Ok, there's this girl that im 'together' with... not going out officially, but our relationship has taken a physical turn. we have gotten to the point where we can talk about each other, about mastrubating, how each one's 'tools' work, and she's really curious about mine. but whenever i want to try some stuff out on her, she gets shy, maybe thats the word for it.. i ask her what she likes, how to get her horny, ans she says she doesn't know, and that she can't tell when she is horny. now, i don't believe it. maybe she is just shy to admit it? i mean... how can you not tell if you're horny?! so please give me your opinions on this... and any tips. of course i have tried stuff, to see her reaction, but it's really hard! pretty much the only thing i have to go off of is her breathing. help???? :/

try nibbling her ears, a friend of mine told me that works, or just make out, cuz me n my partner, just that turns both of us on, kinda?

Massage!

Kiss/breathe on her neck, press your body against hers, and tell her to make you a sammich.

hmm i never tried nibbling on her ear lobes... cuz she has soooo much hair i'd probably get a mouthful of it. but i do play with them gently when we're kissing. and i have given her massages too, but i don't know if they make her horny! but.... she did say today that i give the best massages!

maybe she just doesn't know what horny means? gosh.. what DOES horny mean for a girl?? and another thing. what are you supposed to do with breasts?

quote:Originally posted by ricehunter:

hmm i never tried nibbling on her ear lobes... cuz she has soooo much hair i'd probably get a mouthful of it. but i do play with them gently when we're kissing. and i have given her massages too, but i don't know if they make her horny! but.... she did say today that i give the best massages!

maybe she just doesn't know what horny means? gosh.. what DOES horny mean for a girl?? and another thing. what are you supposed to do with breasts?

horny for a girl, as far as i know, is when shes wet n ready, give more massages, breast play depends on the girl, some like having them played w/, some like squeezing, some like nipple pinching, what i would do is ask her what she likes, but...it might not work?

quote:Originally posted by kman101:

horny for a girl, as far as i know, is when shes wet n ready, give more massages, breast play depends on the girl, some like having them played w/, some like squeezing, some like nipple pinching, what i would do is ask her what she likes, but...it might not work?

yeah... that's the thing... i DID ask and she says she 'doesn't know what she likes. it's quite a predicament for me!! but she is definately wet and ready. maybe that's not what she, personally considers horny.

quote:Originally posted by ricehunter:

yeah... that's the thing... i DID ask and she says she 'doesn't know what she likes. it's quite a predicament for me!! but she is definately wet and ready. maybe that's not what she, personally considers horny.

if you dont know what kind of breast play or anything that she likes, (note: this might sound weird) experiment w/ her, use those hands, dude!

Get her to pull this out of your pants and let her fondle it (http://tinyurl.com/ylzz2c).

Never fails.

*doesn't click link*

lawl pawned by jackketch nice pic is that yours? its HUGE! i honestly wish mine was that big maybe in a couple of years

I never have to deal with that because girls im with borderline rape me, now, to actualy contribute, this may sound a little cheasey but you could try setting the mood ykno, candles and all of that

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i know how you feel man your girls just square her idea of foreplay is her begging well you gotta get yourself a game plan there are a number of diferent areas that you can use to help you get there 1 love handles with both hands massage them while behind here blow on here ear lightly/lick her ear loab then go for the neck suck on her neck a bit and she should be getting horny make sure yours rubbing those love handles or touching her back dont get ur hands down her pants yet she might take your advance and block it so keep on goin for the ear lobes and neck try and make your way to her breasts but dont focus on them once she lets you go for the breasts your almost there now get in front and start french kissing go to the ear lobes and neck the love handles to and try and make your way down her pants then she should either let you go forward or stop your advances it takes a while to see what works i know all about square girls.. but in a way it has helped me please easy chicks to cause i can get in there pants that much quicker ask for oral first to once shes framiliar with your junk she may want more

OK BRO, here's the time tested method of getting a bitch so wet between the legs she will slide off her seat: ONE BOTTLE OF JOSE QUERVO AND A FAT CHRONIC JOINT. Drink, Smoke and Enjoy

Trial and error.

Talk to her about it see what she's going to be okay with trying before you start.

Pay attention to body language and you'll be able to tell what she likes pretty quick.



You said you all talk about masterbation, ask her what she does to herself that makes her feel good and possibly go from there.

