Ok so me and this girl jessica have been flirting for a while and stuff, I asked her out, she said yea. so were going to the movies tomorrow. Now were not officially going or anything yet but we both know we have a thing for eachother. Today we were hanging out right before she had to go to work and she said she wanted to tell me something before she left but was slightly hesitant about it. I said ok, and she basically told me that before she knew me she agreed to go with some asian guy to dinner and a movie. Her sister is going out with this asian guys roomate I guess, and was trying to hook her up with someone. She said she didnt want to break a promise she made or something.

What would you do in this situation? should I be worried?

i'd tell her to call the azn guy up, and be straight up with him. if she goes to dinner with him now, all she'd be doing is leading him on. and that aint fair to you or the azn.

quote:Originally posted by PirateJoe:

i'd tell her to call the azn guy up, and be straight up with him. if she goes to dinner with him now, all she'd be doing is leading him on. and that aint fair to you or the azn.

Im pretty sure if I told her that, she would just remind me that she promised to go with him.

quote:Originally posted by Icepick Gag Reflex:

Im pretty sure if I told her that, she would just remind me that she promised to go with him.

then tell her that she's with you now, and that azn shit can go screw himself. its not a hard concept.

[This message has been edited by PirateJoe (edited 12-09-2006).]

So... what the hell does she think she's going to do? If she's into you, she's just going to go out on a date with a guy she's not into, and stretch things out way too much. This dude will think he has a chance, how it's so great he's got this cool chick, aaaaaaand... find out she's with you, and he was just strung along because she doesn't think he can handle the truth.

Tell her to call him and be straight with him. Explain to her how this is the best thing for all involved.

If she thinks it's not the best for all involved... well, do you KNOW this girl is more into you than the asian guy?

Two options either have her cancel with the asian dude or tell her to get fucked. Seriously if she was that into you she would cancel some dinner with another guy.

Bahahaha asians.

Weeeell, you should tell her to go on the date, but WHILE she's out with him tell him that it's as friends only, and nothing more will come of it.

It shows a lot about her character that she values her word so much. She did promise him. And when it comes down to it, our word is all we have.

*edit*

(common scenario) If a girl cheats on her boyfriend for you, then decides she wants you, how do you she wont just cheat on you for the next guy? It's kind of like that. She's keeping one of her promises. If you ask her to break it, then she can break the promises she makes to you. Get her to keep it, and you can expect her to keep all the promises she makes to you.

Your choice...

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 12-09-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Weeeell, you should tell her to go on the date, but WHILE she's out with him let him that it's as friends only, and nothing more will come of it.

It shows a lot about her character that she values her word so much. She did promise him. And when it comes down to it, our word is all we have.

Smart cookie

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Weeeell, you should tell her to go on the date, but WHILE she's out with him tell him that it's as friends only, and nothing more will come of it.

It shows a lot about her character that she values her word so much. She did promise him. And when it comes down to it, our word is all we have.

Pretty much what I was gonna say. She might want to let him know before they actually go out, but if he still wants to go out, even though it will be just as friends then she should keep her promise.

You should let her go. Preventing her from going will show insecurity.

But she made a promise to both of you so she has to break a promise anyway.

Punch her in the face.

Three-way!

shitty situation. I don't really know what you should do, but I honestly hope you don't get unlucky out of all this.

Tell the bitch to make up her fucking mind. You or the AZN! Give her an ultimatum, don't let her play you like that brotha!

quote:Originally posted by Station:

Bahahaha asians.