Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend she apparently is in horrible pain...now I used to think that it was just because I am a little bigger then average we just had to "break it in" per say but i'm not sure... I go really slow until she says it doesn't hurt anymore but today she said that it always hurts and keeps getting worse the longer i'm inside her and she's just getting better at tolerating it. I really don't know what to do...i've tried more foreplay but that doesn't seem to do anything...

It looked like she almost started crying today because it hurt so bad but she says she doesn't want to tell me when it hurts because "it's always going to hurt and I feel bad because you really want to"

I keep telling her to talk to me and tell me what I can do to make it better because I feel horrible too because obviously I want it to be good for both of us. Apparently she doesn't want to tell me when it's painful because it's "always is and there's nothing I can do about it" She says it's because i'm too big, but i'm not THAT huge (maybe 8.5" length on good days and i've seen people way bigger circumference wise) and I figured she would get used to it if I went slow until she was comfortable but I guess that doesn't happen

Sorry if it's kind of jumbled and I repeated a lot of stuff.

Anyways is there anything I can do about this? I'm using condoms by the way if that would make a difference (usually some sort of thins)

lube up the pipe good, and stick a sock in her mouth while you break the pussy in.

We've done it like 25 times I think it would have been broken in by now...

have you thought about using her ass then?

She always has an asshole if the pussy is too sore.

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quote:Originally posted by inspiron42000:

have you thought about using her ass then?

Holy shit, you beat me to the BUMline!

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

Already proposed that...she thinks i'm going to tear her a new one lol

next time you guys are about to have sex tell her you have a surprise, then stick it in her ass when she is not expecting it.. after pounding it for a few minutes tell her to get on her knees and give you oral. then reward her by finishing in her mouth. she will love it bro.

Take her to the pussy doctor(Im to tired to spell gyno-whatever)

God, just ream her...she sounds like a trouper.

She sounds exactly like me. I can't count how many times me and my b/f have had sex (or tried to have sex) and 99% of the time it hurts so bad I can't go for more than like 5 minutes. I think once it was tolerable. Not much you can do really.

It's things like this that make me glad to have an average-sized penis.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

She sounds exactly like me. I can't count how many times me and my b/f have had sex (or tried to have sex) and 99% of the time it hurts so bad I can't go for more than like 5 minutes. I think once it was tolerable. Not much you can do really.

Does he know how to work his fingers/tongue? If so, you should be fine...and if he can't get himself to come in under 5 minutes, he's gay. Sorry, that's a fact Dem.

Yeah it definitely sounds like she's having the same problem as Demoiselle.

[This message has been edited by RustyBurrito55 (edited 12-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

She sounds exactly like me. I can't count how many times me and my b/f have had sex (or tried to have sex) and 99% of the time it hurts so bad I can't go for more than like 5 minutes. I think once it was tolerable. Not much you can do really.

Yeah there is.

You can dump the stupid broken bitch, and find a girl that will keep that shit to herself, or actually be large enough to take all of ya.

Seriously though, a relationship is doomed if you cannot have good sex. Good sex saves bad relationships. Bad sex kills good relationships.

Gus, nothing can save a bad relationship; nothing can kill a good one.

Good sex will draw out a bad relationship.

Bad sex will give a good relationship something to work through.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Gus, nothing can save a bad relationship; nothing can kill a good one.

You're thinking too idealistically. Saving a bad relationship means the difference between you both just becoming fuck buddies, or you both hating each other for the rest of your life. And actually, bad sex is a rather high cause of break ups.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Good sex will draw out a bad relationship.

Bad sex will give a good relationship something to work through.

Good sex will give a bad relationship something to work with.

Bad sex will make a good relationship more into a friendship.

A relationship needs to have two people that are sexual compatible. He obviously isn't with his girl, so he should understand that and move on.

They can still be friends, but he needs to find someone that is more compatible with him and his organ.

Otherwise, though, he'll end up stuck with some stupid bitch that won't put out because she's broken.

Really now, this is FUCKING obvious.

Use those little plastic doughnuts to keep you from smashing her cervix too much.

Use astroglide or something to help with the girth.

Get her a big dildo and make her practice with it for 15 minutes every day.

ok, but there's one thing missing here in the whole "she's broken" argument.

