Situation: My relatively new GF, 3 weeks on wed, and I were hanging out in her basement today. We were making out etc, and she was giving me a hj. she moved back a little, looked thoughtful for a min, and i said "yeah?", to which she replied "not here".

I'm really not sure what to do, as i have a lot of concerns about getting a bj. such as: having no stamina, her having no idea what to do, her not actually wanting to and just doing it to please me. and also that if she did go down on me, i would want to do the same for her..

But I'd still have some of the same problems: not knowing what to do, being bad at it, wanting to go down on her but not liking how she tastes, and not actually giving her an orgasm from it. do girls even get orgasms from head?

I'm just worried, as I've heard about girls not even getting orgasms from sex because their guy's couldn't last long enough, and I would hate to be that guy, for her sake.

A little help?

As far as receiving a blowjob goes. Just relax, enjoy it, make her feel safe after. Maybe give her a kiss or a hug. Reaffirm her.

As for giving oral sex. There are plenty of guides about actually doing it.

Yes women can get orgasams from it! They're so varied that some will, some won't, so don't be upset if you can't do it!

But not reaching a climax isn't that important if you make the mood right, if you cater to the emotional backdrop to the actual sex act.

So be nice, spend the day with her, lots of sensual slow undressing and give her a cuddle after.

Gl, hf.

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<LI> RELAX. You are worrying unnecessarily. Chances are it will all be fine.

<LI>Anyone who says 'making out' is too young to be having sex anyway :P </UL>