I'm seeing a girl right now, who (19 years old) says she has never had a boyfriend before. That she (19 years old) hasn't kissed a guy yet. SHE (19 years old) who doesn't have overprotective parents and is good looking, has never been in a relationship. What am I supposed to say to this? When she told me I just stared at her like an idiot and said "Oh" and I was thinking "You stupid Fucker why did you say Oh?"

suck me beautiful

Ask her out. Immediately.

Go for it.

She's either lying, really bitchy, or perfect.

It means that she (19 years old) is either lying or that she (still 19 years old) didn't want to become involved with boys until now. Either is plausible based on her personality. Unless she's given you reason not to, you should believe her. I can't blame her if she (19 years old) matured faster than most people her age (19 years old) and didn't feel like involving herself with some dipshit boys. And yes, we're all dipshits from about 12 years old up until the mid-twenties.

If it's true, it just means you have an attractive girl who obviously doesn't get involved with people for the sake of looking normal. It means that you can have a relationship with someone who isn't emotionally scarred, doesn't have kids, very likely clean, and isn't going to be fucking around with ex-boyfriends. She (19 years old) = gold.

It's quite possible. There are girls out there who just don't show too much interest in guys until after high school.

Ask her on a date.

Although, she could just be lying to get into your pants and really, she's a carrier of AIDs or some other sexually transmitted disease. Or a con artist, if you're rich that is. I'm sure that's not the case though, good luck with her!

Well, Im not remotley rich, nor Do I have anything of Value that she might want. We just work at the same place and she says that she wants to be more then friends and things of that nature.

quote:Originally posted by Siash:

nor Do I have anything of Value that she might want.

I c wut u did thar ;D



Real post: Yes, definitely go for it. If it turns out she's a psycho, though, don't come running to us.

Before my bf of six months:

Had one helpful relationship, never kissed a guy, never had sex, and I'm good looking, and guys i know and strangers alike hit on me frequently.. but I wanted to wait for the person right for me, i'm certain he 's found me...not saying that she's the right girl for you, but yes, there are girls that are just smart, or have ideals that call for dignity and maintanence of herself, not saying she has my ideals, but saying that there are girls that have those ideals.

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(sorry if i seem all over the place, i have a big headache, can't think )

quote:Originally posted by The Dan:

If it turns out she's a psycho, though, don't come running to us.[/B]

So, your saying I should make a move,since TOtse said so, yet in the event shae is a deranged psycho bitch it doesn't hold totse responsible.

quote:Originally posted by Siash:

So, your saying I should make a move,since TOtse said so, yet in the event shae is a deranged psycho bitch it doesn't hold totse responsible.



Totse is as Totse does.

quote:Originally posted by The Dan:

Totse is as Totse does.

I would follow this up with an "totse is like a box of chocolated. You never know what your going to get" but in Totse you know your going to get trolled flamed or some obscure lame ass statistic

Fuck I typed chocolated...

quote:Originally posted by Siash:

Fuck I typed chocolated...

Is that related to the Hot Karl?

quote:Originally posted by The Dan:

Go for it.

She's either lying, really bitchy, or perfect.

Like your girlfriend?

quote:Originally posted by Der Omerta:

Like your girlfriend?

Precisely.

Ifear were deviating.

whipit out MOFO

quote:Originally posted by Captain Asshat:

...didn't feel like involving herself with some dipshit boys...

But i am oh so glad there are some that will :P

"Well now, how about I teach you how, love?" And then go in for a slow romantic kiss.

What is so weird about that? It doesn't really matter that much, you should just be accepting of that, tell her that her past doesn't matter and that the only thing that matters is you and her etc... I assume you two are going out or something.

Just try not to fuck things up and scar her for life etc, but I say if there is a connection things will naturally happen.

Bone Sylph, she needs to get laid.

Aw I'm one of those (19 years old) so its a relief theres others of those (19 years old) people out there. True it's because some people just don't want to get involved with dipshit teenage boys. Or it just hasn't happened. It just hadn't happened for me, and when something almost has happened it just wasn't right or whatever....

what do you say to it?

Don't make a big deal out of it. Chances are it's not a huge deal to her. It's not to me anyway. On the other hand, if it is a huge deal to her - i have no idea.

edit: i can't spell sometimes

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I think you should reward her for her honesty. Not with gift but just tell her you like that she's been open to you. In return maybe you'd tell her something about you that you don't usually tell people.

quote:Originally posted by deathtojack:

Bone Sylph, she needs to get laid.

rofl. Fuck you.

quote:Originally posted by QuackyIraqy:

Before my bf of six months:

Had one helpful relationship, never kissed a guy, never had sex, and I'm good looking, and guys i know and strangers alike hit on me frequently.. but I wanted to wait for the person right for me, i'm certain he 's found me...not saying that she's the right girl for you, but yes, there are girls that are just smart, or have ideals that call for dignity and maintanence of herself, not saying she has my ideals, but saying that there are girls that have those ideals.

E

(sorry if i seem all over the place, i have a big headache, can't think )

Then be in the Girls of Totse 2007 Calendar.

My first girlfriend was like that, though she was 18. True that her parents weren't especialy overprotective, but her dad scared the hell out of me anyway. This was 5 years ago. Several months ago she announce that she was going to spend the night at my place (she's away at college, but was home for a week) and I was ready to jump through the plate glass window and just keep running.

quote:Originally posted by Prometheus:

My first girlfriend was like that, though she was 18. True that her parents weren't especialy overprotective, but her dad scared the hell out of me anyway. This was 5 years ago. Several months ago she announce that she was going to spend the night at my place (she's away at college, but was home for a week) and I was ready to jump through the plate glass window and just keep running.



Thanks for the confidence boost.

I went out with one of those before she is 20 now but I eventually dumped her though. She was BORING as hell and never wanted to do anything new when we hung out just the same old boring stuff. Sex with her she was tight as hell, didn't really know how to give head, or kiss me but other then that ya

It could either be a very boring relationship that moves at the rate of a deceased tortoise or it will be very deep and beautiful but youll be responsible for so many things involving her emotions, youll be the first love of her life, thats a big job ha.

quote:Originally posted by Lala:

It could either be a very boring relationship that moves at the rate of a deceased tortoise or it will be very deep and beautiful but youll be responsible for so many things involving her emotions, youll be the first love of her life, thats a big job ha.

wow both of those outcomes seem so good.

you said she hasn't kissed a GUY

and hasn't had a BOYfriend.

She was probably into the girls.

if thats true^

Then I really don't have any problems do I?

But it isn't

I think.