...why should she be dumped and suffer the consequences just because it hurts? she's obviously not TRYING to be a pain in the ass. why shouldn't she get good sex too? maybe it's his fault.

op, i don't actually think it's your fault in terms of blame. it's a bad situation. but i think it's ridiculous that a girl should be considered useless because sex is hurting her. fuck you, we like it too. gus, in the past i've usually seen your posts and agreed with/respected what you were saying, but this is...stupid.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

They can still be friends, but he needs to find someone that is more compatible with him and his organ.

Sometimes, love isn't enough...and sometimes, a dick is just too much?

I don't know Gus. Maybe it can be worked around. Take Xiao and her husband, for instance. According to her he's too big...yet she also says they have great sex.

Maybe those things can be worked out...

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

ok, but there's one thing missing here in the whole "she's broken" argument.

...why should she be dumped and suffer the consequences just because it hurts? she's obviously not TRYING to be a pain in the ass. why shouldn't she get good sex too? maybe it's his fault.

Because a healty relationship has healthy sex. Obviously he's hurting her and she's not liking it, so they shouldn't be together sexually. It's not anything more complicated than this: They don't work sexually.

What the fuck don't you stupid idiots get about that?

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

op, i don't actually think it's your fault in terms of blame. it's a bad situation. but i think it's ridiculous that a girl should be considered useless because sex is hurting her. fuck you, we like it too.

So why should she suffer and stay with him? The blame, though, could go on either fucking party, but really, that's all for nothing.

The only solution, if they want to be happy, is to find a way to make sex work. That means she'll have to really work at stretching her pussy, he'll have to learn how the thrust shallower, and all together they'll have to do a lot of bullshit.

It'd be that much easier if they both just found other people to date.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

gus, in the past i've usually seen your posts and agreed with/respected what you were saying, but this is...stupid.

Ah yeah, I've dumbed it down as much as I could but you STILL obviously don't fucking get it.

Ah well, I've explained it as best as I could. If RustyBurrito55 cares about her, he'll let her get with someone else.

But I guess you'd rather just try and prolong a bad situation, eh? You didn't give him any useful advice, and just merely insulted him (and/or me).

