Well I finally got a coffee date with that chick that I met at the movie theater. The other night I was rolling (on ecstasy) for the first time in months, so I got all emotional and sent her a text message (at 2 am on a Monday morning): "I know this is coming completely out of nowhere, but I really want to know what you think of me."

She responded with: "What do you mean?"

I wrote back: "I meant that I want to see you!"

etc etc... She then agreed to meet me at Starbucks at 10:30 this morning.

I met her there. We had a good time. Decent conversation. We found out that we actually briefly worked together at McDonald's over 2 years ago and had some mutual friends.

At the end though, she got straight to the point, and told me that she wasn't looking for anything serious. She told me that she was initially attracted to me, but it was a mistake to lead me on, as she isn't ready for this right now. She apologized as well.

It could be a load of bullshit, but I believe it. She's a really busy girl, very concerned with her career, hobbies and other life goals.

I appreciate her honesty and straight forwardness. It's a nice break from the cock teasing bitches I'm used to encountering.

We left on relatively good terms. She wants to get together again for coffee sometime, and to remain friends. But I don't know if I can do that.

Oh well. At least she got straight to the point and didn't avoid me entirely or lead me on. I admire that.

She was pretty fucking cute. Nice blue eyes. 20 year old virgin. Nice body. She mentioned that she enjoyed dancing as a hobby (Hot) and something about massage therapy in the near future (Extremely hot).

Oh well. I guess this thread is pointless. I'm kinda buzzed. I'm getting used to this whole rejection thing. It only becomes easier through repetition.

Aside from that, my life has been pretty great. I moved out on my own, and have some bright plans for the future.

I'm a bit down, and my ego has taken a bit of a blow, but other than that, I'm taking things surprisingly well.

This thread is dedicated to the girls who can be up front. Don't lead guys on. Don't just avoid them. Get straight to the point. It really softens the blow.

Thats why i like most european girls, the ones i know are all brutally honest. When we were at a jewelry shop looking at a necklace my (now) ex just came out and said "no its ugly" to the store owner he seemed so shocked...

lawl pwned

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Don't get your hopes up, bud.

quote:Originally posted by Rocko:

Don't get your hopes up, bud.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

She wants to get together again for coffee sometime, and to remain friends. But I don't know if I can do that.

Sure you can. It's not as if you fell in love, dated for a long time, then broke up. Well, even then...sometimes you can be friends.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Sure you can. It's not as if you fell in love, dated for a long time, then broke up. Well, even then...sometimes you can be friends.



But I wanna stick it in her tight virgi...

Seriously though... Yeah, I should be able to be friends with her. I have some female friends, but it's just weird.

Because if they're attractive, then I want to fuck them. It just makes it all weird.

I can't be around attractive females without being flirtatious.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:



I can't be around attractive females without being flirtatious.

Friends are never flirtatious?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Friends are never flirtatious?

Yeah but it's obviously only a one-way power game. Equal flirtation should result in sexual activities in the end, otherwise, someone is holding out.

bullfuckinshit. To me...flirting with a friend is little more than friendly banter.

I thought that was just the way of things....

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

bullfuckinshit. To me...flirting with a friend is little more than friendly banter.

I thought that was just the way of things....

No offense, but it's because you're a girl.

Nah....it was my friends.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Nah....it was my friends.

If you have an ongoing flirtatious relationship with a friend, then that means that either you want to fuck them or they want to fuck you (in most cases)

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

If you have an ongoing flirtatious relationship with a friend, then that means that either you want to fuck them or they want to fuck you (in most cases)

I have a flirty personality and I don't fuck everything, or what to fuck every guy I talk to.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

I have a flirty personality and I don't fuck everything, or what to fuck every guy I talk to.

Then you are a tease.

Oh my Lord....what's the world coming to?

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Then you are a tease.

Ha, you call that teasing?

I know I'm a tease but THAT isn't me teasing.

Flirting doesn't have to be totally sexual, teasing is.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Oh my Lord....what's the world coming to?

Umm.. if you send signals that you are interested in someone and you aren't, then you are being dishonest. This is becoming a common trend.

So I agree with your question... What is this world coming to?

Oh...there was once a time when people weren't so serious about things. Relax a little....

*remembers favorite flirtatious friends*

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

LOL you remind me exactly of this girl I know in real life. She thinks that there's nothing wrong with her teasing behavior because... wait... nobody has figured out yet how she justifies her actions...

Probably why she's lost a lot of friends and made a lot of enemies, yet she is oblivious as to why so many people dislike her.

Hopefully you (nor Kate) are at that extent, but that is just an example of what can happen if you don't take other people's feelings serious enough.

Do I need to say it again?

TEASING is DIFFERENT then FLIRTING.

And you're one to talk, taking other peoples feelings into account HA, don't pull that crap.



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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Oh...there was once a time when people weren't so serious about things. Relax a little....

