In the summer I was with this guy. We hung out every day all day. We used to fuck around, but we hung out like friends (I mean without fucking around) too. I did everything he asked. I never said no to him, not once. I did whatever he wanted.

But we could hang out normally too. Like hang out and listen to music, so he was one of my best friends. He used to call me all the time, and he actually talked too. We always had interesting conversations. We used to talk on the phone till 5AM. There was maybe 3 hours in a day that we didnt talk to each other. He acted all protective over me and shit like that like he honestly liked me.

Then suddenly he turns around and tells everybody im a whore and talked so much shit about me. He used to IM me and unsult me then post it in fucking myspace bullitens and blogs and act all immature. So yesterday I asked him why and he tells me "because you're a fucktard."

Im bloody confused.

Edit: Im not a slut. I never said no to him because I really, honestly, liked him a lot.



[This message has been edited by BloodyRevolutions (edited 11-26-2006).]

Simple answer: HE IS A WANKER!

You can play the 'what did i do wrong?' or the 'what is his problem?' game all you want but the simple truth is that he is an arsehole and is getting off by causing you emotional pain.

He's a sack of shit.

It sounds like his friends put him upto it and he's saying all this trash to 'save face'.

Don't waste another moment with people that don't make you feel good.

On a side note, if you want to really keep a guy, you've got to play a little hard to get. Eventually, having you accessable so often will get tiresome and there'll be nothing left to stay for.

Good luck.

You know what happened?

He told a friend about you and the relationship the two of you had. The friend told him that you were acting whorish, and he went "Wait, yeah...that is a little sketchy" OR was just doing it to be cool for said friend.

Either way, (and I know this is probably impossible) try not to take it personally. Its him being a douche, and has nothing to do with you. If you're telling us everything, then you didnt do anything wrong and you should stop worrying about it.

I had a friend who I talked to EVERY day. She lived across the street, so we'd go for really long walks talking, then we'd go home and talk on the phone. I didnt have a closer friend. Even imagining anything other than being the closest friends was just laughable. But...eventually, we stopped talking to each other and now we share the monthly MSN "hey".

Its a little more im depth for you, since there was a bit of fooling about, but my point is that these things happen. Sometimes is on purpose by one of the people, and sometimes it just...happens.

well, my diagnose is that he is simply a steaming pile of shit.

You shouldn't have set his cat on fire, whore.

quote:Originally posted by Shodan's Own:

You know what happened?

He told a friend about you and the relationship the two of you had. The friend told him that you were acting whorish, and he went "Wait, yeah...that is a little sketchy" OR was just doing it to be cool for said friend.

Never thought about that, but it sounds about right. Thanks.

quote:Originally posted by BloodyRevolutions:

Never thought about that, but it sounds about right. Thanks.



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