I like my boyfriend, but he never responds to his text messages, rarely answers his phone, doesn't IM me, and only responds half the time when I IM him. So it's gotten to the point where we have sex and then don't see or talk to each other for a couple of days, which is okay every once in awhile but every single time.. no, just no. I've talked to him about it before and he just apologizes or has some random excuse. But he hasn't replied to any of my calls and texts in the last two days (I send, maybe, a combination of three a day), although he replied to my friends stupid text messages yesterday. Because he doesn't give me a very good answer does anybody have any idea what the fuck is up? Does this guy even like me? When I'm with him, I definately feel like there's some substance to our relationship, but then he does bullshit like not talk to me for two days when we're ON THE SAME FUCKING CAMPUS. I want to talk to him about it, but I want other peoples advice.. thanks.

Boyfriend?

Since when do the occasional booty calls consist a relationship?

Hey? He needs to spend time with his girl? He can't be wasting time with you!? She can't find out about you or he'd be screwed!

sounds like a situation i was in, and then we ended up breaking up. good luck.

Maybe because you send him dumb ass messages like

"How is your day"

"Do you think Im sexy"

"lolololol hey!!!"

"wuttup lol haha"

Write something interesting, bitch.

Hahaha I lol'd. ^^^



He's busy. Leave him alone.

OR

He is just using you.

I'd like for the second to be true.

Ask him about it, see what he says. There is no reason not to ask him about it. Do you see each other at all outside of sex?

This is all really encouraging..

We see each other.. some, mostly I go to his frat or we watch a movie or something. But this week, nothing

Stop calling and texting him.

Just stop. Then see what happens.

quote:Originally posted by Grail:

This is all really encouraging..

We see each other.. some, mostly I go to his frat or we watch a movie or something. But this week, nothing

Because you're an annoying extrovert that can't see that deep down he is a introvert who doesn't need to talk their damn heads off all day. This is his passive aggressive technique he's using against you. And you can't take the fucking hint?

quote:Originally posted by legituser:

Because you're an annoying extrovert that can't see that deep down he is a introvert who doesn't need to talk their damn heads off all day. This is his passive aggressive technique he's using against you. And you can't take the fucking hint?



I'm not extroverted, I'm very introverted you stupid fuck. I don't see how texting him "want to hang out tonight" is talking my damn head off, I just don't like getting ignored for days at a time.. geez.

[This message has been edited by Grail (edited 12-01-2006).]

Then don't set yourself up to be ignored for days at a time?

quote:Originally posted by Grail:



I just don't like getting ignored for days at a time.. geez.

I'm so sorry Princess! I forgot the "extremely introverted" found attention whoring their past time these days. The definition must have changed over night apparently?

Anyway, give him a call and explain your situation to him, if he acts like an asshole or doesn't pick up...end it?

quote:Originally posted by legituser:

I'm so sorry Princess! I forgot the "extremely introverted" found attention whoring their past time these days. The definition must have changed over night apparently?

Anyway, give him a call and explain your situation to him, if he acts like an asshole or doesn't pick up...end it?

I didn't realize asking for advice about a relationship in a forum where the purpose is to ask advice about relationships was attention whoring. Making countless shitty threads, however...

quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

I didn't realize asking for advice about a relationship in a forum where the purpose is to ask advice about relationships was attention whoring. Making countless shitty threads, however...

I guess the definition must have changed overnight.

hes just not that into you

He's lost interest for some reason, and it's over. He doesn't want you anymore. Move on.