im starting to really like her, like to the point where im trying to find excuses to talk to her or hang out with her.

but here's the first problem: she's taken, she has a boyfriend who she does like, and i dont see them breaking up anytime soon

and so therefore i decided to ignore my feelings and try to ignore her.

but heres problem two: she gives me a big 'i want you' hug whenever i see her and her boyfriend isnt around. (and this isnt something she does to anyone else, she's not a tease or anything) and shes now calling me whenever she needs cheering up.



so, what should i do?

there is no way i would encourage her to cheat on her boyfriend, ive had that happen to me, and i wouldnt wish that on him.

but should i tell her how i feel or just let things go as they are now?

quote:Originally posted by Normalpeopleareme:

[...]shes now calling me whenever she needs cheering up[...]

You're obviously the poor sap that she crawls to when she's sad, and doesn't want to talk to her girlfriends about it. Because her boyfriend assuredly doesn't want to hear her bitch babble.

Hah, have fun with that, I guess... Just stop listening to her babbling about shit, and tell her to go bother her boyfriend because you don't care unless you're getting some sex.

While this might seem harsh, it's really what you want, even if it's not in the words you're thinking. It's also what she'd respond to, best, if she wants you.

All there is to do is supress your emotions and feelings towards her and just leave it for time to change, you never know they could break up in a few weeks time. I dont know, just leave your options open I guess.

Edit: Wrong word

[This message has been edited by Mindless Xyzzyean (edited 12-11-2006).]