Maybe talk dirty to her?

Here's an idea, make out with her, put your hands on her tits, then up her top, then take her bra off, then go into her pants. It's not that difficult.

quote:Originally posted by ricehunter:

hmm i never tried nibbling on her ear lobes... cuz she has soooo much hair i'd probably get a mouthful of it. but i do play with them gently when we're kissing. and i have given her massages too, but i don't know if they make her horny! but.... she did say today that i give the best massages!

maybe she just doesn't know what horny means? gosh.. what DOES horny mean for a girl?? and another thing. what are you supposed to do with breasts?

What are you supposed to do with breasts!? Dear oh dear. Don't squeeze them, they're not stress balls, hold them a little bit and put your thumb on her nipples then rub them until they're hard and continue making out with her or kissing them whilst you do this, then get into her fucking pants! She's not sitting around topless for no reason!!

quote:Originally posted by jb_mcbean:

Here's an idea, make out with her, put your hands on her tits, then up her top, then take her bra off, then go into her pants. It's not that difficult.

Yeeeeah I think he already knows how to pull the amateur shit mate.

The alcohol idea is actually a good one, although in far less a quantity. It should help her to relax.

You're in the right direction with the breathing. Also, you should see a red rash between her neck and her breasts. Try different things, try to get a moan or a gasp out of her, and if something makes her jolt, do it again (not too much though, it will become too intense for her).

Fuuuuuuuuck, stop suggesting earlobes. They're like a quirk he should get into later.

I've NEVER ever touched my girl's earlobes, and never once paid them a shred of attention. But I continue to get wet patches on my bed.

It's about making her feel...worshipped. Massage, and do it hard. Don't go for her pussy straight away. Work the inside of her thighs. Her legs. Her hips, stomach, neck, chest...god, everything. Like I said, worship her body.

Do you guys get into your underwear? Grind on each other. Start rubbing her through her underwear with your fingers. Tease her. When you're hard, grab your dick and rub it on her pussy THROUGH her underwear again. Don't let her have it.

If at this point, she's not wet, you've failed miserably.

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quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Fuuuuuuuuck, stop suggesting earlobes. They're like a quirk he should get into later.

I've NEVER ever touched my girl's earlobes, and never once paid them a shred of attention. But I continue to get wet patches on my bed.

It's about making her feel...worshipped. Massage, and do it hard. Don't go for her pussy straight away. Work the inside of her thighs. Her legs. Her hips, stomach, neck, chest...god, everything. Like I said, worship her body.

Do you guys get into your underwear? Grind on each other. Start rubbing her through her underwear with your fingers. Tease her. When you're hard, grab your dick and rub it on her pussy THROUGH her underwear again. Don't let her have it.

If at this point, she's not wet, you've failed miserably.



Damn, just reading that got me wet.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Yeeeeah I think he already knows how to pull the amateur shit mate.

The alcohol idea is actually a good one, although in far less a quantity. It should help her to relax.

You're in the right direction with the breathing. Also, you should see a red rash between her neck and her breasts. Try different things, try to get a moan or a gasp out of her, and if something makes her jolt, do it again (not too much though, it will become too intense for her).



yeah, i wouldn't consider myself an amateur,and the problem is not with me. so an update.. today we were making out in my car... AND i almost gave her an orgasm. mind you, this is through some thick jeans too. we're not really at the 'lets get naked together' stage yet. and for some reason she's REALLY self conscious about her breasts. she'll let me rub her pussy more than her breasts. it's wierd.. and im not some curious 15 year old. i know how to handle women, but she's just different. and she says she's not a moaner... for the person that said to try to get her to moan. anyways... we steamed up the windows pretty good today. SHES AWESOME

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Get her to pull this out of your pants and let her fondle it (http://tinyurl.com/ylzz2c).

Never fails.

AHA! Colonial money...you know you love our ching-ching better than your flat old jack 'lb'.

quote:Originally posted by ricehunter:



and another thing. what are you supposed to do with breasts?

AHAHAHAHAHH!

That reminds me of like the 10th grade being in the wave pool floating about with a group of other kids and some younger ones. In particular this asian gal, Connie with THE most fantastically enormous jubblies I'd laid eyes on for years to come. And the younger ones of 12-14 years were just ogling her with no shame.

"D-do we we...touch them?"

Just start without her. The horniness will come.

