This girl im in with pretty good is coming back to see me sometime this month(hopefully) and at first we were just friends but i always take everything a step further so we are like "up there".... if she was living here we'd prolly be BF/GF ...but no need for further details on that

She doesnt have a place here anymore so when she comes here she needs a place to stay, i suggested a motel down the street from my house..cause theres no way my parents will allow her to stay here,without her being in a different room HA.

I plan that since im on break for like the whole month of december that i can kick it at my friends house and she can come and stay there with me for a few days and do whatever. Cuz at my friends house we do whatever there..no one cares(literally). Unlike that of bringing her to my house where my parents will be bugging this piss out of us and regulating....

But idk we was talking and i said something and she misheard but responded saying yea if you wanted you could stay with me at the motel...so we'd be by ourselves...so more then likely wed get down to some business with the way i talk to her and what would go on there.

^^^ considering the fact that shes only staying for several days and this will be the last time she'll see me for a long time. So you know youd assume itd go down

And idk if shes a virgin or not, seems like shes not but u can never tell with anyone anymore... i am and id prolly be able to manage to pass off that im not one to her, but i need some tips. Im good at spur of the act moments, freestyling stuff ,doing it as its happening But thats not going to work the whole time. I kno what yall going to say i have a basic plan if we do get down to it then im going to go with the flow from there.

Other than that how do you think my plan sounds for her staying? Tips needed for the motel part tho...

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Yep

quote:Originally posted by NitrousMafia:

Yep

Just so you know, no "possible first time" ever turns out to actually be sex.

^^^Just so you know, i said "possible" meaning it could be yes or no...use your head. Yea depends on who you are, and what goes down, as i said.......

And you dont know the situation first hand like me so thats why i said that theres a possibility.

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I don't believe any "possible first time, need help" thread on Totse has ever come to fruition.

Yea ^^^ you prolly right cause no one cares its just nigs on here complaning about i got this and that..and first time talking at girls..the stuff in the middle doesnt matter lol like where im at....

UPDATE:: anyone reading i will post results around the end of december if she does come up and i might have pics/vid on the shit...cause really if yall knew the situation from the start ud be amazed....and laughing at me at the same time

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This is going to be similar to the bunny meatball thread, but ive already fucking talked at the girl and crossed the line so to speak....Im just waiting for the A-bomb to be dropped...

So heres what it is so far, i met this girl online, she lives like 2.5-3 states distance away from me, talked at her just for fun/friends at first, then i started some game up on her, just to see if i had what it takes..... apparantely yes on that note. Known her for like 1.5 years, shes taking a trip thats half the distance to where i live so after shes done visitng with her relatives shes going to shoot by to my city to hang out for like a week if she has enough money. And of course im going to pay for some gas money(probably to get rid of her heh)

I think i went from just talking casually at her to falling for her because of thinking too much of the situation lately.....mainly cause its unbelievable what i did with little effort. And also i think over time i just kept pushing it and i accidently slipped in a good spot with her.

But yea all this wont be going down till like xmas time or so, unless we change plans around and she visits me first then hits the other place she intends to go to last.

Im in the numba 1 spot with her so, shit if she comes up theres going to be some serious shit going on thats why i plan to have my mini dv cam handy...i plan to make a lil clip/footage us meeting, just to see that online business can be descent and can pay off. And to see how fucked i get anticipating her arrival, i already feel the need to chain smoke on the issue.

Yea if you think of the situation, your prolly thinking man this chick is desperate to drive a couple hundered miles to meet me. Maybe so, but my only fucking worry, is that she wont leave if she visits, so i gotta have some kind of ending plan here to get rid of her cause i know if things go right shes going to want to stay for as long as she can.

Which i wouldnt mind but i prefer to keep my options open, and dont want to get super serious with this online relationship business....

And like i said before, the girl isnt that bad, but she isnt the hottest girl you've ever seen, but she can have her moments..thats what gets me flippin...ill have to post a pic up....

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See ive been thinking on the otherside, shit i probably just talked myself too far in ya know and i could be making a mistake here. Yea pulling some fucking Eharmony shit here meeting some girl online then taking it from online to real-life....idk

Cause it was all her idea to come up and make the drive, I always joked/hinted at the idea of meeting up and she said hey im doing this i could continue further and meet up.

Im willing to play my cards and see what happens with this whole deal tho...just because i know it will be worth my while.

Well latest business is that since she is minorly emloyed, so she needs some cash for gas funds to get here....dont know how much that is yet, prolly like $40 which i can scrounge for, cause hey how often does some girl come out of her way to meet you. But the question is does she have funds to get home..part of the end plan haha....

How about: get her to be somewhat drunk, but stay sober yourself...that way she won't be as aware or remember as much if you do poorly...jerk off before hand, several times....so your aren't anxious and can go longer....

Dude, she'll need more than $40 for gas.