So how about you just shut the fuck up, ok woman?

~~~

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Sometimes, love isn't enough...and sometimes, a dick is just too much?

Love is almost never enough IN THE REAL WORLD (Which we happen to live in, as well).

If a couple are sexually incompatable, they'll both be more likely to cheat. They'll both be rather unhappy sexually, and that'll travel over into the rest of their life.

It's a doomed relationship, I'd say so.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I don't know Gus. Maybe it can be worked around. Take Xiao and her husband, for instance. According to her he's too big...yet she also says they have great sex.

Did you read the first post? She's in pain, all through it, and doesn't sound like she gets anything out of it.

Xiao gets off on the pain I'd guess, and knowing that her husband is getting off. His girlfriend, though, sound like she's three sizes too small for him.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Maybe those things can be worked out...

Maybe they can, but when he has to ask a internet forum for help they're usually doomed to fail. But he's still got a rather slim chance to try and see if it'll work out.

But a healthy relationship needs healthy sex.

You fools can say whatever else you like, but this is the fucking truth. Healthy sex keeps healthy relationships. Without it, you're just very good friends (from the male's mind, at least, which I happen to OWN).

Anyone else want to try and pretend that this will all blow over?

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

my my, aren't we aggressive and jaded.

i never insulted him. i don't think it's his fault at all. in fact i commend him for sticking with it and not going along with this theme of "it's useless, give up."

you need to get your head out of your ass and calm down. judging by the idiocies you're spouting, you will never be able to maintain a good relationship, despite the fact that you talk about them like you know what they are.

maybe your view is to dump her broken ass, but that doesn't mean it's the intelligent way to go about it.

Btw, RustyBurrito55, what positions have you tried?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Good sex will give a bad relationship something to work with.

Bad sex will make a good relationship more into a friendship.

A relationship needs to have two people that are sexual compatible. He obviously isn't with his girl, so he should understand that and move on.

They can still be friends, but he needs to find someone that is more compatible with him and his organ.

Otherwise, though, he'll end up stuck with some stupid bitch that won't put out because she's broken.

Really now, this is FUCKING obvious.

Gus, the thing is, a bad relationship is defined by the inability to work through a problem - good sex can't save shit.

A good relationship, defined by the ability to reach compromises, agreements, and solutions to even the worst of problems, can easily turn bad sex into good sex: bedroom conflict resolution is still conflict resolution.

For being so smart, you're dumb as shit when it comes to relationships.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

"it's useless, give up."

No, he's almost certainly too young to be wasting his time with a single girl. It's a waste of his bloody time to try and make things work with a girl he can't even fuck right.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

judging by the idiocies you're spouting, you will never be able to maintain a good relationship, despite the fact that you talk about them like you know what they are.

Oh, I'm crying now because you're insulting me some more! Oh, stop it!

Seriously now, if you think that the idea of healthy sex being nessesary for a healthy relationship is idiotic, then I really pity any man that is unfortionate enough to date you.

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

maybe your view is to dump her broken ass, but that doesn't mean it's the intelligent way to go about it.

Actually, it's the logical way. They're sexually incompatible. It's causing issues. Logical solution: Find new partners.

You, though, have your head so far up your own anus you can't see that you're just trying to argue against my point because I put the woman at blame. If I had said he was broken, and that she should dump him, I'm rather sure you'd wouldn't have given it much more than a second look.

Now, if you STILL are trying to say that healthy sex isn't needed in a healthy relationship, and that bad sex can and will ruin relationships, I don't know what else to say to you. Except the above mentioned hope that any man you date can get past your stupidity.

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quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Gus, the thing is, a bad relationship is defined by the inability to work through a problem - good sex can't save shit.

A good relationship, defined by the ability to reach compromises, agreements, and solutions to even the worst of problems, can easily turn bad sex into good sex: bedroom conflict resolution is still conflict resolution.

So you're saying that they can magically make her looser, him smaller, and everything alright by just agreeing?

Sounds like some free-range religious BULLSHIT to me!

Oh, and really now, unless this guy is over thirty, why should he be wasting his time trying to resolve this issue?

What he has with this girl he can have with any other girl, except much easier to have sex.

You need to stop trying to defend the illogical choice in this matter. But yeah, I guess that logic and relationships don't go that well together, eh?

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

i never insulted you. i'm saying if you're the "it doesn't work first try so i'll move on" type, that will never sustain a relationship. i think you've been far more insulting than i have been towards you.

maybe he is too young, that's true. but maybe he could also work on it, since HE seems to want to be with her and his opinion on the matter of his own relationship is, shockingly, more important than yours.

also, my sex life rocks, and so does my relationship. nice try though. you really had to stoop on that one.

i'm done with this. i don't agree with you, and you don't agree with me, and i don't want to hijack this thread anymore.

op, best of luck.

Actually, I lean more towards Gus's stance. I know that if sex with a particular man hurt that badly, I would be very tempted to just move on.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Btw, RustyBurrito55, what positions have you tried?

This isn't a bad question, actually.

Perhaps also a much more detailed description of the problem. Where does it hurt her, how much foreplay do you do, have you tried lubes, etc etc. This could easily be an issue of angle and lubrication, but it could also very well just be that she's too damn small.

EDiT: Or it seems that the Mods have decided to end it for me. Thanks, I guess.

Oh, and if you're going to delete a post of mine, I do expect the other flamers' posts to be deleted as well. Otherwise I'll feel very offended and perhaps cry. A lot.

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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Actually, I lean more towards Gus's stance. I know that if sex with a particular man hurt that badly, I would be very tempted to just move on.

Wow, someone that actually fucking understands basic human needs.

oc6, will you bear my children? Hah. ;D



[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

I've had painful sex before, so I know what it's like and I'll pass on that...thank you very much.

I'd rather give birth. At least when it's done, it's done. Or...you have enough time to recover...then crazily try it again.

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 12-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I've had painful sex before, so I know what it's like and I'll pass on that...thank you very much.

I'd rather give birth. At least when it's done, it's done. Or...you have enough time to recover...then crazily try it again.



So is that a rather well-typed "yes" to my offer of you bearing my children? Heh...

Painful sex can be fun, but only if you both really want to do it. She doesn't, I'd guess, and really I'm sure she's not helping herself by doing it "like 25" times.

EDiT: Edited to edit the edited edit.

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

So is that a rather well-typed "yes" to my offer of you bearing my children? Heh...

Painful sex can be fun, but only if you both really want to do it. She doesn't, I'd guess, and really I'm sure she's not helping herself by doing it "like 25" times.



I agree. Only because now she's accepted that it's "just that way" and will "suffer through it". That really makes me cringe reading about that sort of thing. (I'm vehemently opposed to pain...just a personal preference, mind you... )

I think that sort of thing can become like a Pavlov's dog syndrome. The more you do it and it hurts, the more you expect it to hurt, which makes it more likely to hurt because you can't relax to enjoy it.

A vicious cycle.

If they can't solve it by adapting positions, techniques, etc. She definately should see a doctor. There are some things that can be done to help with this sort of thing.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

(I'm vehemently opposed to pain...just a personal preference, mind you... )

Ok, I can take a hint, no babies.