*remembers favorite flirtatious friends*

LOL you remind me exactly of this girl I know in real life. She thinks that there's nothing wrong with her teasing behavior because... wait... nobody has figured out yet how she justifies her actions...

Probably why she's lost a lot of friends and made a lot of enemies, yet she is oblivious as to why so many people dislike her.

Hopefully not you (nor Kate) are at that extent, but that is just an example of what can happen if you don't take other people's feelings serious enough.

The difference is....most likely....that my friends were actually friends.

I think you're missing out on a lot when you take such things so seriously. But, if you can't handle it, then you can't handle it.

So don't go there.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Do I need to say it again?

TEASING is DIFFERENT then FLIRTING.

We need some agreeable definitions here to debate this properly.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

And you're one for taking other peoples feelings into account HA, don't pull that crap.

Lol you still think that just because I kissed the four out of five girls, that I am the tease...

Like I've said a bunch of times, they were the ones who led me on....

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

The difference is....most likely....that my friends were actually friends.



BANG!





Edit: Gadzooks probably can't keep girls friends long enough, before he tries to fuck them or fall in love with them.

[This message has been edited by kAtE- (edited 12-07-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

The difference is....most likely....that my friends were actually friends.

I think you're missing out on a lot when you take such things so seriously. But, if you can't handle it, then you can't handle it.

So don't go there.

It's funny, because in a room full of guys the other day, I was actually the only one supporting the argument that it is possible to have female friends...

Then again, sometimes I just argue for the sake of arguing. I'll admit I spend a lot of time up on the fence.

Either way though, I couldn't convince any of them that it is possible to have a mutual friendship between two members of the opposite sex.

There is ALWAYS attraction. From one side or the other. I found no way to refute that.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

There is ALWAYS attraction. From one side or the other. I found no way to refute that.

Well hell, Gadz. There's a level of attraction between myself and some of my female friends too. BFD

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Gadzooks probably can't keep girls friends long enough, before he tries to fuck them or fall in love with them.

Lol @ your assumptions.

I go out of my way to avoid my hot female friends. Most of my friends can't seem to comprehend why, but I honestly see hanging out with a sexually attractive female with whom I don't plan on having intercourse a complete waste of time.

There are much better things out there than getting blue balls. As females though, I don't expect either of you to understand.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Well hell, Gadz. There's a level of attraction between myself and some of my female friends too. BFD

lol u gay

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Lol @ your assumptions.

I go out of my way to avoid my hot female friends. Most of my friends can't seem to comprehend why, but I honestly see hanging out with a sexually attractive female with whom I don't plan on having intercourse a complete waste of time.

There are much better things out there than getting blue balls. As females though, I don't expect either of you to understand.



So, you're saying, you can't keep or have or see female friends, because they make you horny if they're attractive?

Wow, you really are a pig, do you seriously ONLY EVER think about your cock?

So, in saying that - even if a girl doesn't flirt with you, if she's attractive, she's a tease because she's you're friend?



I think this is yet again another case of this being your fucked up problem, not the females.

You just can't accept the fact that attraction does not need to go any further than that. That is probably why you have so many "problems". You create something out of nothing.



Well...at any rate....I'm off to bed. Nitey nite...

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quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

So, in saying that - even if a girl doesn't flirt with you, if she's attractive, she's a tease because she's you're friend?

Correct. If a girl is attractive, then in most circumstances, I would rather not be friends with her. Especially so if she is a flirt on top of that.

If she can be cool, and isn't always trying to get attention, then maybe things can work out. I remember this one girl who I was really good friends with because she wasn't always trying to flaunt her looks or flirt too much, despite the fact that she was absolutely gorgeous. Then there's my female friend who's boyfriend (who I was good friends with) died, so I now consider her off limits no matter what. I consider her to be one of my best friends (in general, not just female), despite the fact that I was once physically attracted to her.

So there you have it. In some cases, I can be friends with an attractive girl.

But in most cases, attractive girls suck because they have such catastrophically enormous egos.

same thing happened to me, kind of. went out with a guy several times. on the third date (i call it a date because he picked me up, initiated it, and paid for everything) he told me that he thought i was a great girl, really smart and attractive (yeah right, pshhh), but that he couldn't see a relationship with me but that he wanted to still hang out. it was interesting, because i hadn't indicated that i wanted a relationship. i had been kind of confused because he'd paid for everything despite my offers to share costs, but he hadn't made any physical advances. i think it was an issue of compatibility. we did end up going out again (at his suggestion), but this time i paid my way. it was hard to swallow the news (strange, because i had no notion of being his "girlfriend") but i ended up being very happy that he was up front, and respecting him more for it.

So you won't be friends with attractive girls if they don't put out.. You really ARE a cunt.

It's probably in their best interests that they never go near you anyway.



And what, it took for your friend to die to put you off his girlfriend?



Just.. wow.. SHould have been you instead.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:



And what, it took for your friend to die to put you off his girlfriend?

