So, this isn't exactly a problem I am having, but a problem that I have to hear about constantly from my roommate. He's always going on about how he can't stand having sex only once in a while, especially when he used to have sex with his ex several times a day at times.

He even keeps mentioning that the thought of breaking up with her for it.

Do you think that is a good enough reason to break up with somebody?

Strangely enough, every girl I've ever been with has always had a MUCH higher sex drive than I have.

I can fuck once a week and that'll be more than enough. My ex's always wanted to fuck though. It kinda got annoying. I would do my best to keep up though, so I don't think it would have been fair of them to break up with me for it.

In my friends case though, he has (apparently) tried talking about it with her and they still haven't come to some kind of compromise.

Do you think he'd be in the right if he were to dump her?

Duh, you can break up with someone whenever you want.

quote:Originally posted by Aseren:

Duh, you can break up with someone whenever you want.

Keep in mind that everything else in the relationship is perfect. They also both claim to love each other.

All I know is that I couldn't have a happy long term relationship with a girl whose sex drive was extremely lower than mine.

I consider sex to be a very important part of a relationship.

PART of a relationship. As in one of many other important aspects.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

I consider sex to be a very important part of a relationship.

PART of a relationship. As in one of many other important aspects.

I agree. I mean, I agree in the sense that I understand that to most normal people, sex is very important and goes hand in hand with a romantic relationship.

That is why I am willing to compromise and have sex sometimes when I don't really feel like it.

i am actually in the same position. i am crazy horny lately, like i'll masturbate 3 times a day and still want more (and i would do it more if it wasnt for this damn roommate !).

anywho, i usually am pretty coy when i want sex...i usually just ask him to come over and do the deed. but lately he keeps saying 'no all there is to do at your place is have sex'...so i was hurt and horny. i finally told him last night how bad it is and he said he really won't be able to keep up.

it sucks like all hell, but i'm not dumping him for it.

i guess it all depends on just how important sex is to you.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

i guess it all depends on just how important sex is to you.

Well this roommate that I speak of in the original post has the biggest collection of porno magazines I have ever seen, as well as posters of naked chicks on his walls.

I think he's also the only person I know whom I've accidentally walked in on while masturbating on more than one occasion (and not just when we were living together).

well then sex is a big part of a relationship for him. if it is that important to him, then he should find someone who can fully meet his needs and desires.

honestly, if i was getting it any less than i do now, i would be battling over to cut him loose or not, too.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

'no all there is to do at your place is have sex'..



Your boyfriend sounds pretty fucking boring if all he can think to do is fuck.