Guys, I am 20. I have a HUGE crush on a girl in my class at uni. She is 23, with a son. I talk to sometimes, sit beside her, wave to her etc. Thing is, worry that if i ask her out I will lose that

I talk to her friends as well and they are all really nice. The weird thing is, the way I feel the biggest thing I would love to do to her is take for her dinner. Is that sad?

Please TOTSEseans! Please help!

PS This is perhaps the only person who has actually came close to making a emotional connection with. Everyone else? Fuck them...

Sure, I masturbate about her. Sorry but everyone does it and its natural. ^The weird thing is, when i thnk about her, I dont really think about sex, so much, thoghs she gives me an erection with the perfume she wears, and the lacy knickers...sorry!

When i do pleasure myself about her, it about non-sexual things, giving me a massage, kisssing me on the cheek, etc. What the fuck is wrong with me> :@

Seems normal. Best option is to invite her to some sort of social get together where it wouldn't be considered a date, but you can still talk to her 1 on 1.

don't worry. she sounds like a nice girl and it seems like you already talk a bit. start flirting, then meet her for a casual coffee. can't say no to that. get to know each other and BAM! you'll be babysitting her son while she goes out with the guy she really wants.



wait, that wasn't where I was going with this

seriously though, no worries.

23 and with a kid. she's old enough to ask out to dinner without the pre-dinner coffee. plus you guys already talk, and therefore know one another. i think you should ask her out, but first find out from her friends if she has a boyfriend and if she wants to date.

if you do ask her out, don't stress out too much about it, and don't try too hard to act cool. just catch her attention, greet her, make small talk, then ask her if she wants to go to dinner with you sometime. if she says yes, then suggest specific times.

You have to take that leap of faith. Or take the pussy way out and keep showing intrest untill she gets frustrated and does it.

quote:Originally posted by bain surgeon:

You have to take that leap of faith. Or take the pussy way out and keep showing intrest untill she gets frustrated and does it.



or gets frustrated and moves on. or doesn't notice to begin with.

assertiveness is positive for all parties.

As usual, Lauren is not only right, but has surprised me with her insight.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

As usual, Lauren is not only right, but has surprised me with her insight.



thank you, stab.