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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-11-23, 11:33
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Pogo 
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misogyny...
I can't stand the majority of the female gender. I feel that they whole psyche is built upon a foundation of manipulation and deceit, they care for nothing and the things they do it is always on superficial basis. I feel that they have absolutely no moral fiber in their bodies and most of them, are good for nothing but bearing children.
With that said I have many friends that are female, and a girlfriend. I know their is some truly amazing women in this world, I know the same can be said about men. I'm afraid my rage will lead to the end of the relationships I have with the women I respect.
What the fuck am I to do? I often tell my female friends I can't stand their gender and they take it with good humour, sometimes agree.
I even used to say to my ex-girlfriend that her friends we're lousy whores...
But I can't keep doing this shit. Do I suck it up and forget about this, in my opinon justified ideology or stand my ground and risk losing contact with some amazing people...
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#2
 2006-11-23, 11:39
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Re: misogyny...
Get over whatever traumatizing childhood event or series of events that caused you to feel this way.
Then realize that all people suck, it's not limited to gender or race or anything.
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#3
 2006-11-23, 11:40
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oc6 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Pogo:
Do I suck it up and forget about this, in my opinon justified ideology or stand my ground and risk losing contact with some amazing people...
Either, or. It's your choice to make, just like anything else in life. I suppose you could ask yourself what would make you happier, then base your decision on that. You seem to think that some girls are "amazing people", so you're probably not really buying into that "justified ideology" anyway.
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#4
 2006-11-23, 11:41
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Re: misogyny...
its the culture. Yes a lot of women are bitches, but also a lot of men, to the women's eye are pricks, so it pretty much evens out.
its like the different races. a lot of blacks i know act hard, but some of them are good people.
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#5
 2006-11-23, 11:44
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Pogo 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:
Get over whatever traumatizing childhood event or series of events that caused you to feel this way.
Then realize that all people suck, it's not limited to gender or race or anything.
quote:I know their is some truly amazing women in this world, I know the same can be said about men.
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#6
 2006-11-23, 11:45
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Re: misogyny...
Haha!! "their is some"
Anyway, then why the thread about all this anger toward women specifically?
Edit: Fixed quote for full effect of limited grasp on the English language.
[This message has been edited by firekitty751 (edited 11-23-2006).]
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#7
 2006-11-23, 11:55
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Re: misogyny...
I am also a terrible misogynist, thanks to some bad prevoius experiences. But I found out that the problem was with most of the females I was dating/having any kind of relation due to their age and lack of maturity.
Like finding out a girl of 16 was all about saying "I love you", etc yet trying to get fucked by an 20 year old. Or all those typical S&A situation where ome teenie whore complains about "liek OMG! I like Josh, but I kinda not like him, because I made up with Jim (wich I didn't liek), and now I am jealuz cuz Josh has a girlfriend and I want to sex him but Jim and I are gonna fuck this weekend. I really don't liek him but he has teh 12 inchezz pen0r, lol!"
Obvoiusly, I was reaching the line of needind psychiatric help. I'm telling you, if I let my emotions rule a little bit of my life, I wouldn't loose contact with possible amazing female. I'd be having a life sentence! I'd be the new Jack the (anus) Ripper!
So I finnaly realized two things: Now I EVER have ANY relationship with any female less than 18 years (and even those tend to be stupid, but that's because where I live mostly) and 2) I do absolutly NOTHING about my misoginy. Wierd, I can be sitting next to someone I hate and smile like anything's happening, but I believe that skill comes thanks to my terrible whishes for disproportionate revenge, so nothing new.
I hate most of women, but know what? I let them come. Depending of what comes of a 3 to 5 minute contact and conversation, I decide whenever that bitch is not a bitch or it needs bad treatment. And what is the bad treatment? Just not involving too much. I have a very, thin air-light, relation. Like more or less classmates.
You have to LEARN from your hate, before letting it slip into your mind and give you plans (that must be revised more than 7 times for success). Stay calm, and remember, women (especially teens) are like those critters from the film Aliens. You shoot one, and suddenly you got the whole swarm sorrounding you AND calling all other femals of the area on you.
That means, if you follow your instincts and burst out in insolts about how stupid is their gender and how much you hate them, w00t!, you succeeded in making them go away, but that will affect your girlfriend (if you're considering to stay with her) AND any other future relationships thanks to the gossip. I'd really prefer an assasination attempt than having to deal with female gossip and mind games.
And final notes: Thanks to previous bad experiences with females, I now suffer from anger management control. Well, I think so, because I'm always pissed, but whenever I meet stupid girls (like riding the bus and having to hear like 800 times "liek OMG! Soooo cuuuuuuttte!!") my blood boils.
But that's me, a happy sociopath! Whee!
Edit: Aww, shit! If I wrote this slamming my penis on the keyboard I'd have less terrible grammar!! No corrections though, it's intelegible yet.
[This message has been edited by Ronin13 (edited 11-23-2006).]
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#8
 2006-11-23, 11:58
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Pogo 
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Re: misogyny...
Really, is it necessary to flame me? Yeah, my English isn't too good, it's not some big revelation or anything. I've probably made a few mistakes in this post too.
I feel this way because the overwhelming majority of women I have encountered usually match up with the description on my first post. Not because of some traumatizing childhood event. Although it still stings when I think of when my sister threw my power rangers toys in the toilet :P
Why do people often accept racism so easily, but not this? I live a normal life and treat most people with respect, I just find it hard to find much to respect among women.
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#9
 2006-11-23, 12:01
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Pogo:
Really, is it necessary to flame me? Yeah, my English isn't too good, it's not some big revelation or anything. I've probably made a few mistakes in this post too.
