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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2006-11-28, 05:27
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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Everytime I read about studies of the Thexxth & the differences between genders, one thing is always repeated.

Men think about thexxth once a minute.

Women only think about the thextth once a day!

So, you females. Do you really only think of it once a day for a minute or five? Do you really go for hour after hour with nary a thought of doing the nasty?

Take a woman working downtown. She must see attractive to her guys 10 times a day. Say only one makes her hot at that moment? What do the other 9 make her think about if not thexxth?

If you see a very attractive guy & he doesn't make you think about the hot stuff? What instead does he do for you?
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Old 2006-11-28, 05:33
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no way.

i think about sex waaayyy more than once a day. and about 40% of my dreams lately have been sex-related.

i'm deprived.
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Old 2006-11-28, 05:35
lauren7249 lauren7249 is offline
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i'd wager that i think about sex more than most guys on this forum. :0

but i am not the average girl, i don't think.
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Old 2006-11-28, 05:36
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That stuff about guys thinking about sex -ON AVERAGE- once a minute is so much bullshit.

I have a fairly healthy sex drive, and I dont think about it once a minute...Jesus, I'd never get anything done.

I can go for hours or days without thinking about it.
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Old 2006-11-28, 05:41
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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I don't know but all those busy couples who don't have time for the thexxth must at least think about it? Taking the kids here/there? I mean, thinkin' is way easier than doin', as with anything?

A hardworking couple with young kids might be sitting on the couch, both agreeing to it? Yet, hardly having the energy to figure out how to move? Y'know...working, maybe having had to get up nights in a row for the kids?

Depends how often you get it too, doesn't it? I mean sometimes you get a bunch & then you just aren't so interested & sometimes you just want more & more?

[This message has been edited by moonmeister (edited 11-28-2006).]
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Old 2006-11-28, 06:05
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now i feel like some sex crazed woman. i think about it far more than once a day. not once a minute, but definitely more than just once a day.
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Old 2006-11-28, 06:20
oc6 oc6 is offline
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Some days I don't think about sex at all.
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Old 2006-11-28, 06:28
boomgetchopped boomgetchopped is offline
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theres no possible way to measure this...

85% of statistics are made up! Thats right exactly 85%!
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Old 2006-11-28, 06:39
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Most of the time while I'm at work doing some sort of mindless task my mind's off thinking about my boyfriend and how I want to tear his clothes off and.. mmm...

I'm not sure if I count though, being a teenager full of raging hormones, and still in the lusty lovey part of a fairly new relationship.

.... Not that I was much different before he came along. Yeah. Once a day is bullshit.
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Old 2006-11-28, 06:54
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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I last saw that oft repeated thexxth stat here: From the 'Daily Mail' 27/11/06 'Women talk 3 times as much as men".

wing men to become "deaf" to the most logical of arguments put forward by their wives and girlfriends.

But what the male brain may lack in converstation and emotion, they more than make up with in their ability to think about sex.

Dr Brizendine says the brain's "sex processor" - the areas responsible for sexual thoughts - is twice as big as in men than in women, perhaps explaining why men are stereotyped as having sex on the mind.

Or, to put it another way, men have an international airport for dealing with thoughts about sex, "where women have an airfield nearby that lands small and private planes".

Studies have shown that while a man will think about sex every 52 seconds, the subject tends to cross women's minds just once a day, the University of California psychiatrist says.

Dr Brizendine, whose book is based on her own clinical work and analyses of more than 1,000 scientific studies, added: "There is no unisex brain.

"Girls arrive already wired as girls, and boys arrive already wired as boys. Their brains are different by the time they're born, and their brains are what drive their impulses, values and their very reality.

[This message has been edited by moonmeister (edited 11-28-2006).]
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Old 2006-11-28, 07:00
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quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

...and their brains are what drive their impulses, values and their very reality.



I thought values were learned.
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Old 2006-11-28, 07:06
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quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

i'd wager that i think about sex more than most guys on this forum. :0

but i am not the average girl, i don't think.

Oh...oh...that is soooo a challenge!

For one hour I'm going to put a tick on a piece of paper every time sex is a prominent thought (as opposed to just a fleeting thought, otherwise it IS literally every minute).
 #13 
Old 2006-11-28, 07:12
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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I'd say yes & no? If you hear what somebody says differently it's going to affect how you behave? Let alone...

From Pravda: 11/26/06

During ovulation women fall in love with handsome machos but when it is over they prefer to stay with not really attractive but rich men.



Ovulation makes women fall in love with machos

Often, women take the reproductive instinct for real love. It is incredible but not women’s hearts but their menstrual period phases determine whom they may choose as objects of love and care. This is a conclusion that researchers from Michigan made when investigating female sexuality problems.

Men think that if they become cleverer, stronger, richer and more charming than others they will win more women’s hearts. However, they have no idea that at different times women love absolutely different types of men. To tell the truth, a woman has new preferences for a new type of a man every week. It is her female nature that dictates what type of a man every particular woman must choose as the sex object at a particular period. There are four basic types of men, the researchers state.
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Old 2006-11-28, 07:36
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Lies.. htink abot it more then that.
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Old 2006-11-28, 07:49
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Lies.. htink abot it more then that.

'Specially when you have been...dwinkin' eh?
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Old 2006-11-28, 08:09
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quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Lies.. htink abot it more then that.

Are you one of those people who mysteriously lose their ability to type coherent sentences when fucked up?
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Old 2006-11-28, 09:24
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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When I'm bored, I think about one of three things: sex, drugs, or food. So yes, I think about sex quite often.
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Old 2006-11-28, 09:31
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quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Oh...oh...that is soooo a challenge!

For one hour I'm going to put a tick on a piece of paper every time sex is a prominent thought (as opposed to just a fleeting thought, otherwise it IS literally every minute).

