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 #1 
Old 2006-12-06, 23:57
bittersweetsymphony bittersweetsymphony is offline
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Default how to tell someone..

If anyone remembers, I posted earlier about this boy I liked who had a brain tumor and such..



Well lately we have been hanging out a lot and he has hugged me, and been really nice and 'gentleman' like.

I really like him, and I can tell it is more then just infatuation, but I seriously do not know his feelings, and I don't want to talk to him about it because if he feels different, then things will be EXTREMELY weird.

How should I start to key him in that I really like him, and try to see if he has any feelings too?



or if he is just an asshole who wants booty?



ugggghhh.
 #2 
Old 2006-12-07, 00:01
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: how to tell someone..

He's male. Keep it short, simple and unambiguous. NO HINTS.

NO SOFTLY SOFTLY DANCE AROUND THE ISSUE GIRLY TALK NEITHER Y'HEAR?!

Just say 'I want to fuck your brains out BUT if you don't want to I won't be pissed and will still be your friend, ok?'
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Old 2006-12-07, 00:05
better than you better than you is offline
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quote:Originally posted by jackketch:



Just say 'I want to fuck your brains out BUT if you don't want to I won't be pissed and will still be your friend, ok?'



This is truly every man's dream.
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Old 2006-12-07, 00:06
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It depends on the trust level. Do you trust him?
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Old 2006-12-07, 00:08
bittersweetsymphony bittersweetsymphony is offline
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Default Re: how to tell someone..

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

It depends on the trust level. Do you trust him?

Yes
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Old 2006-12-07, 00:10
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quote:Originally posted by bittersweetsymphony:

Yes

Then you have to trust him to be able to handle what you have to say.

I've noticed that someone who has gone through a big thing like the tumor will think about a partner, rather than just screwing around. It can work in the opposite way, but you have trust that his isn't.

[This message has been edited by Euda (edited 12-07-2006).]
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Old 2006-12-07, 00:11
The Violent Pacifist The Violent Pacifist is offline
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I say go for it. Besides he has a brain tumor, which I think means death, I am sure he would be happy to have a girlfriend. I realize I am not answering the question, sorry. jackketch is right, no subtle hinting.
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Old 2006-12-07, 00:17
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*he will still understand it if you word it slightly differentlly than Jack's suggestion.
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Old 2006-12-07, 00:37
Exploration Of ZodSpace Exploration Of ZodSpace is offline
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Default Re: how to tell someone..

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

*he will still understand it if you word it slightly differentlly than Jack's suggestion.

I lol'ed.

Is he bald? You'd fuck a bald guy? No offense intended.

If he's polite and clean (and nice, and you like him), then WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU WAITING FOR. Go for IT.

Thanks. Buh bye.
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Old 2006-12-07, 01:26
kman101 kman101 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by better than you:

This is truly every man's dream.

amen to that
 #11 
Old 2006-12-07, 01:33
bittersweetsymphony bittersweetsymphony is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Exploration Of ZodSpace:

I lol'ed.

Is he bald? You'd fuck a bald guy? No offense intended.

If he's polite and clean (and nice, and you like him), then WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU WAITING FOR. Go for IT.

Thanks. Buh bye.



He isn't bald, he had the tumor removed 2 years ago.
 
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