Well i finally met a girl that i could see myself being attracted to for a long time, and she had a lot of interests that i had as well. We were supposed to hang out this weekend, but unfortunately, she had to fold egg rolls for about 4 hours instead. So i waited, and i saw her at lunch today at school. She said that she had some chron!

So we agreed to meet after school. I would give her a ride and she would smoke me out. Man, this girl is so rad.

We were sitting in the back of my van, baked as baked can be, and she started to tell me things that she liked about me. She told me that she loved how i was interested in all kinds of cool things like the violin and halo and weed and girls and anime... all things we have in common. I told her what i've always wanted to.. i told her that i wish she talked more so that i could look into her eyes more often. And then, i kissed her. It was like out of a movie... ive never felt so good about a girl before in my life. That one kiss spoke to me on a profound level.... my heart was beating way too fast.

I dropped her off, and waved good bye. A few hours later she texted me, and told me that i was very sweet, but unfortunately she has a boyfriend. I dont think i've ever been so dumbfounded in my life... i feel completely helpless and empty.

I usually don't tell people about my problems like this, but i felt like it would help me if i at least told somebody.. so im telling you totse. Thanks for reading, if anybody did.

This is going to sound obvious, but tell her how you feel (basically say what you wrote) and keep in touch. It's a dick thing to do, but if she has even the slightest liking for you (which it sounds like she does), then you can probably weasel your way into her life and past her current bf. Trust me, I did something much like this before when I was in a similar situation. The only thing is that it will probably take some time and patientice on your part...

quote:Originally posted by the_untouchable:

This is going to sound obvious, but tell her how you feel (basically say what you wrote) and keep in touch. It's a dick thing to do, but if she has even the slightest liking for you (which it sounds like she does), then you can probably weasel your way into her life and past her current bf. Trust me, I did something much like this before when I was in a similar situation. The only thing is that it will probably take some time and patientice on your part...

haha take this guys advice, BUT be carefull that your patience doesnt send you into the friends zone.. like me

wtf, you were baked, and she was baked. She doesn't actually love you. I wouldn't expect too much out of this...



On that note, I'm fucking hungry for balogna.

Man thats rough.

Like 2 years ago I had something kinda similar with the whole "your awesome but i have a boyfriend"

Yeah, listen to these guys, you should totally try and be her boyfriend, so one days she'll get stoned with someone else and kiss them.

Happens to the best of us. I think better to just walk away with your head up high than stick around her and be sad that you can't have more than friendship.

You should have pressed it and gone for the fuck, then spread the rumor around. THey break-up, you get in. That easy!

Alright it's time for an update guys.

BTW, thanks for all the cool responses, everybody said really cool stuff.

Alright so, i took your advice, and i let her know that i really liked her, but because im such a nice guy, i wrote her a letter(on myspace) telling her how i felt about the situation. I told her that i really liked her a lot, and i was also sorry for putting her in the awkward situation with her boyfriend. I told her i would like to hang out sometime, and i would love to get baked with her again...

Few days later, this weekend actually, we hung out. I went and picked her up after work, and drove her around. We went to get blazed by the train-tracks, and then we went to get pizza, then we went back to my house for a while and played halo for a while.. it was rad, she does all the shit that i do. She even plays guitar! Anyways, she beat my ass down at halo, and then i drove her home...

So then i woke up this morning and went to work. I started texting her as my shift neared an end, and she asked me if i could burn her a cd. I said yeah, but it may take a while because of my porn-infested laptop was quite slow. She said "why do you have a lot of porn?" I said:" because i wanted to watch the techniques of the porn masters and learn their mighty ways..."

The later reply was this: Go fuck off...

at this i was perplexed, so i replied, hey im sorry, it was just a joke...

the reply after: That was my mom.

I have lost contact with her since :S

GAh! *PUTS FOOT IN MOUTH*

seriously, i feel like quite a dumbass right now. Advice anybody?

Her mother sounds rather immature. Ignore her.

Her mum just sounds over protective. Tried Myspacing her again?

Oh sounds good what you've got actually.. just don't count on anything other than friendship which in a way can still hurt.

I would get the fuck out of there. I would have done it right from the moment in which she told you she had a boyfriend.

What the fuck?

What the fuck is this shit i am reading? Some stoner chick and you get high? Holy shit instant love...not really. You just like her a lot and she loves your weed. Don't even sweat it man, nothing was going to come out of it.

You shouldn't have apologized for that joke. And get the fuck outta there, block all contact.

[This message has been edited by Aseren (edited 12-11-2006).]

how old are you ?