Is there anything i can do to last longer during oral sex? Because it's nice as hell and it'd like to be able to last longer than 2 or 3 minutes. Or is that normal?

Pubococcygeus Muscle (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pubococcygeus_muscle)

It's oral, the point is to either pre-heat the oven, or go as fast as possible. I mean, it's not like they're getting off on it too. The fact you go so fast is almost a blessing (as long as it's just with oral, that is).

In case you don't have the willpower to click a link...

quote:Kegel exercises are a set of exercises designed to strengthen and give voluntary control over the pubococcygeus muscles. These exercises are often referred to simply as "kegels." They also serve to contract the cremaster muscle as voluntary contraction of the pubococcygeus muscle (aided by vacuums, sucking in the abdomen/belly button) also engages the cremasteric reflex, which also has sexual benefits.

Kegel exercises appear to enable some men to have multiple orgasms and can help with premature ejaculation.

quote:Originally posted by fatkitty420:

It's oral, the point is to either pre-heat the oven, or go as fast as possible. I mean, it's not like they're getting off on it too. The fact you go so fast is almost a blessing (as long as it's just with oral, that is).

yeah it is pretty convenient. i havent had sex yet so i'll start doing those exercises. anyone know if they work?

quote:Originally posted by fivetwelve:

yeah it is pretty convenient. i havent had sex yet so i'll start doing those exercises. anyone know if they work?

They work extremely well. After a few months of doing them, I was able to last as long as I wanted to, and it felt so much fucking better.

Just do them everyday, and you'll notice results soon enough.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

In case you don't have the willpower to click a link...



how do you do em?

quote:Originally posted by kman101:

how do you do em?

http://www.totse.com/bbs/ubbcode.html

Read that!

After doing it about 5 times it starts to hurt... ouch... am i doing it wrong, im tensing the bit of which you cut piss of with ^o)

You ever work out any muscle? If it's underworked, after a bit of using it IT WILL HURT.

Just keep doing it one hundred times. Tense it, hold it for a few seconds, then release. After that, tense and release over and over until you can't do it anymore.

*Plays a remix of the 'Rocky Theme' and 'I'll do anything for love' while doing Kegels* 41... 42... 43... Feel the burn! FEEL THE BURN! BE THE BURN!... why does it burn when I pee... WHY?!

^^^I laughed.

ONE HUNDRED! *Collapses* Guh... Now I don't even want to THINK about sex... WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO ME?!

quote:Originally posted by Mabas:

ONE HUNDRED! *Collapses* Guh... Now I don't even want to THINK about sex... WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO ME?!

Heh, the same thing I did to myself. It hurts, at first, but after a week you'll be fine.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Heh, the same thing I did to myself. It hurts, at first, but after a week you'll be fine.

PC Muscles of steel, baby? That's what I want... I'm afraid, of my first time being '*Thrust thrust wilt* FUCK!'

quote:Originally posted by Mabas:

PC Muscles of steel, baby? That's what I want... I'm afraid, of my first time being '*Thrust thrust wilt* FUCK!'

Ah man, just masturbate daily to keep that aspect worked out, and excersive the PC muscle.

Daily? I haven't had the best track record since my girl and I started dating... We've been together 7 weeks this coming weekend, and I've wacked it a total of... 9 times, with three being yesterday alone. SHE'S done it more then I have, for Gods sakes...

Gus, im not sure I understand how to work out the PC muscle, what exactly are you suppost to being doing, and how do you know if you doing it right?

This is a pretty good link.

http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html

i very may have noticed a corrolation,or i could just be an idiot...but does anyone suppose doing situps would help in control of the pc? because i may have just connected a personal matter for myself.

BACKSTORY:to those who care.

lately ive been reaching orgasm fairly quick,but back when i first started having sex(when i was doing situps and pushups twice daily) i could last forever.

i really hope this is what ive been missing,if its true i am sooooooo doing situps again.

PC muscle control doesn't make me last longer. It just allows me to orgasm with out ejaculating, so as to seem like I'm lasting longer.

It's pretty cool, but I'm almost certain I broke 'something'.

quote:Originally posted by doornob_lightbulb:

Gus, im not sure I understand how to work out the PC muscle, what exactly are you suppost to being doing, and how do you know if you doing it right?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

You ever work out any muscle? If it's underworked, after a bit of using it IT WILL HURT.

Just keep doing it one hundred times. Tense it, hold it for a few seconds, then release. After that, tense and release over and over until you can't do it anymore.

If you're doing it right, you should have a bit of soreness. After a few weeks of that, you won't even notice a difference.

quote:PC muscle control doesn't make me last longer. It just allows me to orgasm with out ejaculating, so as to seem like I'm lasting longer.

It's pretty cool, but I'm almost certain I broke 'something'.

hahaha you didn't break anything, that's what the excercises are supposed to do. All you're doing is working the muscles that allow you to shoot; The orgasm without ejaculation is what you're going for. I think it's attributed to a zen discipline involving the concept of semen as a "life-force," and if you ejaculate, you lose part of your "life-force." The orgasm itself is mostly psychological anyway. So when you orgasm, just stop and go to work on her for ten minutes or so, then get back to it and it'll seem like you've got the stamina of a horse. To her, I mean.

[This message has been edited by thebigmoney (edited 12-12-2006).]