Just.. wow.. SHould have been you instead.

Umm, I wouldn't have fucked her anyway because he was a really good friend. Whether they broke up or he died, I would never have looked at her the same. You are a fucked up bitch for even trying to use that against me.

Go fuck carbonb. Oh wait, here's a gif: http://www.sickopath.com/fatfuck.gif

Looks like you already did.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

but i ended up being very happy that he was up front, and respecting him more for it.

Yeah it's so much better for all parties involved. People need to take more responsibility for their actions and the effects that they have.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Umm, I wouldn't have fucked her anyway because he was a really good friend. Whether they broke up or he died, I would never have looked at her the same. You are a fucked up bitch for even trying to use that against me.

Go fuck carbonb. Oh wait, here's a gif: http://www.sickopath.com/fatfuck.gif

Looks like you already did.

Oh, baby doesn't like the truth? I'm sorry but you're a cunt to women and you deserved that.

Nice.. pull the fat card.. espeically considering carbonB is not fat (anymore) - and that hardly anyone one here has seen a full length pic of me.. so what do you base your judgements on? HB people.. please.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Oh, baby doesn't like the truth? I'm sorry but you're a cunt to women and you deserved that.

Nice.. pull the fat card.. espeically considering carbonB is not fat (anymore) - and that hardly anyone one here has seen a full length pic of me.. so what do you base your judgements on? HB people.. please.

You make assumptions about me, so I make assumptions about you...

I'm not a cunt to nice women, I'm only a cunt to women that deserve it.

You seem to just be a cunt in general.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

You make assumptions about me, so I make assumptions about you...

I'm not a cunt to nice women, I'm only a cunt to women that deserve it.

You seem to just be a cunt in general.



I base my opinions on what you post on here, and I never make them up. I take things you say from past threads, and I ask questions before attacking you.

So since when did you ask for my pic? For a full length one to see if I'm actually fat or not?

Ya, didn't think so.



The answer would be no now anyway, after this.

And why the fuck pull CarbonB into this?

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

And why the fuck pull CarbonB into this?

Because you two are the only self-absorbed, conceited, cunts that come into my threads and just pollute them with negativity.

The original mood of this thread was actually in a happy tone. I'm starting to understand and appreciate women more, and you come in and give me more reasons to hate them.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Because you two are the only self-absorbed, conceited, cunts that come into my threads and just pollute them with negativity.

The original mood of this thread was actually in a happy tone. I'm starting to understand and appreciate women more, and you come in and give me more reasons to hate them.



Well really, if you base your opinions off one women (me), then no wonder you're not very good with them.

You're the one that has these fucked up opinions on women.. You act as though you're gods gift to them, like you're such a catch.

When really you aren't.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:



Well really, if you base your opinions off one women (me)

No, you carry the same opinion as a lot of other bitter/self-centered women.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

You act as though you're gods gift to them, like you're such a catch.

When really you aren't.

Many women would beg to differ.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Many women would beg to differ.

What? Like homeless, drug addcited, bi-polar ones?

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

[B]No, you carry the same opinion as a lot of other bitter/self-centered women.

This isn't a popularity contest but would you like me to point this thread out to people that know me well on these boards and see how well they take that comment?

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

No, you carry the same opinion as a lot of other bitter/self-centered women.

HAHAHA, you're a failure, dude. Kate is a strong-willed, very opinionated woman that is FAR from bitter and self-centered.

She's an extremely intelligent, and while she won't dare admit it, beautiful young woman who I'm lucky enough to know.

Now, take back what you said, gadzooks. It was uncalled for, and isn't going to lend to your thread anymore.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

This isn't a popularity contest but would you like me to point this thread out to people that know me well on these boards and see how well they take that comment?

lol u can reference 1 recent thred and therefor create a full psycho-analysis of me and sum up my entire lyfe lol dats pritty kewl

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

This isn't a popularity contest but would you like me to point this thread out to people that know me well on these boards and see how well they take that comment?

You mean CarbonB?

Besides, the internet only shows so many facets of a persons personality. Neither of us have the full picture of each other, yet you seem to be making all the assumptions.

gadzooks, you're VERY close to having this thread deleted via page overload. Stop acting like an asshole, and get over yourself. At least she is nice enough to post in here.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Now, take back what you said, gadzooks. It was uncalled for, and isn't going to lend to your thread anymore.

I'm not taking back anything. She has yet to prove to me that she is intelligent or any of those things you mentioned. So far, she has only displayed her bitterness towards me and her support of playing with people's emotions.

She has shown no positive traits in this thread.

She just came in here polluted it with her nonsense. If anything, she should be taking back what she said.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

You mean CarbonB?

Besides, the internet only shows so many facets of a persons personality. Neither of us have the full picture of each other, yet you seem to be making all the assumptions.

Hunny, seriously.. You're making assumptions too! Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. You can dish it out, but not take it yourself?

