What it says. I always try to be suntle about it but sometimes you can just... tell. Like you when you know you're being stared at. I don't want to be seen as some kind of pervert so advice would be welcome.

I can always tell. -_- It happens quite often.

Its easy for women to tell.

Male+working eyes = staring at tits.

um, yeah. you can see their eyes, can't you? and if the eyes are looking at your boobs, well...

of course all people are prone perceiving what they expect. so a woman might not notice if she thinks no one ever looks at her, while a woman who thinks she's hot shit might think you're looking when you're actually not.

Yes, they can. The trick is, if you accidentally look at a girls tits (it does happen), don't look directly in her eyes after that, first look away.

Yes.

Moron.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmhm

every single time it happens, i think I'm sure I know

Anyone who's not an idiot can tell.

Also, anyone somewhat observant can tell when somebody else is staring at someone else's boobs.

Hell, if you're as awesome as me you can tell if someone's watching to see if someone else is staring at someone else's boobs.

<3

Yeah... when they're staring down a little with WIDE eyes, it means they're staring at your chest, and thinking about what they look like.

Well that sucks. You mean even if they're looking to the side and I look out the corner of my eyes they can STILL tell?

What if it happened to be this milf who my mom works for?

quote:Originally posted by Dark Kaiser II:

Well that sucks. You mean even if they're looking to the side and I look out the corner of my eyes they can STILL tell?

What if it happened to be this milf who my mom works for?

She'll roll her eyes at the poor hormonal boy who doesn't get laid enough.

Who cares? Everyone does it. Unless you are being creepy and gawking I don't see a problem...

quote:Originally posted by Pirate Hippie:

Yeah... when they're staring down a little with WIDE eyes, it means they're staring at your chest, and thinking about what they look like.

So? Cut them all off at the pass & post pi...

Ooops...sorry!

Why do people think women are stupid?

Don't answer that question; it's rhetorical. They aren't.

My physio-therapist thinks I'm constantly staring at her while she's messing with my foot. Then the other physio-therapist thinks I keep checking her out completely because my eyes keep jerking quickly down to my foot and then back up to looking at her face.

I'm not hitting on them, I just want to see what's going on with my foot. When I ask questions and talk with them, I'm not infact interested in meeting for lunch after my appointment; I'm trying to destract myself and them from the pain.

Awkward.

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Sun glasses

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quote:Originally posted by Khepri:

I can always tell. -_- It happens quite often.

"looks at chest" happens to you?

quote:Originally posted by bain surgeon:

Sun glasses

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My wife got mad at me a few months ago because she said I didn't look at her boobs anymore. My response was that I am, but you just don't notice.

So I'd say if you're good enough, then can't. But if you are talking to her (like from 3 feet away), and your eyes go from her face to her boobs, she will notice.

The next time I'm talking to a hot female I'm going to stand back so I can see her face and boobs.

I make sure it's obvious that I'm staring, and then look her in the eyes, smile, and maybe wink.

Yes, you can tell.

Lol, DK.

If the goods aint for sale, don't put them in the window!

who cares

look to your hearts content

quote:Originally posted by Aquabania:

who cares

look to your hearts content

i heard that when men see something interesting, they gawk. when women see the same thing, they glance.

so in short...yes, yes we can tell, and no, you're not being subtle.

I let them know if I look and then apologize. It's not like I can help it, but I'd rather at least acknowledge that I am a natural born pervert than just look like a dodgy creep.

^pft wtf is there to apologise about, if they have their titties hanging out then obviously they want you to look at them

Maybe so, but I'm not a skeezer.

no you're an idiot, don't degrade normal guys who look at breasts that girls put on display for that very purpose by calling them "dodgy creeps" and "skeezers" just because you have a testosterone deficiency due to your lack of testicles.

Yeah, and its annoying.

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Yeah, and its annoying.

Quick solution: Don't ever leave your house. People have eyes, and they look at things.

My half-assed answer would be that hell yeah they can tell, but be polite about it and only take a quick glance and then look away.

quote:Originally posted by Dark Kaiser II:

What it says. I always try to be suntle about it but sometimes you can just... tell. Like you when you know you're being stared at. I don't want to be seen as some kind of pervert so advice would be welcome.

Even if they are not looking directly, there is peripheral action going on. Women aren't as dumb as they act (well, most).

when is a guy talking to a woman and NOT looking at her tits?

I think they can tell, most of the time.

But how would you know later if they were looking and you didn't notice?

I never really wear bras and I don't care about people seeing quite a bit. It's not about being a show off, I just think it's silly to worry. My breasts are small and I don't need anything to keep them roped in, and padded bras are pointless because I don't give a shit how big my tits look. In fact, I think my forwardness and me being un-modest but not in a sexy way puts people off.