Okay...so I ended up masturbating twice, and thinking about sex too much to bother wtiting down.

Girls need to stop saying that "We have the same sex drive as a guy" or "we could keep up with you" because you can't! We're sex hungry mother fuckers. We'd chew off our own god damn foot to get some good sex.

Any way, girls just keep giving us false hopes. Or maybe just my girl's broken. I dunno.
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Old 2006-11-28, 16:21
Duck In Fog Duck In Fog is offline
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quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Okay...so I ended up masturbating twice, and thinking about sex too much to bother wtiting down.

Girls need to stop saying that "We have the same sex drive as a guy" or "we could keep up with you" because you can't! We're sex hungry mother fuckers. We'd chew off our own god damn foot to get some good sex.

Any way, girls just keep giving us false hopes. Or maybe just my girl's broken. I dunno.

Lol, your girl's broken.

And I can keep up with my guy.

It's not even a case of 'keeping up' because, to me, that makes it sound like you're having to put way more energy and trying incredibly hard to keep up with the guy.

i Think in the week I've been at his so far, we've had sex way over 25 times.

Does that even make sense? =S
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Old 2006-11-28, 16:31
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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Lord love a ... duck!
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Old 2006-11-28, 16:42
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quote:Originally posted by Duck In Fog:

i Think in the week I've been at his so far, we've had sex way over 25 times.

Now that's what I'm talking about...
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Old 2006-11-28, 17:36
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I think about sex on a regular basis, but as with everything...I'm not utterly obsessed. I have a hundred track mind, not a one track one; although, it can be one track every so often. It really depends on the girl.

[This message has been edited by Euda (edited 11-28-2006).]
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Old 2006-11-28, 17:38
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I'd say I think about sex every few hours, and drugs every other second.
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Old 2006-11-28, 17:50
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quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

Lord love a ... duck!

Fucking brilliant. Run for president or something.
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Old 2006-11-28, 17:57
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I have sex on the BRAIN.. it's eating away at me like some parasite, ruining my concentration and making me constantly horny. *sigh*
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Old 2006-11-28, 18:00
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Less if I take a shower before I leave. If not, a lot.
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Old 2006-11-28, 21:20
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I believe both of these figures are inaccurate. I personally think about sex every... say, 5-10 minutes.

and I know girls that think about it every minute
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Old 2006-11-28, 22:17
Sanguinius Sanguinius is offline
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My friends and I have an awesome inside joke. Whenever someone makes a statement and you recognize it as a possible sexual innuendo you lose the game, and make it known that you've lost. We love losing the game, and my less informed friends have learned quite a bit.
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Old 2006-11-28, 23:17
Twisted_Ferret Twisted_Ferret is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

I'd say I think about sex every few hours, and drugs every other second.

*bows to Rizzo*
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Old 2006-11-29, 02:00
Lost Nebula Lost Nebula is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

I'd say I think about sex every few hours, and drugs every other second.

Wow, that's so spot on with me it's scary.

Peace
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Old 2006-11-29, 03:14
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It depends on what I'm doing.

I think of sex when I'm at work, because the company uses sex to sell clothes. It's hard not to, with posters of half naked, decent looking people all over the store. Not to mention all the good looking people that work there... and all the managers are just so cute... mhmm...

And when I'm at the gym, I read when I'm cycling but I think about sex when I'm running, because those things make the time pass more quickly. But when I'm in class, at home, or out with friends, I might think about it once every hour or so.
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Old 2006-11-29, 03:17
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quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

That stuff about guys thinking about sex -ON AVERAGE- once a minute is so much bullshit.

I have a fairly healthy sex drive, and I dont think about it once a minute...Jesus, I'd never get anything done.

I can go for hours or days without thinking about it.

i so agree on that! it depends on the guy....for me, its more than once a min! like...99% of my life!
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Old 2006-11-29, 03:18
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quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

i'd wager that i think about sex more than most guys on this forum. :0

but i am not the average girl, i don't think.

"hey, baby, are you from heaven? cause i got an erection!"
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Old 2006-11-29, 03:55
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quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

I'd say I think about sex every few hours, and drugs every other second.
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Old 2006-11-29, 04:08
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I don't think that generalization refers to the actual act of sex. I think it refers to men thinking "sexual thoughts" once a minute. Like, "That girl has nice boobs." of "She's hot." But it is also bullshit that it says women think about sex only once a day. Even if it was the actual act they were referring to, it would be much higher.
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Old 2006-11-29, 04:15
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I think about sex throughout the day, but I engage in it about just as much.

E
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Old 2006-11-29, 04:30
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If i thought about sex once a minute, then technically half my fucks would be on pure instinct.
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Old 2006-11-29, 11:31
Duck In Fog Duck In Fog is offline
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quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Now that's what I'm talking about...

Haha, yea.

After we finished last night we were talking and he said he's never had so much sex and came in such a short period of time and thinks he need time to 'recharge his testicles' haha. Then we had sex...

But Yea, As to the topic: I think it all depends on what kind of day you're having. Like, if I'm in a mood that isn't particularly wanting sex I'll hardly think of it, but if I'm really really horny it's (obviously) all I think about for ages. So I think it can totally depend on the situation.
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Old 2006-11-29, 12:04
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I think about sex a LOT...But I admit it's become less often as I've aged. It also depends on the day, because sometimes I'll just be so...Antsy and thinking about it all of the time, but then other days I'll not think about it much at all.

It probably depends on if I had my head shrunk that day or not...:P
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Old 2006-11-29, 13:02
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I dont know about you, but at my workplace the entire day is spent walking around with everyone grabbing each others asses all day.

I wouldn't have it any other way

Maybe working with a bunch of sexual deviants makes my opinion biased, but I doubt it.
 
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