CarbonB? Wow, you really have NO IDEA of the people that talk to me everyday, and for some reason continue to do so. It's comes back down to that 'friends' thing.

She, I can retain my friends.. you on the otherhand can't.

I have hot friends, ugly friends, fat friends, skinny friends, male friends, girl friends. I don't go ga ga of the hot male friends and don't see them because they're attactive. I don't get wet everytime that one makes a sexual remark - I'm not stupid enough to take it seriously.

You need to chill the fuck out and STOP taking anything that a female says, does, and acts towards you so seriously. It's like you analysis every small thing a women does! Hell you even disregard a women based on her looks which she utimately can't control.

My threads are constantly being trolled by fat people WTF!?

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

My threads are constantly being trolled by fat people WTF!?

Yeah, now I'm gonna EAT THIS THREAD. Have fun with this...

EDiT: You insult oc6, you insult Kate, and you insult me... This thread should be in Bitch and Moan anyways.

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quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

It's like you analysis every small thing a women does! Hell you even disregard a women based on her looks which she utimately can't control.

No, I will not. I stand by my opinion when I say that I am against harmful teasery. When the person is merely looking for attention and chooses to toy with another persons' emotions just to test that, then they are evil in my books.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

You insult oc6, you insult Kate, and you insult me... This thread should be in Bitch and Moan anyways.

I never insulted oc6 as far as I remember. And I never insulted you directly. You took my comment about fat trolls personally, that's not my fault.

Oh, and it's the original thread topic that determines what forum it belongs in, not the posts that follow...

For someone who spends so much fucking time on here you should know that.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

My threads are constantly being trolled by fat people WTF!?

Don't worry gadzooks, I'm not particularly fat and I love you.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Don't worry gadzooks, I'm not particularly fat and I love you.

<3

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Oh, and it's the original thread topic that determines what forum it belongs in, not the posts that follow...

For someone who spends so much fucking time on here you should know that.

Wrong. If a thread goes sour, and thus becomes a flame topic, it then gets moves.

And RabbitWeed, get lost you skinny bastard.

Here's a fantastic idea! you guys are all reasonable enough people, so let's stop bitching!

eh? eh? no? oh

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Wrong. If a thread goes sour, and thus becomes a flame topic, it then gets moves.

Maybe the annoying fucks who take it down hill should be sent to the corresponding forum.

You're basically saying that if you post a serious topic, and I choose to flame the fuck out of you, then it will be moved because of my actions....

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

No, I will not. I stand by my opinion when I say that I am against harmful teasery. When the person is merely looking for attention and chooses to toy with another persons' emotions just to test that, then they are evil in my books.

Yes and my arguement was that flirting and teasing are very different things.

You didn't even address that, except brushed it off and ignored it.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Maybe the annoying fucks who take it down hill should be sent to the corresponding forum.

You're basically saying that if you post a serious topic, and I choose to flame the fuck out of you, then it will be moved because of my actions....

More or less... What part of "obvious" don't you understand?

And RabbitWeed, I'll get your girlfriend to sex you right now so you'll get distracted.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Yes and my arguement was that flirting and teasing are very different things.

You didn't even address that, except brushed it off and ignored it.

quote:flirt /flɜrt/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[flurt] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation

–verb (used without object)

1. to court triflingly or act amorously without serious intentions; play at love; coquet.

2. to trifle or toy, as with an idea: She flirted with the notion of buying a sports car.

3. to move with a jerk or jerks; dart about: butterflies flirting from flower to flower.

quote:v. teased, teas·ing, teas·es

v. tr.

1. To annoy or pester; vex.

2. To make fun of; mock playfully.

3. To arouse hope, desire, or curiosity in without affording satisfaction.

^^ They obviously bare some similarities...

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

^^ They obviously bare some similarities...

And my arguement was that flirting generally wasn't as sexual, as teasing which in this context is completely sexual.

I never tease OR flirt with any girl I wouldn't fuck or date. It's a pretty straightforward rule to live by.

Pretty much falls under the golden rule: Treat others as you would have them treat you.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

And my arguement was that flirting generally wasn't as sexual, as teasing which in this context is completely sexual.

What do you define as flirting then? Give me some examples.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

^^ They obviously bare some similarities...

But they OBVIOUSLY aren't the same, or even that close.

Flirting is ALMOST ALWAYS a two-way, enjoyable event. It's something two people do to enjoy each other without even needing to touch.

Teasing, though, usually is used to mean a single person toying with the other person. It can also, when and if you ever actually get a good girl in bed, mean sexually toying with your partner.

EDiT: Maybe, though, if you knew the difference... :\



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quote:Originally posted by Gus:

when and if you ever actually get a good girl in bed, mean sexually toying with your partner.

EDiT: Maybe, though, if you knew the difference... :\

LOL We've all seen your pic. No explanation necessary.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I never tease OR flirt with any girl I wouldn't fuck or date. It's a pretty straightforward rule to live by.

