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 #1 
Old 2006-11-24, 10:37
Chubchub Chubchub is offline
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Default yet another advice thread (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELP ME)

Okay, here's the deal....

My boyfriend is visiting me in a week...this is sort of the next step in our web-relationship (yes, he's an internet boyfriend, don't knock it till you've tried it)

i, perosnally, have never had any experiences whatsoever with anyone aside from myself.Never been kissed either.

he's 6 years older than me, and my parents are letting him stay here for 4 days...

obviously we'll get a bit of time alone together, but i'm nervous as to how i'll deal with the ever important 'first kiss'.He's confirmed that he doesn't want to have sex until marriage (catholic), therefore, i won't have to worry about that, though everything aside from actual penitration is open.

We're spending a night in San Fransisco, so that'll be a nice, cheesy romantic deal... i guess...

Please help me... any hints or anyhing that he may like? any do's or don'tsabout kissing...please be serious.
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Old 2006-11-24, 10:48
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Default Re: yet another advice thread (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELP ME)

Tongue is optional. Tongues make things get kinda sloppy. Sloppy is bad. Just have some romantic open mouth kisses, with minimal tongue.

Hmmm...just let him lead.

Btw, goodluck!
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Old 2006-11-24, 10:53
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Default Re: yet another advice thread (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELP ME)

Aww yay I'm so glad that you 2 are meeting - I've lost touch with you cause my nets to crap for vent.

Your'll do fine, I know you will ok man!

Just be gentle, not too sloppy, soft.. it'll just come naturally.
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Old 2006-11-24, 10:54
Chubchub Chubchub is offline
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Default Re: yet another advice thread (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELP ME)

>> so... no Llamma kisshes?
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Old 2006-11-24, 10:58
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Default Re: yet another advice thread (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELP ME)

quote:Originally posted by Chubchub:

>> so... no Llamma kisshes?

The secret to a great, lasting relationship is to be able to work through any problems you have, together.

If your first kiss is shit, so what? There'll be a second, and a third, and thousand more. So dont fret if it sucks.

He knows it's your first kiss, so girl, FUCKING RELAX. Is it his first kiss? If not, like I said earlier, get him to take the lead.

Have fun.

I'm off to shleeeeeep.
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Old 2006-11-24, 23:06
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Default Re: yet another advice thread (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELP ME)

I'm confused..

Arent you the girl who posted ages ago talking about how people reacted to you and your partners differences and how he was super skinny and you were kinda of fat?

I'm sorry if I'm getting you confused with someone else.
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Old 2006-11-24, 23:55
CatharticWeek CatharticWeek is offline
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Default Re: yet another advice thread (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELP ME)

I find with truly memorable, erotic kissing, less is more.

Just an idea, (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzvEn4QX9pw) (it's not for everyone).
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Old 2006-11-25, 02:13
Chubchub Chubchub is offline
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Default Re: yet another advice thread (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELP ME)

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

I'm confused..

Arent you the girl who posted ages ago talking about how people reacted to you and your partners differences and how he was super skinny and you were kinda of fat?

I'm sorry if I'm getting you confused with someone else.

Yes, I am
 
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