For some reason the title looks wrong... meh, anyway.

I know fantasies aren't something to be guilty about right? I mean, as long as it isn't like really weird freaky shit. Blah, here is my story.

My boyfriend has this really hot friend. As in super incredibly hot. He's got that... aura, you know, where you just want to fuck him. Anyway, I was out with my b/f and his friends for food last night, and I looked over at the hot friend, and he was licking his lips in this totally non-sexual way, but it's like everything he does is so sexually charged... GAH. I was just sitting there looking into space, daydreaming, not about my boyfriend, but about the hot friend.

And I feel so bad! I'd never do anything with the guy, not even if me and the b/f broke up cuz even then that's just sketchy, but damn. What makes it worse is that he has a thing for me, and my boyfriend knows it, so I get all paranoid sometimes.

Everyone has fantasies though, right? Should I feel guilty? Because I really do. I just can't help it. Anyone else ever had something like this? I need reassurance.

fap

Dont feel guilty. So what, you thought about fucking another guy, i'm sure your boyfriend has thought about fucking another girl in just the same way.

You know you love and trust each other, and neither of you would go any further with the fantasies.

Dont worry, its natural.

quote:Originally posted by reject:

i'm sure your boyfriend has thought about fucking another girl in just the same way.



ESPECIALLY your best friend. NO MATTER WHAT SHE LOOKS LIKE!

quote:Originally posted by reject:

Dont feel guilty. So what, you thought about fucking another guy, i'm sure your boyfriend has thought about fucking another girl in just the same way.

You know you love and trust each other, and neither of you would go any further with the fantasies.

Dont worry, its natural.

Heh, what made it worse is we were at his house afterwards just sittin, and he said something like "you know how usually when you're dating someone you still look at other girls? I don't do that anymore, I don't even notice them." And I know that it's at least half-bullshit, but just the fact that he said it right then... so bad.

Ahaha, oh yeah, and he showed me this hammer dealie he made back in the day, and I called it "the Banhammer" accidentally, then couldn't stop laughing, then I left.



[This message has been edited by Demoiselle (edited 12-09-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



ESPECIALLY your best friend. NO MATTER WHAT SHE LOOKS LIKE!

Hah, funny story. The hot friend fucked my no longer best friend. And that's part of the reason she's my no-longer best friend. Ick.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Hah, funny story. The hot friend fucked my no longer best friend. And that's part of the reason she's my no-longer best friend. Ick.



What the fuck is up with you? Thats part of the reason she's no longer you're friend?

So she fucked some hot guy, that coincidentally you could never have (You have a boyfriend) and then you decided she could no longer be your best friend? All because she done something you wished you could? Something that you have fantasized about.. (Hence this thread)

Thats pretty pathetic. Unless of course it is part of the reason. Then, fair enough... But if you lost a friend over something so trivial, I think you need to re-evaluate alot of your friendships.

I trust my friends more then anything in the world; They come before anything else. If my mate got off with a girl that I fantasized about, I'd congratulate him and buy him a beer. (Yeah, I know its different for girls, But the principle is the same)

Sorry if thats come off harsh.

[This message has been edited by Modzilla (edited 12-09-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Modzilla:

What the fuck is up with you? Thats part of the reason she's no longer you're friend?

So she fucked some hot guy, that coincidentally you could never have (You have a boyfriend) and then you decided she could no longer be your best friend? All because she done something you wished you could? Something that you have fantasized about.. (Hence this thread)

Thats pretty fucking pathetic.

Umm, no, it's because she kept fucking different guys every like 3 days, started doing coke and generally turned into a person I couldn't stand to be around. And she happened to fuck the hot friend in my house, after crying about getting ditched by this other guy for a milf. Fuck that.

Edit: And this happened before me and my boyfriend were dating, so technically I could have had him if I wanted him. But I don't, really. He's just damn foxy.



[This message has been edited by Demoiselle (edited 12-09-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Umm, no, it's because she kept fucking different guys every like 3 days, started doing coke and generally turned into a person I couldn't stand to be around. And she happened to fuck the hot friend in my house, after crying about getting ditched by this other guy for a milf. Fuck that.

Edit: And this happened before me and my boyfriend were dating, so technically I could have had him if I wanted him. But I don't, really. He's just damn foxy.



Ah, Sorry then. If you read my edited post you'll see that it was my rant that went OTT. (Bah, Stuff happening in my life, torn between friends etc.)

Sorry to hear about you losing your best mate. It would hurt me like a bitch to lose any friend, let alone a best one. (i.e One who knows everything about you, you share everything with, you tell them stuff before anyone else... That closeness which ONLY comes with being a best friend)

Heh, didn't see the edit. It definitely sucked losing a best friend, and following that, my main group of friends, but I've gotten over it. I still see them occasionally, we party, but it's just not the same. I'm hi-jacking my own thread though.

Back to the main topic!!!

You should feel bad. Well, I would. I mean, if I knew my girlfriend found my best friend more attractive than me... I guess it's not really fair. I have a weak ego and an inferiority complex so maybe I'm not the best judge.

Ugh, I've had this "best friend complex" as I like to call it for way too long. I thought I finally got over it though. First there was the creepy dude who was like, obsessed with me, then I met his best friend (I didn't know they were best friends at the time) and started dating him, then the whole thing came together. AWKWARD.

Then there was the guy who cheated on me, and his best friend told me about it even though I already knew. Went out for 2 months. Didn't cause any problems with that one though.

And also the 2 guys who ruined there friendship through their fighting over me, even though I wasn't interested in either one, and they both knew it.

WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?!

Although at least this time I'm sticking with my boyfriend, no questions asked. I <3 him.

I had a fantasy for a girl and I fapped over it.

Turned out she had fem-fapped (loookee what I did! I just made up a new term for female masturbation!) over fantasies of me.

We had sex. It was good.

^^ That must have been a weird convo... and fem fapped, I like it. Stealing.

Just don't go any further than fantasizing and don't tell your bf that you find his friend hotter.

Do you find the guy hotter than my boyfriend?

I don't care if my girlfriend masturbates over my friends, as long as 1. she doesn't tell me about it 2. I'm the hottest

Haha, I'm definitely not going to tell my boyfriend. Especially since the guy has a thing for me, and there was whole issue a few months ago about him like, staring at me all the time or something. Wasn't so good. And nothing will ever come of it.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Do you find the guy hotter than my boyfriend?

I don't care if my girlfriend masturbates over my friends, as long as 1. she doesn't tell me about it 2. I'm the hottest

Your boyfriend?!

And yeah, as long as she found me the hottest I wouldn't care.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Your boyfriend?!

shit, Freudian slip

Demoiselle, I like reading your posts for some reason. Very interesting.

You called it the Banhammer! That's the fucking funniest thing I've heard all day!

quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:

Demoiselle, I like reading your posts for some reason. Very interesting.

You called it the Banhammer! That's the fucking funniest thing I've heard all day!

Haha, as soon as I said it I was like "oh shit..." and he was like "did you just say banhammer?" and I said "umm... yeah... nevermind..." Then I laughed uncontrollably the whole drive home. Twas fun.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Haha, as soon as I said it I was like "oh shit..." and he was like "did you just say banhammer?" and I said "umm... yeah... nevermind..." Then I laughed uncontrollably the whole drive home. Twas fun.

Hahaha your my new favorite totsean.

quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:

Hahaha your my new favorite totsean.

I are loved!