Pretty much falls under the golden rule: Treat others as you would have them treat you.

Ah, but remember you take things too seriously.

I also think it could come down to the fact that you have difficulty being friends with women, because generally the contact you have with women is sexual - or the reasons behind your contact with women is sexually driven.

Therefore, when an attractive women wants to be only friends with you, you spit the dummy?

I have a lot of male friends, both online and in person.

You can ask any that are on totse, if I've flirted with them before, and the answer would most likely be yes.

But they know that that's my personality, and nothing more - if they start getting too serious about it, I let them know whats up (but this has only happened once or twice).

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

LOL We've all seen your pic. No explanation necessary.

By refusing to reply to my on-topic reply, you've doomed yourself, I hope you know that, kid.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

What do you define as flirting then? Give me some examples.

People define it more deeply then others. I think although that it's just a chit chatty conversation that often compliments and pokes fun at things said - some sexual, some not.

Teasing on the other hand is rather more straight to the point -

"So what are you doing under the table?"

"Resting my hands "

"Oh and where would that be?"

"Somewhere that feels good "

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Teasing on the other hand is rather more straight to the point -

"So what are you doing under the table?"

"Resting my hands "

"Oh and where would that be?"

"Somewhere that feels good "

What if you pull out a syringe while dancing and inject the girl with poison? Is that flirting still, or have we gone into teasing?

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Ah, but remember you take things too seriously.

You are the one who always takes my threads so seriously. Always criticizing my views on women when they are constantly changing as it is.

You seem to dislike me for some reason. And you bring this negativity into each of my threads.

I am normally a very easy-going guy. You should have been able to tell this about me by now.

And about the flirting thing... My main original point was that, in most cases , the person flirting is doing it with malicious intent (or at least in the majority of my experiences).

"Harmless flirting", if such a thing exists, is not the target of my thread.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

By refusing to reply to my on-topic reply, you've doomed yourself, I hope you know that, kid.



You try to act like some kind of all-knowing player or something with all this experience when we ALL know it's just exaggerations and lies.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

What if you pull out a syringe while dancing and inject the girl with poison? Is that flirting still, or have we gone into teasing?

Depends if you have a dirty mind or not.



And since I do, that would be getting right down to business, and obviously the teasing stage was skipped

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

You try to act like some kind of all-knowing player or something with all this experience when we ALL know it's just exaggerations and lies.

Uh, good for you if that's what you want to believe? I don't pretend to know anything more than what I know. And I know you're an idiot that doesn't stay on topic well.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Uh, good for you if that's what you want to believe? I don't pretend to know anything more than what I know. And I know you're an idiot that doesn't stay on topic well.

You're the one who resorted to Ad Hominem to begin with. You made allegations that I am of little to no experience in the field of sex/affection in comparison to you.

I just went and pointed out that, in this world we live in, chances are, based on your appearance, you are most likely wrong in your assumptions.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

You are the one who always takes my threads so seriously. Always criticizing my views on women when they are constantly changing as it is.

You seem to dislike me for some reason. And you bring this negativity into each of my threads.

I am normally a very easy-going guy. You should have been able to tell this about me by now.

And about the flirting thing... My main original point was that, in most cases , the person flirting is doing it with malicious intent (or at least in the majority of my experiences).

"Harmless flirting", if such a thing exists, is not the target of my thread.

.

So, you post your threads for shits and giggles? Are you a troll, if so shall I get that tended to?

Your views on women are constantly changing? Thats because they seem to change to suit the new women of the week.

Negativity? My first post was not negative.

You said that I was a tease, and so I told you that I think there is a difference between teasing and flirting.

It's not my problem you are hot and cold with women all the time. If they don't suit your needs at the time, we get women bashing threads. You want a relationship, you don't want a relationship. The girls a bitch for not wanting you, you can't understand why girls keep walking away... You're all over the place.

Each encounter is also posted with what drug of choice you had the night, as though that determines your mood or something.. Maybe you wouldn't be so god damn confused about women if you stopped going out looking for them/chatting them up when you're under the influence of drugs.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

You're the one who resorted to Ad Hominem to begin with. You made allegations that I am of little to no experience in the field of sex/affection in comparison to you.

I just went and pointed out that, in this world we live in, chances are, based on your appearance, you are most likely wrong in your assumptions.

I think you're assuming far too much. Although, perhaps, that's all you can do, eh?

No wonder you have problems understanding women, eh?

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Maybe you wouldn't be so god damn confused about women if you stopped going out looking for them/chatting them up when you're under the influence of drugs.

That's the thing... I haven't gone out looking for a girl in years. They come to me.

I try to mind my own business. What am I supposed to do? Wear some kind of woman repellent?

This has nothing to do with my drug use.

And the fact that my moods and opinions change... How the hell is that anything but normal human behavior?

