The girl that im with now and I have havent had sex yet. But we were talking about it the other night and she told me that she had never had a real orgasm during sex and that she always faked it to make the guy feel better.Comments?

(havent had sex yet, my opinion):find out what really turns her on, use it to your advantage, or just slow down in the middle "hey, are you faking it now?" that might just piss her off, but...eh?

Girls who fake blow, and not in the good way.

If she seems like she's enjoying it, thats good enough for me. It's up to her to get her share of pleasure out of it. If she'd rather lie to me then teach me how to be better, I dont really care how much she enjoys it.

faking is stupid. guys will think what they are doing is fine and the girl will never be satisfied.

i have never had an orgasm. my boyfriend knows this. i dont fake it because that would solve nothing but give him an ego boost and we wouldn't have the hour long oral sessions every once in a while to see if 'it' will happen

quote:Originally posted by Anglosaxonarmadillo:

Comments?

Uh, ask her if she wants you to make her cum?

Seriously, I don't understand what she wants... So give her a big o-face.

oral fixation, you've really never had an orgasm? wow, fuck, that just...sucks, cuz i dunno...maybe you have, but havent realized it?

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

faking is stupid. guys will think what they are doing is fine and the girl will never be satisfied.

i have never had an orgasm. my boyfriend knows this. i dont fake it because that would solve nothing but give him an ego boost and we wouldn't have the hour long oral sessions every once in a while to see if 'it' will happen



My girlfriend is exactly the same way. We dated for 8 months before I got her off. (On her 18th birthday, mind you) It hasnt happened once yet. Do you ever masturbate? Or use toys? I've literally tried everything, and I cant get her off no matter what. If I touch anywhere near her clit, she stops me after a few minutes because its too sensitive. And no matter how long I last, it never happens during intercourse.

I'm convinced that one time was just a fluke. It's so disheartening :\

aww, poor silentmine "offers shoulder" wanna cry on this? mow?

quote:Originally posted by kman101:

aww, poor silentmine "offers shoulder" wanna cry on this? mow?



In the other thread, I said that I had -slightly- gay tendencies when I was 5.

I'm 22 now and quite over them, so I think I'll pass.

i didnt mean in a gay way, it doesnt have to be gay? meh?

I gave my gf her first orgasm the other night, and her 2nd and 3rd tonight, haha...

i really have no relevant information to add, i just thought i'd say this...

quote:Originally posted by ottomann:

I gave my gf her first orgasm the other night, and her 2nd and 3rd tonight, haha...

i really have no relevant information to add, i just thought i'd say this...

Fucking props dude. Thats gotta be so satisfying.

I believe some girls need not only the sex to be good, but the situation and build-up to be magical before they can orgasm.

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

I sometimes fake orgasm so that the whole ordeal ends quicker.



Then why are you having sex in the first place?

I sometimes fake orgasm so that the whole ordeal ends quicker.

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

I sometimes fake orgasm so that the whole ordeal ends quicker.

I have done this, when I was younger.. once. The sex was so terrible I just wanted it to end.

Pretty childish, not something I would do now at all.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

I have done this, when I was younger.. once. The sex was so terrible I just wanted it to end.

Pretty childish, not something I would do now at all.



If you have sex with someone, you're responsible to teach them enough to not be the laughing stock of the female community.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:



If you have sex with someone, you're responsible to teach them enough to not be the laughing stock of the female community.

It's not that it's terrible, alot of the time it's really good. I do enjoy sex.

I'm an excellent teacher. Because you know, no ones doing anyone any favours by letting someone think they're good when they're quite obviously not.

I just get very tired and bored some of the time.

Kate kate, I know it's childish.

I can look back and say to myself, Tegan, you're being very silly. But you know, if they're finished, they feel good, I don't really see the harm in it.

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:



Kate kate, I know it's childish.

I can look back and say to myself, Tegan, you're being very silly. But you know, if they're finished, they feel good, I don't really see the harm in it.

Thats a pretty name

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:



If you have sex with someone, you're responsible to teach them enough to not be the laughing stock of the female community.

This was when I was younger.. He was a fair bit older then me, and had more experience then me, yet I was the one trying to actually get him to do SIMPLE foreplay things that most males know.. The sex itself wasn't much better.

He just didn't seem to get it.

As I said, I only did it once, and haven't since.