~~~

oc6, why can't their be more women like you?

Smart and funny. Ah well, then you wouldn't be so special.

Anyways, I'm guessing the dude went to bed, or went off to try and "make her get used to his cock" for the 26th time... Heh.

You wanna take the first shift with this?



[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

I should be sleeping, myself.

How about you?

Ha!! Just caught your edit.

I'm too old. Trust me on that one.

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 12-02-2006).]

So you're saying that they can magically make her looser, him smaller, and everything alright by just agreeing?

Sounds like some free-range religious BULLSHIT to me!

Oh, and really now, unless this guy is over thirty, why should he be wasting his time trying to resolve this issue?

What he has with this girl he can have with any other girl, except much easier to have sex.

You need to stop trying to defend the illogical choice in this matter. But yeah, I guess that logic and relationships don't go that well together, eh?

I suppose blow jobs, anal, hand jobs, tit jobs, foot jobs, and toys don't exist?

So penetration hurts? Disengage from coitus; they can both easily orgasm from other acts and maintain a fun and healthy sex-life.

And don't give me shit that a relationship can't survive without coitus - head feels just as good for guys, and almost always better for women. There are HUNDREDS of different toys for both men and women (the spark doesn't have to die just because he can't ream her pussy wide open).

Plus, even if the relationship doesn't work out, knowing how to work his tongue and fingers will be invaluable experience in the future.

There is ALWAYS a solution: diligent searching will find it, and if the relationship is worth keeping, the partners will give it a try.

There are always benefits to hard work and experience, even if hard to see at first.

[This message has been edited by Hexadecimal (edited 12-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I should be sleeping, myself.

How about you?

Ha!! Just caught your edit.

I'm too old. Trust me on that one.



Hah, you can't be half as old as how I sometimes feel, love...

And healthy sex breeds a healthy relationship, right?

Hah, yeah, most likely I'm far too young for you anyways. Far too immature, too. *Kisses oc6 and runs away giggling like a fucking gaggle of something*



Oh, and I'm west-coast... We don't sleep until after the sun gets back up.

EDiT: Hexadecimal, I'm not even going to READ your reply because I don't want to be tempted to reply. My post was deleted for a reason, so I should HOPE you understand why I'm not going to reply.

So, whatever you want to think, man, that's what you think and that's what you've gotten working for you. And I wish you the best, even if I think it's wrong.

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by RustyBurrito55:

Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend she apparently is in horrible pain...now I used to think that it was just because I am a little bigger then average we just had to "break it in" per say but i'm not sure... I go really slow until she says it doesn't hurt anymore but today she said that it always hurts and keeps getting worse the longer i'm inside her and she's just getting better at tolerating it. I really don't know what to do...i've tried more foreplay but that doesn't seem to do anything...

It looked like she almost started crying today because it hurt so bad but she says she doesn't want to tell me when it hurts because "it's always going to hurt and I feel bad because you really want to"

I keep telling her to talk to me and tell me what I can do to make it better because I feel horrible too because obviously I want it to be good for both of us. Apparently she doesn't want to tell me when it's painful because it's "always is and there's nothing I can do about it" She says it's because i'm too big, but i'm not THAT huge (maybe 8.5" length on good days and i've seen people way bigger circumference wise) and I figured she would get used to it if I went slow until she was comfortable but I guess that doesn't happen

Sorry if it's kind of jumbled and I repeated a lot of stuff.