Maybe moreso to a certain extent when it comes to myself, but I am diagnosed as being Bipolar (among other things) by more than one doctor.

I don't usually like to bring that up, but I think it really brings something to the table here.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

So, you post your threads for shits and giggles? Are you a troll, if so shall I get that tended to?

Oh, and the point of this thread, as I already stated, was that it was a shout-out to mature girls who can keep it real and say what's on their minds and not beat around the bush and play seemingly endless mind games.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

I think you're assuming far too much. Although, perhaps, that's all you can do, eh?

No wonder you have problems understanding women, eh?

Umm, you're the one making assumptions...

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Umm, you're the one making assumptions...



Oh really? That's a rather brash assumption for you to make.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

That's the thing... I haven't gone out looking for a girl in years. They come to me.

I try to mind my own business. What am I supposed to do? Wear some kind of woman repellent?

This has nothing to do with my drug use.

And the fact that my moods and opinions change... How the hell is that anything but normal human behavior?

Maybe moreso to a certain extent when it comes to myself, but I am diagnosed as being Bipolar (among other things) by more than one doctor.

I don't usually like to bring that up, but I think it really brings something to the table here.



Your moods and opinions about women are far more erractic then most people.

The mental illness shit doesn't fly with me, I don't think it plays a major part in this.

Also, someone with mental illness, doing the amount of drugs you do? I'm not going to go deeply into this because it's not that point of the thread but maybe you should think about some things relating to this.

Maybe instead of looking at women when they approach you as a possible fuck/relationship, just talk to them like a friend, like you aren't interested in anything else.. try to stop thinking with your cock?

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Maybe instead of looking at women when they approach you as a possible fuck/relationship, just talk to them like a friend, like you aren't interested in anything else.. try to stop thinking with your cock?

Who said anything about it being about sex? Fucking these girls is one of the last things I want to do.

When I develop feelings for a girl, I crave her COMPANIONSHIP, not her PUSSY.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Who said anything about it being about sex? Fucking these girls is one of the last things I want to do.

When I develop feelings for a girl, I crave her COMPANIONSHIP, not her PUSSY.

That's not what I hear about some homeless AIDs infested pussy you dragged home... So, uh, is that what you consider "companionship"?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

That's not what I hear about some homeless AIDs infested pussy you dragged home... So, uh, is that what you consider "companionship"?

Here we go with the assumptions again...

I mentioned in that thread how much I liked her. The sex just came hand in hand with it all. I still wanted to move in with her and be there for her after we had sex.

I actually cared (and still do) about her. In fact I feel obligated to defend her whenever people insult her such as you just did... I'm not about to go on some long rant, but you really don't know anything about her and therefor have no right to judge her.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Who said anything about it being about sex? Fucking these girls is one of the last things I want to do.

When I develop feelings for a girl, I crave her COMPANIONSHIP, not her PUSSY.



But you said that you don't like attractive girls that flirt with you, and have no intention of putting out?

Same with your attractive female friends, you dont spend a lot of time around them because you want to get them in the sack?

i feel compelled to say that a 2 against 1 attack on a person's character is almost always in poor form.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

i feel compelled to say that a 2 against 1 attack on a person's character is almost always in poor form.

But we're talking about different things?

And just because someone holds a similar opinion as me makes me a bad person, why?

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:



But you said that you don't like attractive girls that flirt with you, and have no intention of putting out?

Same with your attractive female friends, you dont spend a lot of time around them because you want to get them in the sack?

In some of those cases, there is a correlation between physical attractiveness and general appeal. One of the first things I look for in a girl is her looks. I don't really give a fuck if that makes me shallow, since there's nothing I can do to change that. If she's attractive, then she has pretty high chances of being potential girlfriend material in my eyes.

And in the other cases, I am referring to straight up cock-teases that will do things like rub their ass against your crotch or eve straight up tell you that they will fuck you one day. The down-right evil ones.

I avoid the first type because I don't like having my heartbroken repeatedly. I avoid the second type because they just leave me with a bad case of blue-balls.

Also, there's a power issue at hand there, but I'd rather not get into that right now, as it would begin to stray off topic.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

In some of those cases, there is a correlation between physical attractiveness and general appeal. One of the first things I look for in a girl is her looks. I don't really give a fuck if that makes me shallow, since there's nothing I can do to change that. If she's attractive, then she has pretty high chances of being potential girlfriend material in my eyes.

And in the other cases, I am referring to straight up cock-teases that will do things like rub their ass against your crotch or eve straight up tell you that they will fuck you one day. The down-right evil ones.

I avoid the first type because I don't like having my heartbroken repeatedly. I avoid the second type because they just leave me with a bad case of blue-balls.

Also, there's a power issue at hand there, but I'd rather not get into that right now, as it would begin to stray off topic.

The cock-teasing ones you talk about, I don't like them much either - that's why when you said I was a tease I was slightly offended because when I tease I eventally follow through.

