ok, so I am married.. been married for about 4 months. She went back to college this semester and made friends with a girl who is... not attractive.

Well this girl has a bf, a skinny little punk that I am debating on whether or not to beat up. He makes all kinds of comments to his GF how my wife is hot, and her but isn't huge etc. to this poor girl who looks like she has down syndrome. She obviously has low self esteem so she projects her frustrations on my wife, so then I have to hear about it.

Now! my wife left her myspace logged in and I saw she had a message so I was like what the hell and opened it. It was him asking her to hang out when his gf isn't around. I trust my wife to not cheat on me, but I still can't stand that this other guy is trying to mess stuff up. So should I beat the shit out of him, or talk to him. If I just talk to him how do I go about it so he gets my point, and it doesn't fuck stuff up between my wife and retard girl?

Just go talk to him about being an asshole in general...

You can talk to him about it or just tell him to stop talking to her or you will beat the poop out of him. Then if he is smart he will stop talking to her.

Beat the fuck out of him to show him you mean business. Then talk to him, he'll actually listen.

Talk to him first. If he doesn't listen, beat him. One thing at a time.

quote:Originally posted by Holy Shit:

Beat the fuck out of him to show him you mean business. Then talk to him, he'll actually listen.

I am probably going to beat the shit out of him, but I feel better about it now that other people say they would

Why not do the mature thing and hit him in the face with a Christmas stocking full of canned food?

quote:Originally posted by Vegetable Man:

Why not do the mature thing and hit him in the face with a Christmas stocking full of canned food?

i was thinking sock with roll of quarters, but that might work too

Nope, 8-ball in a stocking.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Nope, 8-ball in a stocking.

magic 8-ball

Nah, don't beat his ass.

Your emotions are controlling your mind right now. It's not the right thing to do. If you do it your wife will get all pissed and say something along the lines of "I can't believe you don't trust me and would go behind my back and beat up somebody that I wouldn't and won't have anything to do with".

First talk to her about your trust and respect for her. Inform her of your awareness of the fact that she's attractive, but if you feel threatened by any other male, you will instinctively take care of that, having nothing to do with your trust of her, but of him. I'm sure she'll understand.



You can't do anything about men finding her attractive. That's a good thing. I'm sure this won't be the last time either.

After this is taken care of perhaps exchange a few "kind" words with the dick. That's extremely disrespectful, assuming he knows she's a married women.

quote:Originally posted by sylph:

Nah, don't beat his ass.

Your emotions are controlling your mind right now. It's not the right thing to do. If you do it your wife will get all pissed and say something along the lines of "I can't believe you don't trust me and would go behind my back and beat up somebody that I wouldn't and won't have anything to do with".

First talk to her about your trust and respect for her. Inform her of your awareness of the fact that she's attractive, but if you feel threatened by any other male, you will instinctively take care of that, having nothing to do with your trust of her, but of him. I'm sure she'll understand.



You can't do anything about men finding her attractive. That's a good thing. I'm sure this won't be the last time either.

After this is taken care of perhaps exchange a few "kind" words with the dick. That's extremely disrespectful, assuming he knows she's a married women.

I am tired of his gf calling up MY phone and bitching that he likes my wife- hence me wanting to fix this problem. I'm not threatened by him because in a million years I don't think my wife would fuck this guy (even if she was single) I am debating on whether or not to post his myspace on craigslist on the m4m listings.

quote:Originally posted by Holy Shit:

Beat the fuck out of him to show him you mean business. Then talk to him, he'll actually listen.

QFT and what the hell

+1

Tell him you know exactly the kind of game he is trying to push behind your back, and to back off.

Personally if it was me, and I found out buddy was trying to lay some game down on the wife who was obviously taken, I would approach him about it with a glass bottle,

go chat it up like I said before, then

smash it right by his face.

what sylph said. god, she is so fucking smart for 14. or just in general.

Whatever you do, DONT tell your wife until afterwards.

If you do tell her, she will tell you not to fight him and it will make you look like an asshole if you do. What if he keeps on sending her messages/hitting on her? There will be nothing you can do!

Just go beat him, and tell her later. Say you felt bad and trust her, but was just so angry that someone like him would be wanting to destroy the relationship and treats his GF like that.

Again:

Do NOT tell your wife until after!

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quote:Originally posted by fray97:

I am debating on whether or not to post his myspace on craigslist on the m4m listings.

This wont actually achieve anything, but it would be rather funny.

Do a combination of both. Sit down with him act serious though not aggressive. And at the start say something like "I'm not going to lie to you. Your going to get your ass beat today." Say it in a very calm way. Then talk to him about how you dont appreciate what he's doing. Give him fair warning. Remember to not yell at all during the conversation. Then at the end beat him up. This way it shows reasoning and shows that you are not some pussy throwng nothing but words.

quote:Originally posted by fray97:

I am probably going to beat the shit out of him, but I feel better about it now that other people say they would

and every other guy who hits on ur wife?

guys hit on my girlfriend ALL THE TIME. asking her to go on dates and shit, even when s he says shes happily with me. she always turns them down, because she compares them to me and they arnt shit.

Smack his fucking skull in. Then talk to him. Then possibly kick his ass again, if you feel the need

I had a problem like this once, just don't ignore it and whatever you do will be fine.

Just go and talk to him, but in a sort of "I really don't like it when people talk to my wife like that. Makes me wanna throw people down flights of stairs. You ever had your neck broken?"

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Talk to him first. If he doesn't listen, beat him. One thing at a time.

QFT.

quote:Originally posted by LucifyRe:

and every other guy who hits on ur wife?

guys hit on my girlfriend ALL THE TIME. asking her to go on dates and shit, even when s he says shes happily with me. she always turns them down, because she compares them to me and they arnt shit.



and youre prepared to take that dude.....why?

quote:Originally posted by Holy Shit:

Beat the fuck out of him to show him you mean business. Then talk to him, he'll actually listen.