Across the street from me lives a seriously preppy blonde bitch. I know she likes me(She has told me) but I feel absolutely nothing towards her and avoid even talking to her. So just now she and her equally stupid and preppy friend came to my house, knocked the dorr, and asked my mom if I was home. So my mom calls me down, and the neighbour girl asks me,

"Want to come outside to hang out?"

Me: No.

"Why"

Me: I don't want to.

"Come o-" *SLAM!*

I closed the dor in her face. My mom just went psycho. not totally psycho, but she was going "Why the hell did you slam the door in her face?! OMG LAWLZ Where are your manners?! You NEVER, EVER do that to somebody! EVER!"

I told her that the girl has been annoying me for quite some time, that she is blonde(as in idiotic blonde, no offense meant to blondes in general) and totally stupid and I don't want to know such people, then left to my room before she decided to do something spiteful and nasty, like not letting me hang out with friends.

See, the thing is, it's tearing ME up quite a bit. On one hand, the girl is VERY dumb. Not retarded or low IQ, but she is a total prep and so plastic(If you catch my drift) that it makes me want to vomit. On the other hand, she didn't really do anything to deserve me slamming the door in her face, and I'm only making my anti-sociality worse.

I feel confused. -_- Advice?

Uh, go over and apologize?

quote:Originally posted by Tamerlane:

Advice?

Dont be such a prick.

Go over and apologize. You may not like her personally, but it's not as if she's malicious or anything. Kindness can't hurt... and you might make her day!

If she is as preppy as you describe her.

Then she is most definatly crying right now.

/rolled up paper

Bad man!

quote:Originally posted by Tamerlane:

I told her that the girl has been annoying me for quite some time, that she is blonde(as in idiotic blonde, no offense meant to blondes in general) and totally stupid and I don't want to know such people,

How well do you know her? Have you ever talked to her for any length of time?

Regardless, you should appologize for being so rude.

I'm so anti-social that I sent her a IM apologising. Being that anti-social must be cool, right?

Yeah, I feel like a dirt bag. Although I don't think she took offense to it.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

How well do you know her? Have you ever talked to her for any length of time?

Regardless, you should appologize for being so rude.



1)Pretty well. Well enough to know that she wants to try sex(At 13!), "totally" hates her "totally bitch friends" and has a rich Danish father who screwed some banks over in Denmark over for a few million and that is why he is living in Latvia now.

2)Yes.

If she's that stupid and rich, I'd say go after her and try and screw her out of some dough, then dump the bitch.

Dude, you have it made. Use her for secks and monies.

Well, not really. Poor thing.

What the fuck man, let her touch your penis.

I don't know Mr Oh So-Uber-Angtiously-Cool Dudezors? But if you look at any individual or group? You'll find that whatever 'Great Truths' they claim as their own? There are a million other Truths that they can only survive by denying?

Includes you too, dudezor. Lots of stuff you can't admit without breaking down. No one is any different. We all need some truth & a whole bunch of lies.

Neighboors can waste a lot of one's time? Even bum you out? Yet a little polite chit chat? A chance to practice excusing yourself from an unwanted situation?

Heck? Does she have a crush on you? Does she want to use & abuse you for something? It might have been cool if you could have made a more suave excuse? We all need the good ways to get away from all sorts of folks?

If you don't have good waysto get/stay away? You might get stuck? I've been stupidly stuck lots of times as I don't have as many 'get out/away' options as I should.

If you did? It would be harder for yer ma to dis you for not going out?

Thus? Although you didn't go out? You got too dissed = you lose points. No?

^^^wise moonman...

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

I don't know Mr Oh So-Uber-Angtiously-Cool Dudezors? But if you look at any individual or group? You'll find that whatever 'Great Truths' they claim as their own? There are a million other Truths that they can only survive by denying?

Includes you too, dudezor. Lots of stuff you can't admit without breaking down. No one is any different. We all need some truth & a whole bunch of lies.

Neighboors can waste a lot of one's time? Even bum you out? Yet a little polite chit chat? A chance to practice excusing yourself from an unwanted situation?

Heck? Does she have a crush on you? Does she want to use & abuse you for something? It might have been cool if you could have made a more suave excuse? We all need the good ways to get away from all sorts of folks?

If you don't have good waysto get/stay away? You might get stuck? I've been stupidly stuck lots of times as I don't have as many 'get out/away' options as I should.

If you did? It would be harder for yer ma to dis you for not going out?

Thus? Although you didn't go out? You got too dissed = you lose points. No?

What?

Wha'?

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

Wha'?

Bahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!

Apologize and it'll all be better. Trust me, i've been in almost the exact same situation. Ended up with me going over to her house to apologise, and her parents not being in...

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How deep do you want a girl that age to be? She may...she just may change in the next few years?

For the better or worse...

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

or worse...

That is what I am afraid of...

Thankfully, she's moving to France next year. Warrant for her daddy expires or something... Anyway, I won't have to put up much with her if she does take a turn for the worse.



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She may be an idiot, but there's no excuse for rudeness. She's trying to be friendly, so just be friendly. Don't go out of your way to see her, but if she comes to see you don't be an asshole. Don't make yourself look like a jackass by your rude behavior. Kindness is always repaid.

13 year old girls are generally preppy. It's the cool thing to do and they have a lot of pressure to fit in. Instead of being an asshole, you should try talking to her. Apologize and see what kind of person she is. She might be a ditzy blonde now, but that doesn't mean that a few years down the road she won't be an awesome person.

As an example.. not being an asshole to someone I went to school with six years ago got me laid recently, which doesn't happen very often. Don't burn today the bridge you may need to cross tomorrow.

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quote:Originally posted by Surak:

If she's that stupid and rich, I'd say go after her and try and screw her out of some dough, then dump the bitch.

Just kill yourself and have somebody send her pictures. Best apology you can possibly give.