I do think the power thing is an issue here though.. a lot of guys hate the power that women can have over them sexually.. some think it's weak of them to be so easily whipped.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

i feel compelled to say that a 2 against 1 attack on a person's character is almost always in poor form.

Thank you Lauren. I really do think that they are attacking unprovoked just because they both have some kind of vendetta against me in common.

They even stray constantly from the original point, such as blaming me for the way I feel (which I can't help), and other unfair irrelevant allegations.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Thank you Lauren. I really do think that they are attacking unprovoked just because they both have some kind of vendetta against me in common.

They even stray constantly from the original point, such as blaming me for the way I feel (which I can't help), and other unfair irrelevant allegations.

Gus came in when your attacks on me started. The fat jokes, which really are rather immature, I mean I'm sure you're not ten years old.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

The cock-teasing ones you talk about, I don't like them much either - that's why when you said I was a tease I was slightly offended because when I tease I eventally follow through.

I do think the power thing is an issue here though.. a lot of guys hate the power that women can have over them sexually.. some think it's weak of them to be so easily whipped.

Wow. You made an entire post in which you agree with me.

At least we are starting to understand the differences in our terminology and coming to some common views.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Gus came in when your attacks on me started. The fat jokes, which really are rather immature, I mean I'm sure you're not ten years old.

I apologize, as that really is immature. But to be fair, you have made some insults towards me that were unwarranted.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Wow. You made an entire post in which you agree with me.

At least we are starting to understand the differences in our terminology and coming to some common views.

My opinions aren't that outta wack, whereas yours are rather on the piggish end of the scale. You should know by now that if there's a thread bashing women, then I'm likely to pop up in there somewhere and battle it out to the bitter end.

I still think the issues you're having with women are a lot to do with your rather strict guidelines/morals you expect them to have, whereas you become a hypocrit when it comes to you.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I apologize, as that really is immature. But to be fair, you have made some insults towards me that were unwarranted.

Yes, and sorry. But I do think you're still extremely lost and need a good kick in the ass to make you wake up from the fantasy worlds you like to place yourself in sometimes.

This thread is fairly tame compared to some in the past.. lol!

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

My opinions aren't that outta wack, whereas yours are rather on the piggish end of the scale. You should know by now that if there's a thread bashing women, then I'm likely to pop up in there somewhere and battle it out to the bitter end.

I still think the issues you're having with women are a lot to do with your rather strict guidelines/morals you expect them to have, whereas you become a hypocrit when it comes to you.

Yeah I will admit that in some ways I may be a hypocrite.

The thing that I find kind of ironic though is that this was one of my first threads actually glorifying female behavior (or at least that of some), but it turned into another female-bashing thread.

Like I've said before, I have some female friends. In fact, one of my best friends is female. We actually get into arguments like this in real life, and I can be very stubborn.

But in the end, I always realize that hating on any particular type of person (whether by race, gender, or age), I am being prejudice and unfair, and it really is pointless.

I don't really know where I'm going with this... Honestly I'm starting to feel pretty drunk at this point (my roommate's passed out, so I'm stuck finishing off the last of the beers).

Anyway, if you're just doing it as a matter of principle (defending women in general), then just please don't turn it into a personal flame-fest.

Jesus fucking christ!!

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Jesus fucking christ!!



WHERE?!

*Takes out his video camera*

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Jesus fucking christ!!



For some reason this post made me lol pretty hard...

Any particular reason for such profanity?

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Yeah I will admit that in some ways I may be a hypocrite.

The thing that I find kind of ironic though is that this was one of my first threads actually glorifying female behavior (or at least that of some), but it turned into another female-bashing thread.

Like I've said before, I have some female friends. In fact, one of my best friends is female. We actually get into arguments like this in real life, and I can be very stubborn.

But in the end, I always realize that hating on any particular type of person (whether by race, gender, or age), I am being prejudice and unfair, and it really is pointless.

I don't really know where I'm going with this... Honestly I'm starting to feel pretty drunk at this point (my roommate's passed out, so I'm stuck finishing off the last of the beers).

Anyway, if you're just doing it as a matter of principle (defending women in general), then just please don't turn it into a personal flame-fest.

I'm doing it because your opinions are very different to mine.. plus I'm trying to give you a reality check. I speak as a women talking to a (confused) man, not kate to gadzooks. The fact that I don't hold you in high esteem, I've tried to keep down (except eariler when the personal attacks start flying).

I did answer to your orginal post, concerning the flirting/teasing thing.. and it sorta built up from there - both of us are to blame on that part.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Jesus fucking christ!!



Don't ya just love waking up to a thread like this yoyo

I think she's sad that she didn't have a hand in this...

Yoyo, the next one is FOR YOU.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

You're right. I should not have just gone straight out and called you a tease like that. I just figured from what you said that you were like every other fickle female I've encountered who will act interested and then suddenly withdraw for no reason, and in some cases even REPEAT the same behavior in an often never-ending cycle.

