She's having trouble posting, so I thought I'd post it for her...

"Im not very experienced and im having an issue… so I thought this would be the best place to ask for help.

Im a very conservative person and im VERY shy in the bedroom...

I recently went that further step with my other half and we made love, but he wanted me to go on top. Now I wouldn’t have a fucking clue what to do... I mean I got up there but then I just sat there thinking “oh shit wtf do I do now… *stupid* lol” I really want to make him happy, and feel the best he can because he means the world to me and he’s fucking amazing... sooo girls/guys if you could give me any advice it would really be appreciated... because I know its stupid but I feel like I must be bad in bed...

I know “everybody’s got to start somewhere”, but I would rather have some handy advice so I can surprise him.

Hmm and if there is any other exciting things you know of that I could do that may surprise him, and he would enjoy... don’t hesitate to put your two cents in.

Thanks in advance"

Now, fuckers, be nice...

She should probably go slow until she's worked up a steady rythm that's working and is comfortable with.

Should also could probably ask him for a little guidence and say she won't be offended if he rearranges her slightly and help her out a bit because if he just layed there that would be shit.

If she's willing, porn could help a little bit I suppose.

And touch a lot, because you don't wanna be rocking back n forth or whatever with no hardly any other contact. Just make sure you touch and stroke etc, hell, play with his balls if you really want. Tends to get good results I've noticed. But then, not all guys like the same thing.

I know exactly what she means because I was always really really shy about it.

Oh, and play about with the muscles inside you (the ones you hold in when you try not to piss)... If you see what I mean?

I'm rambling...

Ride -a-cock-horse-to-Banbury-Cross....

You get the idea...move like you're riding a horse, flicking your hips forward and back, up and down.

Make sure you arch your back (so your tits stand proud),its NOT just a visual thang -it helps your hip flick.

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PS. you really want to blow his mind then have him tie your hands behind your back. That not only hits the fantasy spot but also pulls your back automatically back a bit more.

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How's she going to manuver like that?:P

And in my experience, it feels good to a guy if you try to just move your hips and not the rest of your body when on top.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

How's she going to manuver like that?:P

And in my experience, it feels good to a guy if you try to just move your hips and not the rest of your body when on top.

Makes sense doesn't it?

And I suppose she could, it could take a little getting used to, but it could work.

Do those clenches girl, make him scream

When I'm on top, I put my hands on either side of his head and then slide my hips back and forth (versus up and down). This makes it very easy for me to come, as well as my boyfriend. With my ex, however, it wasn't enough stimulation for him to cum (usually) but he still enjoyed the fact that he got to watch me get off, you know?

I don't know arquin, it's kind of hard to give advice because all she really needs to do is experiment and see what works with her and her man...

For a more intimate approach, I like to pull him up a little so that he's upright and hugging me. Cross your legs around him and just grind your pelvis in to him. Bouncing in this position works well too.

This thread makes me hofty.

I would say don't bounce your hole body around, just your hips. And the arching the back thing is so dang sexy.

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Thank you for the replies everybody...

*pats arquin*

ZOMG SHE CAN POST?!

Now, you just need to put this advice into action

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Yep that's gonna happen tommorow night my friend lol...



TAKE PICS

quote:Originally posted by shiva:

Yep that's gonna happen tommorow night my friend lol...



Lol, have fun

quote:Originally posted by Hardly There:

For a more intimate approach, I like to pull him up a little so that he's upright and hugging me. Cross your legs around him and just grind your pelvis in to him. Bouncing in this position works well too.

I got hard.

quote:Originally posted by Hardly There:

For a more intimate approach, I like to pull him up a little so that he's upright and hugging me. Cross your legs around him and just grind your pelvis in to him. Bouncing in this position works well too.

Endorsed. This is awesome.