As for girls - if they don't know I swing that way, they probably don't notice me looking at their breasts. If they do, it's their fault for showing them off. Besides which, breasts are just plain beautiful. I feel no guilt.

quote:Originally posted by Garrett:

If the goods aint for sale, don't put them in the window!

My thoughts exactly.

Checking out a woman's breasts and ass is an involuntary reaction for heterosexual men... unless the woman is completely hideous. As a man, most of the time you don't even realize it. You're just going about your business and wow, there's a nice pair. Then you get back to your grocery shopping or whatever else you're doing.

Anytime I meet a friendly, attractive woman.. I've checked her out within the first five minutes, whether I made a mental decision to do so or not. That so many women seem to realize this is hilarious.

Don't take a simple look the wrong way though. From the way many women dress nowadays, they obviously want to advertise what they have.

Now that i think about it most flirting that i do with strangers starts off by me checking them out, the chick giving me the raised eyebrow look that basically says 'i know you just checked out my rack' and you you smile and wink back saying 'yeah i enjoyed it, can i do it again?'.

If they like you, they will first do the eyebrow thing and then follow up with making a move on you. If they don't like you they will either ignore you from the get-go or do the eyebrow thing, then act like your a pervert.

agreed

i never care if a girl knows i'm lookin at her tits

if anything i think they should take it as a compliment.....i never get told to stop lookin so untill that day comes i'm gona look at all the tits i can

This question is stupid.

If guys could look at girls boobs without them knowing, then the girls would still answer "yes, we catch you", because they don't know the guys have been looking!

So if it CAN happen, it must happen! Therefore guys > girls boobs!

quote:Originally posted by Don Killuminati:

^pft wtf is there to apologise about, if they have their titties hanging out then obviously they want you to look at them

except not all girls HAVE their boobs on display when guys are checking them out. i've been wearing a plain old t-shirt and had guys check them out, which is ridiculous because my boobs are pretty average.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

except not all girls HAVE their boobs on display when guys are checking them out. i've been wearing a plain old t-shirt and had guys check them out, which is ridiculous because my boobs are pretty average.

How are they supposed to know they're average unless they look?

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Yeah, and its annoying.

I've got the real solution....

Cut off your nipples and eat them like pepperoni. Start wearing clothing 20x the clothing you wear now. OR

Become fat and do the above

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

except not all girls HAVE their boobs on display when guys are checking them out. i've been wearing a plain old t-shirt and had guys check them out, which is ridiculous because my boobs are pretty average.

Take it as a compliment and go on about your business. If guys are looking, they may just find you attractive. I look at girls, but it doesn't mean I'll go hit on them or anything. You can't stop people from looking, so if you don't like the attention you get, just don't do anything to incite more looks.

I garuntee I get away with it most of the time

Seriously, i'm sure women can tell if guys are really blatant about it, but most "bewb-spotters" just give the occational glance, which i BET 95% of the time isn't noticed, if it's done right.

And I kinda do it by accident almost, I don't plan on looking at tits, it just happens, and well...might as well enjoy it?

So, it's not a compliment for some of you fairer sex? Oh yeh, it's "demeaning"

Cept girls are always checking out the hot bods and funky hairstyles "discreetly" yeh?

Y'know? A turned off TV in a room will draw people's attention regularly every few minutes. Even though there is nothing to see.

Titzorszszs is the same, maybe. Even though there's probably no milk in them, even if you could get to taste? Still...old habits die hard. You know, if they were bare, right out in public...you'd find you had to keep lookin'.

Besides...them things have kinda got 'Eyes' on the front of 'em? Even if they're covered? Everyone knows them 'eyes', those magical dark spots are there!

Who cares if they see?

1.Women are objects

2.Women like men looking at their tits

quote:Originally posted by doornob_lightbulb:

Who cares if they see?

1.Women are objects

2.Women like men looking at their tits

You sound bitter. Have you gotten laid lately?

quote:Originally posted by Don Killuminati:

no you're an idiot, don't degrade normal guys who look at breasts that girls put on display for that very purpose by calling them "dodgy creeps" and "skeezers" just because you have a testosterone deficiency due to your lack of testicles.

My posts have nothing to do with strippers or other sluts who have their titties hanging out. I am talking about looking at regularly dressed women.

quote:Originally posted by Captain Asshat:

Checking out a woman's breasts and ass is an involuntary reaction for heterosexual men... unless the woman is completely hideous. As a man, most of the time you don't even realize it. You're just going about your business and wow, there's a nice pair. Then you get back to your grocery shopping or whatever else you're doing.

Anytime I meet a friendly, attractive woman.. I've checked her out within the first five minutes, whether I made a mental decision to do so or not. That so many women seem to realize this is hilarious.