I feel this way because the overwhelming majority of women I have encountered usually match up with the description on my first post. Not because of some traumatizing childhood event. Although it still stings when I think of when my sister threw my power rangers toys in the toilet :P
Why do people often accept racism so easily, but not this? I live a normal life and treat most people with respect, I just find it hard to find much to respect among women.
Read my post for Feck's sake!!
*bulying veins on forehead reaching critical mass*
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#10
 2006-11-23, 12:01
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oc6 
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Re: misogyny...
Just to clarify, are you actually talking about grown women or girls?
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#11
 2006-11-23, 12:01
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Pogo 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Ronin13:
I am also a terrible misogynist, thanks to some bad prevoius experiences...
Thanks, this helped a lot.
As I get older the ratio from morons to decent people balances out but it's not at the point where I can say my feelings are subsiding.
I'm talking about grown women and girls, but in retrospect most of the grown women my anger goes towards is a string of my Dad's girlfriends. And well... that's not a good place to be looking.
Maybe I am wrong. I just hope I figure it out before I'm alienated from the ones I do like. Plus, getting slapped gets old after the first dozen times on a friday night...
[This message has been edited by Pogo (edited 11-23-2006).]
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#12
 2006-11-23, 12:09
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Ronin13 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Pogo:
Thanks, this helped a lot.
As I get older the ratio from morons to decent people balances out but it's not at the point where I can say my feelings are subsiding.
I'm talking about grown women and girls, but in retrospect most of the grown women my anger goes towards is a string of my Dad's girlfriends. And well... that's not a good place to be looking.
Maybe I am wrong. I just hope I figure it out before I'm alienated from the ones I do like. Plus, getting slapped gets old after the first dozen times on a friday night...
Haha, no problem. I'm feeling moody today, so I'll keep posting till I reach the fine line of trolling.
And yes, I don't know if there is a mechanism in our brains that won't let us see how horribly overpopulated is the world with idiots per square metre, or perhaps that as older we get, idiots breed faster.
I'll post perhaps in Paranoid delusions ranting about how the goverment is making all women stupid so kids don't get laid, get angsty and either end up becoming emos and myspace suiciding or joining the army for Irak.
Oh shit, I'm loosing it again...
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#13
 2006-11-23, 12:11
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:
Get over whatever traumatizing childhood event or series of events that caused you to feel this way.
Then realize that all people suck, it's not limited to gender or race or anything.
Give me my god damn rib back.
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#14
 2006-11-23, 12:18
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oc6 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Pogo:
I'm talking about grown women and girls, but in retrospect most of the grown women my anger goes towards is a string of my Dad's girlfriends. And well... that's not a good place to be looking.
Yeah. Sometimes you need to look further than your own backyard.
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#15
 2006-11-23, 12:46
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Re: misogyny...
Heh, I feel that way about pretty much everybody I've ever met. I dislike most people for a variety of reasons, because I am apparantly suffering from "Antisocial personality disorder." It's not true, though, because I do in fact have a concience. I think I'm just shy, but you know how shrinks have to put a label on everything!
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#16
 2006-11-23, 12:49
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Re: misogyny...
Women are insane bitches.
Men aren't much better, though.
Just don't let it get to you, and remember how nice it feels to be ball's-deep in some pussy.
Not that you've had the chance... 
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#17
 2006-11-23, 12:51
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Re: misogyny...
I am a sweetheart.
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#18
 2006-11-23, 12:56
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Gus 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
I am a sweetheart.
...and if I was ball's-deep in you, I'd be thinking the same thing, I'm sure!
Well, maybe after I found your clit! 
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#19
 2006-11-23, 13:00
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oc6 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Gus:
...and if I was ball's-deep in you, I'd be thinking the same thing, I'm sure!
Well, maybe after I found your clit!
lol
Say good night Gus. 
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#20
 2006-11-24, 00:46
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Red Shift 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:
Haha!! "their is some"
Anyway, then why the thread about all this anger toward women specifically?
Edit: Fixed quote for full effect of limited grasp on the English language.
Hey Jill I'm a misogynist...Oh but i'm also a misanthrope.. 
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#21
 2006-11-24, 01:53
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
Give me my god damn rib back.
Nice.
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#22
 2006-11-24, 03:46
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Gus 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by oc6:
lol
Say good night Gus.
Not before I get my goodnight kiss! 
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#23
 2006-11-24, 04:04
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Re: misogyny...
Stop being a snob. There are retards of equal proportions in both genders.
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#24
 2006-11-24, 04:46
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Pogo:
What the fuck am I to do?
Get paid, get laid.
*click click*
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#25
 2006-11-24, 04:50
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
Stop being a snob. There are retards of equal proportions in both genders.
That may be true, but it doesn't change the fact that you're one of them.
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#26
 2006-11-24, 06:04
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oc6 
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Re: misogyny...
quote:Originally posted by Gus:
Not before I get my goodnight kiss!
Well then...good morning instead.
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#27
 2006-11-24, 06:31
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firekitty751 
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Re: misogyny...
I don't have a problem with people hating people (well, I do, but I can't stop it so whatever), but I have a problem with people hating people just because they belong to a specific group.
You're just restricting it all to one group.
How 'bout you make it an equal opportunity hatred?
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#28
 2006-11-24, 06:39
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Re: misogyny...
Topic starter: You sound like a whinny young teenage girl.
Please, I could pull out all the terrible things that men and boys have done to me, from my childhood to my adulthood - but do you think that I'd go to this extreme to hate them? Some women are cunts, and so are some males.
Maybe instead of judging a women, and going into a situation with the mindset that all women are bad, give them a fucking chance.
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