friends. It works for me.

quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:



I was implying he was gay.

I got it. Made me laugh.

Talk to them like you would a guy. We're not aliens=] If you want to really get in her good books and instantly have something in common, then comment her on something she's looking at, wearing or whatever, or get talking somehow and find some sort of common ground. I am way more interested int alking to someone when I realise that we have at least something in common.

Aussi, is English not your first language?