I have like, severe sexual issues. I can't have sex and enjoy it with a girl, I've had sex with many women and went on to give them actual orgasms, however either had to jerk off to finish or get a handjob.. I don't cum when girls blow me off or through sex, and it's killing me. Lately, I haven't even been getting hard when I'm with a female. At the same time, I can give myself an orgasm in 5 minutes when jerking off. I've been masturbating since I was young, about 11 years old, and I've been doing it daily until now, I'm 17. Any suggestions? It's not physical for obvious reasons, yet I can't seem to overcome this. Any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks.

sex therapist? find a girl you love? stop jacking off?

Do sex therapists actually work though? Can they reverse years of self conditioning?

i don;t know, but they've certainly got better advice than us totseans.

or you could try searching google scholar for info.

stop jacking off asshole.

^cluntoris^

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they are right, jacking off creates issues, to the pint that a oman won't work because a. you are used to a certain way or feeling, and b. the woman and sex won't live up to your fantasies. in short, stop beating your meat.

Stop having sex.

Sadly enough, that's the best answer for most relationship problems.

Yeah, you guys are definately right. If I refrain long enough, you think it'll go back to being normal?

Man, I remember when I was younger, I was told to jerk off while I was young to create resistance for when it'd matter, haha.

Thanks for the help I guess. Wish me luck? It's a pretty devastating issue I'm dealing with.

basically, you've categorized orgasming as a solitary activity, and now you've got to make it into a joint activity. refraining from masturbation is probably a good idea, or at least attempting to have the majority of your orgasms with another person present.