Anyways is there anything I can do about this? I'm using condoms by the way if that would make a difference (usually some sort of thins)

Yeah, not fuck her until you figure out what's wrong. This isn't BDSM type stuff, so why is there love or enjoyment in inflicting physical pain on her?

/anti-femistist with a dumb question

Oh...it's still early there too. What time is it there, btw?

Old enough to be your mom, I'm afraid. It's okay for you to kiss my cheek though.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Oh...it's still early there too. What time is it there, btw?

Old enough to be your mom, I'm afraid. It's okay for you to kiss my cheek though.

00:25.

Ah yeah, story of my life I'm certain. I was born thirty years too late for my own good. I'd be turning fifty-one in a bit, and would have gotten in on the computer industry when it was still so young and fertile.

Oh, and I would be old enough for you to consider. *Wipes tear away and tries to not pout* Oh wait, if you're old enough to be my mother, does that mean I get to nurse?

You're funny. Maybe you should give me your email. I promise to bore you to tears and put you right to sleep.

edit:

I didn't need to quote all that.

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 12-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

You're funny. Maybe you should give me your email. I promise to bore you to tears and put you right to sleep.

Hah, I'd be ever so grateful, indeed! I've been having some trouble sleeping lately...

EDiT: Hope you got my e-mail, otherwise you've missed out, oc6.

I've also got a whole slew of instant messengers (AIM,YIM,MSN,etc) if you do those sort of things.

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

I didn't even know there was a flame war going on in here. Gus, you're doing yourself a disservice to not read my post, though.

You might learn something.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

You're funny. Maybe you should give me your email. I promise to bore you to tears and put you right to sleep.

edit:

I didn't need to quote all that.



If I had posted that...

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

I didn't even know there was a flame war going on in here. Gus, you're doing yourself a disservice to not read my post, though.

You might learn something.

I'm sorry, man, but if I read it, I'll continue the flame war. And yes, the flame war might very well just be in my head, but really now, that's the only place that matters to me as far as mental condition matters.

