I dont have any fancy story to go along with this (though it might turn into one :P) but heres my story.

Im 17, and a virgin (male ofc). I smoke pot regularly, but when i think i might have sex, I dont smoke at all that day. Now, when im with my girlfriend, (who is amazing, in every way <3) I get rock hard when i'm fingering/eating her out, but when i stop that, and we wait a minute, i lose my wood, and she (being fairly inexperienced as well) takes a while to go down on me. So by the time she works her way down, often im not as hard as i was before, and dont get that way again.

So i was wondering if anyone knows of any home remedies to make a boner harder. I tried not fapping for a few days, but she hasnt gone down on me since i've done that, but i cant be fapless forever.

I know some guys (not from my experience, but because they have sex on pot/coke/whatever other drugs) who are able to keep it hard no matter what they're on. (or so i assume, maybe they couldnt get it up and are embarassed to say, im not sure) I would like to know if i can do this too, or if it just takes having sex frequently to do this, or....what? im not sure..

any replies would be great

thanks!

i got an idea for ya man, how about this- tell your girl that u want to engage in activity with her but not right now, that instead of fingering, or eating her out first , have her make the first move and do it out of nowhere that way u wont know its coming and youll be hard when it comes to to make love ehh

Be open with her, and see if she's open as well, be spontaneous and enjoy the moment...surprise her, but talk about it before hand to see what she likes and doesn't like, open communication i s the way to go pal, and if you cant get your erection to last, try something hot before hand, talk hot, undress her, tease her, etc..and she shouldn't hesitate to do that with you as well, I'm pretty sure the more foreplay the more aroused you two would be and the longerlasting an erection you'd pose.



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you sound like you're out of shape. yes its possible to be out of shape at 17 especially if you smoke pot regularly. just because you're friends can get away with treating their bodies like shit doesnt mean you can too.

do some cardio.

Better circulation helps.

So does pot (for me).

Work out your cock. Tense the muscle that you'd use to stop pissing. Do that, repeatidly. And hold it tensed the whole time you jack off.

Is your dick big? Bigger dicks have more trouble getting hard - more area to fill.

Guys, just as girls, need foreplay. Sure a guy gets a boner at the drop of a hat, but it isn't a sex boner. It's still a tad mushy. A good blowjob will fix that. Get her to furiously suck your cock.

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 11-28-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by arquin:



Guys, just as girls, need foreplay. Sure a guy gets a boner at the drop of a hat, but it isn't a sex boner. It's still a tad mushy. A good blowjob will fix that. Get her to furiously suck your cock.



Seriously. They need to teach that shit in school.

yeah 'furiously' was the perfect adverb.

quote:Originally posted by boomgetchopped:

yeah 'furiously' was the perfect adverb.

You're just angry because you're a virgin...

Stop living vicariously through others!

Thanks for all the quality replies! not even one bad one!

I'm gonna start running, i probably have a piss-poor cardio system..last time i ran a good distance was gr 10 gym class, im in gr 12 now, haha... im off to bed though! if anyone else has any tips, keep em comin!

I have the same problem...

but mine has a better story

When i was a bit younger me and my bf used to toss each oteh off, his was bigger then mine but incrediably hard and you couldnt squeeze it much, with mine you can squeeze a hell of a lot, i work out every 2 days, sit ups, running, press ups, but it doesnt get any harder, is it becasue i feel mine every day and his one was 'alien' to me?

Also i did the tensing and it felt really strange and it was a bit painful in a way i wanted to stop.



Jack.

A cock ring. It traps the blood to keep you hard and makes you harder.

can you make one?

so, you get turned on by eating her out/fingering her? try a 69? dunno if she'll do it, but it might work? or maybe constant stimulation?

Well i was trying to get her to 69 tonight, but she wont suck cock. no damn clue why, she never has, and i dont think she has any intention (she will though, ill see to that )

I had sex with her for the first time tonight, it was good, but pretty fast, haha. (my first time, havent fapped in over a week, after AT LEAST daily for many months before)

quote:Originally posted by ottomann:

Well i was trying to get her to 69 tonight, but she wont suck cock. no damn clue why, she never has, and i dont think she has any intention (she will though, ill see to that )

I had sex with her for the first time tonight, it was good, but pretty fast, haha. (my first time, havent fapped in over a week, after AT LEAST daily for many months before)

how bout a handjob?