so i'm having trouble with this girl i thought i liked. i barely know her and she acts like we are going out just because we had sex a few times. i can't put up with this girl acting like we're in highschool. basically she is infatuated with me way too early in the relationship.

i already stopped having sex with her and i'm not gonna fuck her again if she keeps acting like this. how can i get her to relax and act like a normal person rather than an infatuated schoolgirl?

quote:Originally posted by kenwih:

so i'm having trouble with this girl i thought i liked. i barely know her and she acts like we are going out just because we had sex a few times. i can't put up with this girl acting like we're in highschool. basically she is infatuated with me way too early in the relationship.

i already stopped having sex with her and i'm not gonna fuck her again if she keeps acting like this. how can i get her to relax and act like a normal person rather than an infatuated schoolgirl?

No. I think you need to stop fucking girls like thats all they are for, then this wouldn't happen. Idiot.

You could allways... fucking tell her how you feel!?



We're not all telepaths, apparently, so she might not have the ability to understand just how uncomfortable she's making you feel.



Just tell her (as nice as possible) that you feel a bit..cornered. There's no way to say it that wont hurt her, but if you're getting pissed off at her then hurting her atleast will give you some breathing space.

quote:Originally posted by Influx:

No. I think you need to stop fucking girls like thats all they are for, then this wouldn't happen. Idiot.

no. that's not it at all. i really liked her, but she acts like we've been together for much longer than we have. thing is i could of fucked two different people yesterday that look better than her but i didn't b/c that's not rigtht.

hell, she almost act's like i took her fucking cherry...

quote:Originally posted by kenwih:

no. that's not it at all. i really liked her, but she acts like we've been together for much longer than we have. thing is i could of fucked two different people yesterday that look better than her but i didn't b/c that's not rigtht.

hell, she almost act's like i took her fucking cherry...

Oh. I apologize for the idiot remark. But, what you need to do is talk to her about it, that should help out quite a bit.

A lot of women seem clingy. She probably hasn't had many relationships so she's just following her examples on TV and such, not really aware of reality. The best thing you can do for her is to talk about it. If nobody does she'll be annoying the fuck out of all guys, thinking there's nothing wrong with it. They're annoying, true, and I don't really think they get that much better, but you could atleast talk to her.

It'd be the mature thing to do, plus you said you didn't want a highschool relationship, that'd be far from one.

First of all, calm down and view her as a person on your level, despite her behaviour. Secondly, as previously mentioned by a couple of very intelligent posters, have a chat to her about taking it slow emotionally.

am i the only person who ever wants girls to be clingy?

quote:Originally posted by bazthefish:

am i the only person who ever wants girls to be clingy?

Nope

Why do people related to girls as 'bitches', even people they are closely involved with. I really dont understand that; just seems really degrading.