I understand that looking badass, or at least different from average generally turns girls on, but I visited the HS I graduated from not too long ago and this chick walks into the room, looks at me, and says I "look like a killer." She may have been joking around because she seemed like a little bit of a clown, not neccessarily immature though. I made a quickie conversation so that I'd assure her that it's only a look. I also asked her if it was my bald head, or my facial expression, and she said it was everything. Any thoughts? She seemed cool btw. I may get at her the next time I'm up there.

I wouldn't be too worried about it, in your shoes.

Uh.....

Yes i am back!!!



OT:

uhh?

you seem "ghetto." i wouldn't be into that.

Ask her does the whole psycho thing turn her on?

quote:Originally posted by among_the_living:

Uh.....

I look rather intimidating. Does that clear it up for you?

Post a picture and we will be able to tell you.

But there is a difference between looking like a badass, and someone that would rape you in an alley.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

you seem "ghetto." i wouldn't be into that.

Ghetto? How so? Also, I don't have a camera right now but I can give a rough description if you want.

Go for the description. If it involves a leather jacket, you phail.

quote:Originally posted by $tinger:

Ghetto? How so? Also, I don't have a camera right now but I can give a rough description if you want.

it's the dollar sign in your username, coupled with the fact you used the expression "get at." however you have fairly sound grammar, which mitigates those factors.

If your blad grow it, if you havea beard shave it off, if your fat lose weight. if you drive a bike drive a car... give up smoking. hmmmm thats all you need to do.

quote:Originally posted by $tinger:

I look rather intimidating. Does that clear it up for you?

No, i got it int he original post, i just felt like replying with "uh..."

Seriously, why do you care? would you change how you look, grow hair, change your clothes if she did say you looked "too" badass?

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

If your blad grow it, if you havea beard shave it off, if your fat lose weight. if you drive a bike drive a car... give up smoking. hmmmm thats all you need to do.

I'm not all that fat, I shave my face and hair, but I'm not growing my hair back unless I get some Rogaine, or another hair regrowth product. I'm really thin at the top, so I shave my whole head. Believe me, I look a hell of a lot better with no hair than a little hair at the top. I like the way it looks at least, it gives me confidence which is as important as looks. I hear that I pull it off well too.

About the $ in my name, I just did that on an impulse, and "get at" doesn't seem ghetoo to me.

quote:Originally posted by among_the_living:

No, i got it int he original post, i just felt like replying with "uh..."

Seriously, why do you care? would you change how you look, grow hair, change your clothes if she did say you looked "too" badass?

Girls don't seem all that scared once I talk to them, so probably not.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

however you have fairly sound grammar, which mitigates those factors.

WTF!?

What does grammar have to do with anything!?

A lot of people would consider me ghetto just because I wear baggy close and have a lot of black friends. I don't have bad grammar. If you met me you would probably consider me ghetto but where I come from its completely normal. People confuse being hard with being ghetto. I am well educated and have a good job. You have to remember first impressions are usually wrong. Get to know someone before you pass judgment, and always remember, still waters run deep.

To OP.

Don't let it bother you what other people think about you, if they don't like you...well then FUCK THEM!

I can't give up smoking! that's all i have going for me in terms of badassery!

Sure she didn't mean, "You look killer"?

I cant say I'm particularly drawn to a guy that's clearly trying very very hard to be 'badass' and I certainly dont find real badasses to be attractive. They're simply that. Asses.

I have a good ass.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

I cant say I'm particularly drawn to a guy that's clearly trying very very hard to be 'badass' and I certainly dont find real badasses to be attractive. They're simply that. Asses.

I don't try to be a badass, but I am daring though. I'm also a nice guy, but not a "niceguy."

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

I have a good ass.

I know, I've seen it through you window with my night vision binoculars.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

I have a good ass.



I lol'd

I think a clean shaved bald guy looks tough... she might be sayign badass in a good way... and in the army they are all basically bald and they do look tough.

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

if you drive a bike drive a car...

The fuck? Since when did "Adventurous/mildly suicidal" mean "bad ass"?

I'm the farthest thing from it....and I ride a bike.

quote:Originally posted by KevinK:

Sure she didn't mean, "You look killer"?

She said "look like a killer." I told her I would do a hit for her on her birthday lol.

There is no such thing as looking too badass.

There are only two things that matter in life...how well you fuck and how well you fight.

The more you can avoid the latter the more you get the first one.

quote:Originally posted by JumpRopinJesus:

There is no such thing as looking too badass.

There are only two things that matter in life...how well you fuck and how well you fight.

The more you can avoid the latter the more you get the first one.



Come back when you've graduated middle school, kid.

it's probably the way you dress. you probably dress odd (no offense) just dress plain.

i didnt really get girls in highschool that much (could have had something to do with me never going), but now i do. and i met with people i went to highschool with, and they said it looked like i just got out of prison. and i actually am crazy.

i shave my head, and twist my goatee in nots (usually when i dont have anything to do with my hands). but i just dress plain. not like a fag metrosexual, and not like a nigger either.

so what do you dress like?

its totally possible to look like too much of a bad ass.

the cure for that is to have a huge ego...

oh wait....