Is this considered okay (in most circumstances)? If a guy starts moaning while he's getting blown, can you honestly say the girl will like it or is it just depending on the girl? Sorry if this is short and badly put together, I'm a little baked.

Your input is highly appreciated, thanks in advance.

Eh, I wouldn't moan, but breathing heavy and making noises with your breath are always good. But when you moan, all your doing is telling her that you like what she's doing so it can't be a bad thing.

Moaning in a manly way is fine I guess. What is however très naff is the habit some blokes have off calling out crap like 'who is the Daddy' or 'goal!' when they come ...so I am told.

Also 'commentary' tends to nark women off. I mean 'oh yeeees you horny slut, take it in all the way, you want it all baby, yes yes deeper, eaaaaat my cock honey'

Again so I have been told.

"GAHHHHHHH!"

men groan, not moan.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Moaning in a manly way is fine I guess. What is however très naff is the habit some blokes have off calling out crap like 'who is the Daddy' or 'goal!' when they come ...so I am told.

Also 'commentary' tends to nark women off. I mean 'oh yeeees you horny slut, take it in all the way, you want it all baby, yes yes deeper, eaaaaat my cock honey'

Again so I have been told.

LMAO. That'd turn me off just to say it. Except "goal", which is funny. But seriously saying that "daddy" shit or whatever... no one REALLY does that... do they?

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Also 'commentary' tends to nark women off. I mean 'oh yeeees you horny slut, take it in all the way, you want it all baby, yes yes deeper, eaaaaat my cock honey'

My ex used to love when I did that. She'd tell me to talk more. I was eventually at a loss of what to say.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

LMAO. That'd turn me off just to say it. Except "goal", which is funny. But seriously saying that "daddy" shit or whatever... no one REALLY does that... do they?

Your a female?!

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

My ex used to love when I did that. She'd tell me to talk more. I was eventually at a loss of what to say.

"I can taste your lips through my dick, lawl"

Guys don't moan, but they sure do make some funny noises.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

But seriously saying that "daddy" shit or whatever... no one REALLY does that... do they?

Yeah, I think alot of people do. Though I never say things like "who's your daddy?". I mean, the girl might be like "my daddy is bob, we had lunch with him today...is this really the right time to be discussing this?"

quote:Originally posted by Pirate Hippie:

Guys don't moan, but they sure do make some funny noises.

This is very true Once, I had this amazing orgasm and I snorted.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Also 'commentary' tends to nark women off. I mean 'oh yeeees you horny slut, take it in all the way, you want it all baby, yes yes deeper, eaaaaat my cock honey'

Eh, I thought a minority of women really liked dirty talk, or maybe it's a matter of the mood they're in.

As for "goal!", well, ah fuck it nobody's that fucked.

quote:Originally posted by pianoSpleen:

As for "goal!", well, ah fuck it nobody's that fucked.

GOAL! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rn9mpQitF6c)

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quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

GOAL! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rn9mpQitF6c)



*slaps extremely hard*

YOU SILLY

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Yeah, I think alot of people do. Though I never say things like "who's your daddy?". I mean, the girl might be like "my daddy is bob, we had lunch with him today...is this really the right time to be discussing this?"

That made me laugh.

guys moaning = hottttt.

it turns me on.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

guys moaning = hottttt.

it turns me on.

I just realised that they usually gasp in straight porn, but from what I've seen of gay porn they moan a lot more in it.

Maybe because in straight porn the emphasis is on the girl.

Edit: THAT'S THE SHIT RIGHT THERE. Aight it was accepted by society that men are allowed to have sex drives earlier than women. Men could be a bit more liberal about it. So they started buying much more porn than girls. They didn't want to see a guy's dick so they buy lesbian porn. Guys start thinking lesbians are hotter, and girls pander to that. Fucking retarded shit, I hate those girls. Anyway.

So, porn is like a rolemodel for today's generation's sexuality.

The important thing here though, is that in the vast vast majority of plain porn the emphasis is on the GIRL. This means the GIRL can moan and the GUY cannot. Same deal as with lesbians, girls got the idea that it's alright for them to moan and not for guys.

Tis bullshit.

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Uh...uuuh.......uuuuuhhhhhhhh

I don't know if this is moaning, but usually I'm sayin somethin like "shut the fuck up bitch or I'll slit your throat" in kind a breathy/raspy kind of way.

God yes, I like it. I think there's something wrong if they aren't moaning - for both head and sex.

Although I do understand that some guys just don't moan much at all.

A little vocalised encouragement is most definitely a good thing. When a guy is virtually silent, it makes me feel self conscious or maybe that he's bored. Guys like it when girls moan, right? Why shouldn't it go both ways?

guys, i hereby instruct you to make noises in bed.

Haha, I always wanted to bust in a chick and go "Shazaaammmm!"

I guess I'm insane for wanting to do it at a party and make sure everyone heard; I'd laugh my ass off if someone else were to do it.

When you feel your thing go?

Shout, "Bingo!"

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

guys, i hereby instruct you to make noises in bed.

qft.

It's great when guys are vocal in bed. You're so much more likely to get what you want if you make sure she knows what you like and don't like. So moan, groan and talk a little dirty if you so desire. Why should girls get to be the noisy ones?

i think it would depend on the voice and type of moan.

If you have a qwivery high pitched voice like me, moaning would not be advisable.

i'll gasp if i'm getting head and it hits the spot, but if i'm pumping away i'm usually concentrating on pumping and kissing.

hearing a guy moan when giving them head just makes me more hornier, and then i just get really really into it, instead of sucking to please myself,( i have a sucking fetish for those who dont know) i do it to please him more, not that hes not hard already i kinda like it when a guy says a little dirty talk, just not goal, or who's ur daddy

This thread made me contemplate the state of boredom amongst TOTSE users. I moan. If I'm getting head I'll moan, with the occasional "Suck it" or "Fuck yeah," and other typical dumb shit. It don't matter. If it feels good I let her know about it, so she can keep doing what feels the best. If I sat there lifeless she'd obviously be less into it because she'd think it wasn't very pleasurable for me. Who cares? Moaning is moaning, male or female.

I don't care either way, but if they're a little bit vocal I at least know I'm doing something right.

Oh I'm quiet as shit in bed, dont know why at all. I usually just occupy my mouth with kissing, everywhere

I fucking love it when guys make noise during sexual activity. Fucking love it!! Some guys try to stay quiet to be tough or something I guess.. But I don't want to be screwing someone and have no idea if he's enjoying himself or not. Personally, when I'm close to orgasm, I can't help but scream the house down. I have to bite pillows and stuff to keep quiet. If I don't hear even a peep out of a boy, I worry he's not into it.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

LMAO. That'd turn me off just to say it. Except "goal", which is funny. But seriously saying that "daddy" shit or whatever... no one REALLY does that... do they?

I've had it said to me.. I was out of there - FAST!

I don't like doing it at any stage, but i'm not a loud person and am not fondof expressing myself that way, my ex however tried o encourage me, so i guess it depends on the lady ...

All i know is that girls moaning turns me on like shit and that i will vocalise my level of enjoyment.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

guys, i hereby instruct you to stick it in my butt

Fixed. That'll solve the moaning problem for everyone.