If I read your post, I would be tempted to reply to it. Thus continuing a rather off-topic war of FLAMES. Sorry, but you know I love ya, right?

~~~

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

If I had posted that...



Haha, Jack, if you had posted that I'd have surely tried to get in on the fun with you...

You're open like that, right Jack? Eh? EH?

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

If I had posted that...





Oh. But you said it was okay.

Besides...I'm a good girl.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

...I'm a good girl.

Aw well, you can't be perfect, love...

EDiT: And I wish I could go out and run or something, except it's cold enough to freeze the balls off a Russian (at least, for California, ugh), so I'm stuck inside with too much energy...

Where are those boring emails to make me slumber? Heh.

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 12-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Aw well, you can't be perfect, love...

I do have my faults...and one is needing sleep...

nite nite.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I do have my faults...and one is needing sleep...

nite nite.

Sleep well, and don't let the Jack bite (That's MY job )

Actually Gus, I brought it back on topic with that post (solutions to his problem)...though I suppose you wouldn't know that without reading it! Give it a try Gustave, there's nothing to be afraid of...

Gus, you man pimp you.

Gus is sort of right.

My relationship has hit a new high since i've been able to work things out in the bedroom.

quote:Originally posted by Gunlock:

My relationship has hit a new high since i've been able to work things out in the bedroom.

It's one of the reasons I'm an advocate of people sleeping together before they're married. As well as living together for AT LEAST a year. And really now, I think that should be the LAW.

Of course, though, in my word, these sort of people and problems wouldn't exist. And thanks for the kind words.

Hexadecimal, I still don't want to restart what I've already ended. The light flirting with oc6 has already made me not care to even bother with you.

My relationship has hit a new high since i've been able to work things out in the bedroom.

So then...things in the bedroom started off rough, right?

Girl was worth trying to make it work, right?

And things in the bedroom smoothed out?

...I wonder how that happened! I'm willing to bet that discussion and open-mindedness were SOMEHOW involved.

(sorry, being a bit of a prick here)

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

(sorry, being a bit of a prick here)

Yeah, that was low, but not a bad eye!

In fact, I sort of thought about that, but really not that hard. I didn't want to spoil the fun... Hehe...

Nah, I'm sure that he didn't cause his girlfriend massive vaginal pains, though. Most likely his girl just didn't know how to suck cock, or fuck right.

A lot of women need to be retrained.

Eh, all's fair in love and war, and i have a tough skin.

Actually, there was a little bit of pain at the start, so that caused us to change to a position that wasnt that great for either of us, untill she grew used to it, and now it goes 'off like a frog in a sock' : P

And yes, she was worth it. She's the greatest human being i've ever met.

[This message has been edited by Gunlock (edited 12-02-2006).]

LMFAO...it'd be a boring world if I never got my dick scraped by the occasional tooth.

I kind of like having some putty to mold into a cock-sucking machine. Having been bi-curious in the past puts me at a fairly high caliber when it comes to teaching the Art of Sucking Dick.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

LMFAO...it'd be a boring world if I never got my dick scraped by the occasional tooth.



Yeah, but then there's the chicks that think they need to bite the top off to get to the juicy centre. Thats when the fun ends, right there.

quote:Originally posted by Gunlock:

Eh, all's fair in love and war, and i have a tough skin.

Actually, there was a little bit of pain at the start, so that caused us to change to a position that wasnt that great for either of us, untill she grew used to it, and now it goes 'off like a frog in a sock' : P

And yes, she was worth it. She's the greatest human being i've ever met.



Ah, an easier safe to crack than the girl I'm with now. She has never orgasmed from ANYONE, is hurt by almost every position, and my hands cramp up before I can manual her to orgasm. She's lucky I love her enough to keep trying! Going to try eating her out with a couple pillows under her rear to stop my neck from cramping next time (my tongue and jaw do a much better job of not cramping than my hands, my neck just cramped up the last time from how I was bending it).

quote:Originally posted by Gunlock:

Yeah, but then there's the chicks that think they need to bite the top off to get to the juicy centre. Thats when the fun ends, right there.



Those are the girls who come up missing to be found decapitated three years later...

Hexadecimal, is she just extremely insensitive to stimulation? Perhaps a wonder wand will do wonders, eh?

Vibrators are rather useful for a lot of things, most of them being making girls splatter.

Just be careful that it's not set too high, too long.

The problem is that her sensitivity varies second to second; she had some weird health problems when she was younger. She'll go from near insensitive to super-sensitive in just a few seconds.

Oddly enough, I have this same issue, but I've masturbated the over-sensitive range out of my dick over the years.

Edit: In other words, privacy of information is being held in regards; I've RL friends who browse these forums...rather this BS be here than the truf.

[This message has been edited by Hexadecimal (edited 12-02-2006).]

Jesus christ. Some of you fuckers are getting really goddamn immature. Every second thread I go into is a fucking flame war. Stop it already. It's annoying and not helping anything. And just because your flames are grammatically correct, semi-structured arguments doesn't make it any better then "murder/suicide."

OP, it may be a lost cause at this point. It may never stop hurting her. It might not be a physical thing though. There's tons of psychological reasons why it could be hurting her. With me, it's both. I dunno why my boyfriend is still with me, to be honest. He's like, sex-crazed, and I could care less, meaning lately we rarely have sex. Poor guy.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Btw, RustyBurrito55, what positions have you tried?

Missionary usually...not really that much else. We've been together for almost 4 years now (we're 17 now)

quote:Originally posted by RustyBurrito55:

Originally posted by oc6:

Btw, RustyBurrito55, what positions have you tried?

Missionary usually...not really that much else. We've been together for almost 4 years now (we're 17 now)

There's your problem right there, cupcake. I STRONGLY suggest you try the spooning position, it's what hurts least for me. Cowgirl might be pretty painful too. Try doggy as well, if she'll let you. Some girls don't like it.

Alright i'll give it a shot...we did try cowgirl once but that lasted definitely was a no no.

One more suggestion. Go buy lube. Seriously. Very, very helpful. KY is generally available at most drug stores. There's fancier stuff you can buy, but that should be pretty good. Good luck!

she may have endometrioses, I used to be married to a lady who had this it is a very comman undiagnosed problem