hey dudes. If anyone is interested in extensive background and real-time records of the development of this, I refer you to:

http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=15256 http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=15480

Basically im 20, generally happy with things, always solitary. I do everything alone, its how I prefer things. I had never been in a "relationship" with a girl etc - for several years I hadn't wanted to bother. Recently I met a girl who was really into me for some reason. It turns out she has a beard fetish etc, and loves muscular hairy dudes like myself. She is maxwet for t3h hair, tbh.

If you read that first link above, you can see how it all progressed and shit. Now I find myself really giving a very little shit indeed. I don't really mind about seeing her, and don't want to intimate with her. I generally have a very very low sex drive, although I get turned on plenty when we're "together" and shit.

I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with it all, tbh. When she tries to hold my hand and shit, its so fucking gay. I feel like such a faglord, its maxlame. I do like her, and I have fun talking to her etc - but generally I dont bother with other people. Theres only like 3 or 4 people from my life so far that I'd want to just meet with in an empty room and know we would have the most incredibly awesome time. She isn't one of them, tbh.

I *think* she is really into me.. she didnt want to leave me when I told her I was 24, and even when I convinced her I had a 2-year-old son. It seems she will put up with me being a whole lot shitter than I actually am atm. Although recently too, it seems she doesnt really want to see me much.

So hopefully we are both losing interest fast - its easier if thats the case.

Do you think I should like, drop it now, by just never initiating getting together, and certainly never touching her again?

btw for anyone who is actually interested in this kind of crap, you really must read the links above. It will give you uber insight into the situation.

Thanks dudes

If you think someone's 'into' you, go for it.

You obviously have nothing to lose...haha.

Theres always something to lose, and it will always cut you and take a pound of flesh along with copious amounts of blood and tears.

tbh?

quote:Originally posted by DirtyBlanket:

tbh?

To be honest.

You deserve kudos for the word "maxlame".

If you have no interest, don't lead her on. Talk to her about why you want to let it go. Take things from there. Listen to what she has to say.