Repost from SG.

Alright, so heres the deal. I'm 16 years old and live in the North Ireland. No qualifications whatsoever, i'm stuck about my future and don't know whether to go to college, take unskilled work or whatever. I have no hobbies, no social skills and basically sit at home all day on my computer.

I've lurked here and at various forums for ages, and there seem to be a lot of people here who have things together, so can I ask: What do you suggest I do? I'm white, 5"10, average in looks, well spoken with an intelligence that means I could do anything if I set my mind to it, from a scientist to a garbage collector. I don't know whether to go to college or see it as a waste of time, whether to get a job, make friends, not make friends, whatever.

As I said, right now all I do is wake up and sit on my computer all day, go to sleep, repeat. I haven't caught a bus or even a train before.

What routine should I develop to improve my skills with women - for example, should I start going out 4 days a week for 4 hours? What about exercise? What clothes do I buy? I also have no friends, and it'd be useful to get some so I have social proof whilst sarging. My body language and attitude, however, is shit, and I find that people just don't get along with me.

If this seems slightly misplaced, I apologise, but I think this community is really the only place that can help me. Totse, what do I do with my life?

[This message has been edited by A verbis ad verbera (edited 12-11-2006).]

How about you Reinvent Yourself?

didn't this user come in here and troll with a similar story a few months back?

quote:Originally posted by A verbis ad verbera:

What routine should I develop to improve my skills with women - for example, should I start going out 4 days a week for 4 hours?

This sort of thing is best when spontaneous, although i can agree that you may have to force yourself to go out of your comfort area at first, until you start socializing out of habit.

But about yourself - no one is going to fix you. you need to want this for yourself, and you need to be willing to do it all yourself. no one here will save you, that's up to you. for starters, take a break from the internet, get out in the world, and start to get to know yourself a little better. what you like, dislike, want, hate... then you'll be more able to create the "you" that you're going to be happy with.

To sum it up - no one here is going to invent you. you need to re-invent yourself.

I will do things for myself. Just tell me what to do and i'll do it. I just don't know what to do.

Dont they have personality templates on limewire yet?

as long as your not a ghetto-fuck, then i dont see why you cant get friends...get the fuck out there, asshole!

first catch a train somewhere and get the bus back.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

this user came in here and trolled with a similar story a few months back