so when i start to have sex and i'm hard, i'll go in, fuck around, then do oral for a bit, then go in and just play around for 15-20 minutes. then when i'm ready to go, i'll wrap on a condom and finish it.

i assume it is considered unsafe, std wise, because i was in without a condom at one point. but is there anyway to still play around before without a condom and be safe. i'd probably have to go through 2-3 codoms per session if i wrapped everytime.

also i'm not sure girls like the codom laytex taste if i have to put it on and off.

Use a condom for vaginal (and anal) sex, but not for oral.

IDK.

you can definitely get STDs from what you described. if you're okay with getting/transmitting STDs, rock on. otherwise, make the investment in some extra condoms.

Stick with one partner and have her tested, and get a copy of her results. Then to protect against pregnancy, have her use the sponge, that way you can actually have sex, instead of fucking a thin piece of latex.

A good technique for a commited relationship where she's not on the pill.

Apart from that, unsafe.

quote:Originally posted by MomentaryLapseOfReason:

Stick with one partner and have her tested, and get a copy of her results. Then to protect against pregnancy, have her use the sponge, that way you can actually have sex, instead of fucking a thin piece of latex.

"It's running down my leg >=|"

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

you can definitely get STDs from what you described. if you're okay with getting/transmitting STDs, rock on. otherwise, make the investment in some extra condoms.

shut the fuck up. not everyone in the world has an std.

oh, and to the OP, that is more or less the same way I go about things.

You two...

quote:Originally posted by burntoffering:

shut the fuck up. not everyone in the world has an std.

oh, and to the OP, that is more or less the same way I go about things.



shut the fuck up. not everyone in the world DOESN'T have an std.

i said CAN, not WILL.

If you are trying to avoid pregnancy, you should always have a condom on when you are inside her. As far as oral then you're probably fine to not wear a condom.

quote:Originally posted by Pirate Hippie:

"It's running down my leg >=|"

"It dripped on my foot!"

quote:Originally posted by Pirate Hippie:

"It's running down my leg >=|"

That's why the woman gets up, and runs to the bathroom really fast. Accept your place.

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Yeah, that is considered unprotected. She can get knocked up, and you very well could get an STD if she has one.

If this is how you do it with all of the girls you date, you should go and get tested. And maybe think about investing in getting a girlfriend.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

That's why the woman gets up, and runs to the bathroom really fast. Accept your place.



It was like the next day when I took the sponge out. You have to leave it in for at least 6 hrs after intercourse....

ew yeah, the latex taste after a condom has been on is pretty gross.

ermmm usually that's what my boyfriend and i do if we have to use condoms. since i'm on the pill it's usually still pretty safe, but if i've been on antibiotics or whatever he'll just put one on before he cums. and tada.

i don't know what to tell you about std's though, because that's a whole other ballgame. pretty much you're just going to have to suck it up and wrap it every time you go in her. just do oral first and then put a condom on and do whatever else.

Just use condoms. I"m in the middle of a pregnancy scare it and sucks balls. Seriously.

well, for the record i've only had 2 non-girlfriend parthners, and the whole aids awereness thing made me think a bit and evaluate my situation. i actually will get tested this week just so i can put it past me and start fresh.

yeh, a girlfriend would be awesome, just gotta go catch one.

i like the both getting tested idea, will keep in mind.