Harmless flirting, the way you put it, I supposed really is harmless. As long as you aren't aware of the other person having feelings for you and yet you still persist with suggestive behavior.

As soon as I realise that they do, they're told. I hate leading people on, because I know only too well what it feels like.

I'm just very flirty in general.. with females too.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

I did answer to your orginal post, concerning the flirting/teasing thing.. and it sorta built up from there - both of us are to blame on that part.

You're right. I should not have just gone straight out and called you a tease like that. I just figured from what you said that you were like every other fickle female I've encountered who will act interested and then suddenly withdraw for no reason, and in some cases even REPEAT the same behavior in an often never-ending cycle.

Harmless flirting, the way you put it, I suppose really is harmless. As long as you aren't aware of the other person having feelings for you and yet you still persist with suggestive behavior.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

You're right. I should not have just gone straight out and called you a tease like that. I just figured from what you said that you were like every other fickle female I've encountered who will act interested and then suddenly withdraw for no reason, and in some cases even REPEAT the same behavior in an often never-ending cycle.

Harmless flirting, the way you put it, I suppose really is harmless. As long as you aren't aware of the other person having feelings for you and yet you still persist with suggestive behavior.

Is that you deleting your posts, editing them and reposting them? Because thats the 3rd time ive seen you post, quoted it.. your've deleted the orginal, and posted it after me quoting it..

Or is totse glitching?

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Is that you deleting your posts, editing them and reposting them? Because thats the 3rd time ive seen you post, quoted it.. your've deleted the orginal, and posted it after me quoting it..

Or is totse glitching?

That's me. Sorry. I'm just really anal about that little [Edited ETC] thing at the bottom.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

That's me. Sorry. I'm just really anal about that little [Edited ETC] thing at the bottom.

Thats cool, I was gonna go whine to zok if there was a problem

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I never tease OR flirt with any girl I wouldn't fuck or date. It's a pretty straightforward rule to live by.

I got a little down page 2 of this thread and got bored, so if I missed anything important, sue me.

I flirt with girls all the time, including female friends, old women... loads of females. Doesnt mean in the slightest that I want to fuck all of them, in fact most of the girls I flirt with, I wouldn't even consider it.

Attractive female friends I flirt with, I probably would fuck most of them if it happened naturally... but Im not expecting anything to happen, it doesnt make me act any differently and I still feel completely comfortable hanging around with them.

Female friends are handy, like little spies. Ive avoided embaressment a few times because of them.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

I have a flirty personality and I don't fuck everything, or what to fuck every guy I talk to.

Thats because no male in his right mind would fuck you with a starboard oar, let alone their dick.

quote:Originally posted by Garrett:

Thats because no male in his right mind would fuck you with a starboard oar, let alone their dick.

Oooh, minus fifty yards for being a flaming homosexual!

I didn't mean to start a flame fest!

*throws a snowball to cool things off*

this thread doesn't deserve my penis.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I didn't mean to start a flame fest!

*throws a snowball to cool things off*

*Takes out a giant tub of ice cream and dumps it on the thread*

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I didn't mean to start a flame fest!

*throws a snowball to cool things off*

You didnt

And plus it looks like we came to a happy enough end of the flame war

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Umm, I wouldn't have fucked her anyway because he was a really good friend. Whether they broke up or he died, I would never have looked at her the same. You are a fucked up bitch for even trying to use that against me.

Go fuck carbonb. Oh wait, here's a gif: http://www.sickopath.com/fatfuck.gif

Looks like you already did.

Lol, someone sounds a bit jealous. I am sorry that you have a hard time keeping an erection due to so much crack use. So please keep my name out of your mouth when you are thinking about your lackluster sex life.

Oh, and if you are trying to compare sex partners, I don't think you want to question mine. When the last person you fucked was a homeless crack addict named Shenikwa.

i didn't read any other posts, but according to that testimonial, I feel as if it would be appropriate to kill her.

It's a shame she played you along in the first place, zooks.

Anyhew she's said this shite about how she's 'not looking for a relationship right now' blablabla, I bet you you'll see her walking down the street in a few weeks time holding hands with some bloke. As is the way of women.

Lapsing back into incoherency now.



Cocksucking motherfucking christ!!

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Anyhew she's said this shite about how she's 'not looking for a relationship right now' blablabla, I bet you you'll see her walking down the street in a few weeks time holding hands with some bloke. As is the way of women.

It's kinda funny that you mention that, because everywhere I went today, every couple I saw, I considered that to be a possibility.

I hang out with my friends who are girls for the same reason I hang out with my friends who are guys. I just like them. It isn't a hard concept.

^Maybe if it was that simple, too bad it isn't.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

^Maybe if it was that simple, too bad it isn't.

I have to admit that I agree with CarbonB on this.