So I'm going out with this one chick right now and we've been dateing for about 3 months and she's a bit emotionally unstable. Now thats all fine and happy except I been talkin to this other chick who's been crushin on me for a while. This is were the problem occures. This other chick is better lookin, has more in commmon with me, and is a lot more stable then my current gf, so here in-lies the problem, go out with the new one and leave the other, or stay with my current and hope she looses interest. Now if only it was that simple, you see my current is very unstable and if I do break up with her she will do something irrational, and I dont want that to happen. So I would like to get some feed back befor I do anything, so please give me some serious advice, thank ya.

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quote:Originally posted by pyro777:

Now if only it was that simple, you see my current is very unstable and if I do break up with her she will do something irrational, and I dont want that to happen.

She isn't going to do anything too irrational, I'm sure. And really, you have to remember something. Look out for yourself, first, and then other stupid bitches second. What's more important, you getting the better girl, or the worse girl getting you?

Stop being so foolish and dump your current irrational bitch, and get with the more stable, sexier, and most likely better at sex new chick. Problem solved, and with only one life maybe lost. Booh Yah!

Better to break up with the unstable one right now. Why hang onto her? It'll only hurt her worse later anyway.

Fact is, if you're considering the crush girl, you'd consider others as well.

Even if you don't end up with the one that likes you, it's better to just be rid of the crazy one earlier.

I think you're the problem, it seems that you cant' be pleased with anything; its like you just want more and more. But in the end I guess you just have to chose, who you are better suited with, who makes you smile, who makes you happy and generally who you want to be with.

You need to talk to this girl you've been dating, tell her how you feel etc. It wont be easy, but then again... relationships are like that . But it still seems like you care about 'her' (the one you're dating) and you've offered this to be fairly biased against your girlfriend...

Just do what you feel is the right decision.