Alright, I'm going to try and keep this topic short and simple.

I went on a date with a girl on friday. It went really well, she obviously likes me, and I like her. However, in a week, we get off school for winter break. She's gone the whole break, visiting France.

Is it best to put the moves on when she comes back, or do I make the final push before she leaves? I can see benefits to both situations and just thought I'd ask the professionals for their advice.

What are "the moves"?

I suggest making sure she knows that you are interested and that you perhaps want to make something of it when she gets back from france.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

What are "the moves"?

Hahaha, sorry for being vague. I suppose you could've taken that a number of way

What I mean is asking her out basically - making it more official. Hope that clarifies.

well, i'm about to go abroad for a semester myself, and a couple weeks ago a guy tried to "make the push" prematurely before i left. didn't work. i'd make my feelings known, but don't presume anything like "waiting" for her. wish her a happy trip, maybe keep in touch through msn/aim while she's gone, but otherwise continue with life till she gets back. who knows, she might change. hell, you might even change. no use trying to plan something like that so far ahead when you two aren't together yet. i mean, you can't put her on hold like you would a book or shirt.

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 12-11-2006).]

Yes, you can make your interest clear. The ball is in her court from that point.

To both Euda and Lauren, your advice was just what I needed to hear. I'll let her know that I have interest, but I'll go about my winter break like normal.

Hopefully it'll work out when she gets back, I mean, it's only 3 weeks. However, if it doesn't, life goes on.

Thanks for the quick advice.