Was with a girl for the first time last night, never kissed her before or anything but she came to my house and i made her dinner and all that and we watched a film. We had a few bevvies, and went up to my room to listen to a few of my vinyl (i know im dead cool), and to cut a long story short, we ended up naked.

I've never slept with a girl before, but i have done everything else with two different girls, so that wasn't exactly new to me. She however had slept with two of her previous boyfriends.

Problem was, while I had the biggest erection while i still had my clothes on, it went as soon as I took my shorts off. No amount of coaxing by her would work!

Naturally I did the gentlemanly thing and went down on her for ages, and she came so I guess she got something out of it. However, I am dead worried, cos this always happens the first time im naked with a girl, and I don't know how to stop it. It's okay now, when I get with girls who are so understanding, but I feel like I'm letting them down bigstyle (which in effect I am).

I was on a course of pills called Ruoccatane, these are badass pills designed to stop you from having really bad acne. I have stopped them now, but I was told by someone that erection problems are a possible side effect. Once it gets hard, its hard, but its just coaxing it out into the world.

Does anyone have any ideas what I can do? It's not likely to be a lack of self confidence, as in the last 6 months I have become ever increasingly more confident in myself, for reasons that are unknown to me.

I don't want to have to keep on worrying about this one. I am going to see a doctor about it, but I wondered it TOTSE could help me out a little aswell.

Cheers in advance, and also no flames please, I know it sucks.

Paul.

Viagra?

Dip your hard cock in coke?

Stick a finger up your ass?

Or, I guess, you could get your deep seeded emotional problems sorted. It's almost guaranteed that this situation is due to mental problems, go see a shrink.