Don't take a simple look the wrong way though. From the way many women dress nowadays, they obviously want to advertise what they have.

you're correct in that it's involuntary. I catch myself looking at a nice pair of tits all the time, i dont even realize i'm doing it until i've been staring for who knows how long. Its just natural. And yes, girls should take it as a compliment. Why they dont is truly beyond me.

quote:Originally posted by malaria:

My posts have nothing to do with strippers or other sluts who have their titties hanging out. I am talking about looking at regularly dressed women.

i'm not talking about sluts or strippers either. if a girl wears something that shows cleavage, she's putting her tits on display and i'm naturally going to have a look without the slightest bit of guilt or fear of looking like a perve because it's her choice.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

except not all girls HAVE their boobs on display when guys are checking them out. i've been wearing a plain old t-shirt and had guys check them out, which is ridiculous because my boobs are pretty average.

i'm talking about girls who do it intentionally.

no matter what you wear guys will at least take a glance at your boobs- perks of being a female. you might aswell take it as a compliment. having average boobs doesn't detract from their sex appeal so it's not rediculous at all

I was looking at a girls chest the other day and commented on how I could never wear a sweater like that.

*Stares at oc6's boobies.. Looks up, smiles, and waves*

lol...."looks up"....

*Winks and smiles*

Nice tits, wanna go somewhere less crowded?

quote:Originally posted by Don Killuminati:

i'm talking about girls who do it intentionally.

no matter what you wear guys will at least take a glance at your boobs- perks of being a female. you might aswell take it as a compliment. having average boobs doesn't detract from their sex appeal so it's not rediculous at all

it's just weird i guess.

some people in this thread are all "fucking sluts, they're just objects, etc."

other people are saying "hey, we can't help it, take it as a compliment."

it's not that i'm offended by it or anything...i'm not going to hop up on my high feminist soapbox and preach about how WE don't check out YOUR packages (we do, fyi). i just personally find it kind of awkward. it's like how i have friends who love being honked at by cars when they're walking. to me, it's weird and annoying.

i have rambled far too much. girls aren't necessarily blatantly offended when guys are checking out their boobs, but there's a line of funny vs. creepy. and we will always notice. and some girls DO want that particular attention, but some don't.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

*Winks and smiles*

Nice tits, wanna go somewhere less crowded?



*throws up in his mouth a little*

E-flirting, wanna take it to an email?

Oh my friend notices me doing it a lot. She'll say something about breasts and instinctively I stare.

She doesn't mind, she understands as a man, I am powerless not to.

Boys don't stare at my bewbs

If they do I definitely don't notice, probably because I can't look them in the eye because they have penises, and I'm scared of them all.

Except my boyfriend of course, but I don't think he really looks at my b cups either, they're not the best.

I'm a girl and look at girl's breasts, you cannot avoid them if they're in your periphery, some girls just need to wear a bra/ shop for shirts their size and not two sizes too small.

I like to show off cleavage here and there, but it's modest, and sexy, not tasteless.

Yes I can tell, back to the topic of OP.

E

quote:Originally posted by PieGirl:

I can't look them in the eye because they have penises, and I'm scared of them all.

...

You can't look boys in the eye because they have penises? If that bothers you, just imagine how one will be forcefully rammed inside of you one day.

quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

*throws up in his mouth a little*

E-flirting, wanna take it to an email?

No, I don't... HAH!

duh!

quote:Originally posted by jvm222:

I've got the real solution....

Cut off your nipples and eat them like pepperoni. Start wearing clothing 20x the clothing you wear now. OR

Become fat and do the above

Sooo i have to become fat and wear alot of clothes so guys wont look?, that doesnt make sense... i dress really conservative as it is..

Its not like i go around staring at a guys groin area (they dont have boobs so i had to think of a private area lolz).. or THEIR ass.. so they shouldnt look either

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Its not like i go around staring at a guys groin area (they dont have boobs so i had to think of a private area lolz).. or THEIR ass.. so they shouldnt look either



but other girls obviously do check guys out. what do you have against guys checking girls out anyway? i mean it's not like we can help it... you don't know what it's like to have a dick

quote:Originally posted by Don Killuminati:

you don't know what it's like to have a dick

Thats true -_-

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Thats true -_-



And really now, why NOT go and admire a person's beauty? Hell, if I'm staring at your body, it means I obviously enjoy what I'm seeing...

Think of it as a compliment. Oh, and what does this rag smell like?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

And really now, why NOT go and admire a person's beauty? Hell, if I'm staring at your body, it means I obviously enjoy what I'm seeing...

Think of it as a compliment. Oh, and what does this rag smell like?

o_0.........!?!?!???!

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

o_0.........!?!?!???!



I think that means it worked!! Woohoo...

*Drags the body away, and plays Tea Party with her*