I just got one hanging out with this girl that I've had a thing with for a week or so now. We're not really going out or anything yet but we're into each other and all. So we're sitting there on her computer and she starts bringing up pictures of her old fucking boyfriends! There is no fucking way to explain how much shit like that pisses me off. She started telling me about how she use to let him tie her up and all that shit.

Then she shows me all these pictures of them kissing and them doing all this shit together.

Is this a bad sign? Should I just give up with this girl or what?

What a fucked up bitch... That's definitely not right.

I rarely even MENTION my ex's or sexual experience to any girl I'm with. I certainly wouldn't want her to do it.

Was it like, them smiling for a picture...or like... amateur porno and money shots? I'd be worried about the later.

quote:Originally posted by Station:

Was it like, them smiling for a picture...or like... amateur porno and money shots? I'd be worried about the later.

Heh, no the worst was just them kissing and grabbing. No money shots. But it's still a bit fucked up right?

I usually try to hide past shit from current girlfriends or dating partners. I wouldn't be surprised if some of them thought I was a virgin or close to it.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I usually try to hide past shit from current girlfriends or dating partners. I wouldn't be surprised if some of them thought I was a virgin or close to it.

This girl is VERY open about her not being a virgin. I read somewhere that one of the worst things a girl could do to you is talk about her past boyfriends, and that it means she's not into you at all. But I'm pretty sure she is so I'm very very confused.

i was ontop of my girlfriend doing some foreplay ad i was like " i dont want to put my full body wieght on you...Il crush you." and she said "dont worry i had matt on me." like i dont fucking know matt or anything. like gah i instantly lost my boner got off her and told her to make me food. (lol its funny because every part of that was true.)

WTF to the both above posts...

That is some fucked up shit.

quote:Originally posted by xAx:

i was ontop of my girlfriend doing some foreplay ad i was like " i dont want to put my full body wieght on you...Il crush you." and she said "dont worry i had matt on me." like i dont fucking know matt or anything. like gah i instantly lost my boner got off her and told her to make me food. (lol its funny because every part of that was true.)

Aw man that's an ego killer. But the the food thing is fucking hilarious! Classic dude.

quote:Originally posted by xAx:

i was ontop of my girlfriend doing some foreplay ad i was like " i dont want to put my full body wieght on you...Il crush you." and she said "dont worry i had matt on me." like i dont fucking know matt or anything. like gah i instantly lost my boner got off her and told her to make me food. (lol its funny because every part of that was true.)

Same deal with my ex-ex, except there was no name mentioned it was 'ive had heavier on me' at which point I shuddered a bit, told her to do me a favour, and not say shit like that because it bothers/pisses me off. Done deal.

quote:Originally posted by Orange_Crusader:

Same deal with my ex-ex, except there was no name mentioned it was 'ive had heavier on me' at which point I shuddered a bit, told her to do me a favour, and not say shit like that because it bothers/pisses me off. Done deal.

"Daddy was heavier when I was smaller!?

She told you about how her ex used to tie her up?

She either doesn't like you, or she does and she wants you to think she's wild/will put out.

quote:Originally posted by Basik:

She told you about how her ex used to tie her up?

She either doesn't like you, or she does and she wants you to think she's wild/will put out.

Yeah I would think it's the second one. At least I hope it is. She really is fucking nuts.

If she's fuckin' nuts?

Just get her suckin' nuts!

sounds like a lack of tact.

perhaps she is hinting about her sex life, maby feeling you out before she decided to do with anything with you, i did almost the same thing with an ex, and the first time we had sex, he was doing the stuff that i told him turned me on, my ex introduced me too, maby shes trying to see if your into a little light bondage before sleeping with you?

quote:Originally posted by Orange_Crusader:

Same deal with my ex-ex, except there was no name mentioned it was 'ive had heavier on me' at which point I shuddered a bit, told her to do me a favour, and not say shit like that because it bothers/pisses me off. Done deal.

Fuck! Amen, man, I absolutely hate that. As soon as a girl says something along those lines, I tell her to get the fuck off me and make me a god damn sandwich.

No, she just needs time to remember the past before she lets go. It's annoying indeed, and rude but don't hate her for it. If it hasn't been too long since they've broken up then it should be understandable.

If you don't believe she's completely over him I wouldn't try to start anything. If you're not attached yet, let go while it's easy. You'll come across another young lass!

quote:Originally posted by sylph:

No, she just needs time to remember the past before she lets go. It's annoying indeed, and rude but don't hate her for it. If it hasn't been too long since they've broken up then it should be understandable.

If you don't believe she's completely over him I wouldn't try to start anything. If you're not attached yet, let go while it's easy. You'll come across another young lass!

True true. She went out with him for something like 14 months she said, and he just broke up with her in september, so I guess I can see why she's still like that. I think I might just let this whole thing with her go. I don't want to get too involved, especially with her stocker-ass boyfriend she has right now.

She doesn't like you one bit.. more then a friend anyways.

Damn this girl is confusing. I'm talking to her right now and she keeps telling me about how she likes her sex and how she wants to get with me and shit. But then like 5 minutes later she will start going off about her old boyfriend and how much she misses him and how she wants him back so bad.....UGH! Pissing me the fuck off.

What is up with this shit?

She's just fucking with you man.. either take control of the situation, or tell her to fuck off if you don't know how.

quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:

Damn this girl is confusing. I'm talking to her right now and she keeps telling me about how she likes her sex and how she wants to get with me and shit. But then like 5 minutes later she will start going off about her old boyfriend and how much she misses him and how she wants him back so bad.....UGH! Pissing me the fuck off.

What is up with this shit?

she told u she misses her old bloke to your face fucking dump her man and put him in hospital

She misses her ex.

Just don't go there. You'll find someone else.

Simple as.

quote:Originally posted by Tokolosh:

She misses her ex.

Just don't go there. You'll find someone else.

Simple as.

Yeah I'm thinking of just giving up. It's weird though because I'm really into this girl and all. Not like stalkerish or anything but she's cool as hell and hot too. I was talking to her today and she told me that until she breaks up with her boyfriend, which won't be any time soon according to her, she doesn't want to go further than friends with me. Even though we've already made out.

It's just going to be so awkward being just friends with her because I have all these feelings for her and she knows it now... and we won't be able to do anything about it.

Have sex with her once, and then kindly tell her to shut up about her old boyfriend next time she mentions him. If she doesn't, tell her to fuck off.

It should be easy. She sounds fun, but in small doses.

quote:Originally posted by smallpox champion:

Have sex with her once, and then kindly tell her to shut up about her old boyfriend next time she mentions him. If she doesn't, tell her to fuck off.

It should be easy. She sounds fun, but in small doses.

WEll I wish she'd fuck me. Otherwise I'd have already done that. She has already told me that she would in a second if she wasn't dating someone already. I just gotta get rid of her current boyfriend. She keeps saying that it's not going to be before Christmas though.