Just like James Bond in Goldfinger!

neck rubbing.

go for the fucking neck..god damn!

Seriously..if you know how to put the right amount of finesse on her neck with your mouth (sucking in a sense while rubbing your lips and a little tongue action) right under her jaw bone close to her ear with out leaving marks, thats usually a good spot. Matter of fact test the whole side of the neck..if shes "squeemish" you will feel her cringe or jump when you do it.

Slap her some.

you never know. =/

Yell at her (call her dirty names), slap her, and then lick her pussy nice. Maybe even introduce another girl into sex.

Works so well. I guess I can't speak for all women but suprisingly a lot of 'em are into misogynistic masochism.

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hm... Actually...

Just rape her. Simple as.

quote:Originally posted by The Dan:

hm... Actually...

Just rape her. Simple as.

More or less.

actualy one of the best ways to get a girl todo something is to just pull out your dick

girls gett realy interested when theres a dick its like they have to touch it.

its worked every time ive tried to get a girl to do something

its like they go into a trance or something

and cant stop playing with it



thats how my g/f is now.



evr since i pulled it out. every time she sees me she goes in my pants

quote:Originally posted by sinful_enoch:

actualy one of the best ways to get a girl todo something is to just pull out your dick

...

thats how my g/f is now.

evr since i pulled it out. every time she sees me she goes in my pants

It depends on the relationship and her personality, I think... I know a lot of girls, including my girlfriend, would be insulted that I/we would think that they/she is/are so shallow.

DAMN YOU GRAMMAR.

Anyway, topicguy, go with whatever feels right, and to be honest, give her TIME. It sounds like she's not ready to really hit third base with you yet. Anyway, no better way to get her wet than making her wait for it.

quote:Originally posted by The Dan:

It depends on the relationship and her personality, I think... I know a lot of girls, including my girlfriend, would be insulted that I/we would think that they/she is/are so shallow.

DAMN YOU GRAMMAR.

Anyway, topicguy, go with whatever feels right, and to be honest, give her TIME. It sounds like she's not ready to really hit third base with you yet. Anyway, no better way to get her wet than making her wait for it.

that's some good advice! and i've got her good and wet, and i figured that teasing will drive her crazy until she can't stand it anymore. soooo i figured her out HAHA one time we were messing around in chem lab, and she got up to ask the teacher a question and she caught me looking at her ass, and i convinced her she had a giant wet spot!! lol

When im with my girl I'll start rubbing her thighs and go higher and higher untill I'm rubbing her pussy through her jeans and I'll do this for like a minuet and she'll grab my hand and move it down. Which confuses the hell out of me because if that was too far for her she would have pulled me off way before. Explanation?



EDIT: I forgot to contribute. Make it official with her that your going out and she might be more ok with it.

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quote:Originally posted by bain surgeon:

When im with my girl I'll start rubbing her thighs and go higher and higher untill I'm rubbing her pussy through her jeans and I'll do this for like a minuet and she'll grab my hand and move it down. Which confuses the hell out of me because if that was too far for her she would have pulled me off way before. Explanation?



EDIT: I forgot to contribute. Make it official with her that your going out and she might be more ok with it.



DUDE mine does the exact same thing sometimes! thaty's why she's confusing. and she does the same when im trying to rub her boobs. and at the same time, she expect me to let her play with my dick all the time! and if i try to sneak a feel of boob or pussy, then she's like "no.." it's annoying.

If she's being shy then she obviously wants you to be dominate. Make out, go from her lips to her cheek to her neck, lick and bite her nipples, take it steady and don't just dive into her pussy. MAKE her want it. Don't expect her to.

Wait, I just realized you're probably young. Is she a virgin? Yeah, just take it slow. You might have to wait a while to get laid.

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quote:Originally posted by ricehunter:

yeah... that's the thing... i DID ask and she says she 'doesn't know what she likes. it's quite a predicament for me!! but she is definately wet and ready. maybe that's not what she, personally considers horny.

Be careful, be slow, be experimental. If she doesn't know what she likes...BOTH of you get to learn her body as you go along!

If what you're doing doesn't turn her on, do the exact opposite then. Like George on Seinfeld.

haha that crazy fat jewish prick

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quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Get her to pull this out of your pants and let her fondle it (http://tinyurl.com/ylzz2c).

Never fails.

I laughed, long and hard.